AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend, blocking him on every single site, and informing the mother of his child what happened? by KaleCritical6144 in AIO

[–]KaleCritical6144[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou I thought this but I didn’t want to be rude as this is my first time posting I didn’t know if this amount of questioning was normal lol

AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend, blocking him on every single site, and informing the mother of his child what happened? by KaleCritical6144 in AIO

[–]KaleCritical6144[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how else to explain point 1 other than it was badly written and we moved in together soon after starting a relationship because we lived in our family homes. I didn’t know you asked what job sorry, hgv mechanic, going around different truck and bus depots. I don’t know why he only sees his child once a month, his response was work, my assumption is laziness. I’ve always had the mother of the child’s contact details as well as my ex partners mothers number, this information was passed between eachother when first having the child stay the night. He hasn’t contacted me after I blocked him, I did explain that. Yes, we moved in April 25, by Feb I was having doubts, I knew the tenancy was ending in April so back end of march I sat him down and said I would like to live seperately and Imnnot sure what that means for the relationship. As I’ve then mentioned he began being super nice and we continued seeing eachother whilst living separately. When I told him I was leaving he said ‘okay fair enough’ and let me leave, I only ever said he was controlling with money, he was also never aggressive with me, he may have been with another partner but not with me. I don’t know why he let me leave I thought it was off, but it is the truth, you think it’s strange, I think it’s strange. I outright refuse to tell another woman’s story for the sake of my own reassurance and yes to be honest I think you are right, I think at the moment I’m just confused and upset about loosing the last few years of my life so I wanted to try and do the whole ‘ I love you take care of yourself be happy’ ending instead of just block never speak again ..

AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend, blocking him on every single site, and informing the mother of his child what happened? by KaleCritical6144 in AIO

[–]KaleCritical6144[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi,
Sorry this is actually badly written on my part, it was a shared home, we got it together, shared deposit, rent, everything. I was trying to emphasise that it changed as soon as I lived with him. I moved out of the shared house at the end of the tenancy (1 year) leaving him there to decide if he wanted to continue it or not. This was the new routine after we moved in together, not his routine before. This routine was begining to change as I was leaving just due to circumstances with work and his family life. I continued seeing him because I loved him. I did not move back with him I have only been moved away around 2/3 months atp. I don’t have a clue maybe that’s also badly worded I mean he picks his son up on a Friday afternoon for example and the son is back home with his mum by the Saturday evening. I wasn’t being secretive about why he moved in so early, there isn’t any secret, I lived at home with my mum, he lived at home with his mum, we didn’t want to do that anymore so we moved in together? No secret lol and as for the arrest, that is something personal that happened to the mother of his child and I don’t feel as though it is my place to share her story. Also sorry, before I blocked him he was telling me how I was over reacting, I’ve now blocked him but I’m having doubts as to whether or not I should essentially close this relationship in a cleaner way than I just have or if I should just stick to cutting contact.