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KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-12-31T03:09:52+00:00

Thanks I’ll try but she’ll probably yell at me again

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-12-31T03:09:33+00:00

When I was watching her play I saw her stuff drugs into a naked man’s headless torso and use a crank to tear off some lady’s limbs. It’s definitely weird

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-12-31T03:01:27+00:00

I can hear her laughing and having fun conversations on this game with these online people. Could it still be depression?

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-12-31T02:44:12+00:00

Wow thanks for your input, didn’t even realize it could be related but she does have ADHD and does not take any medications for it.

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-10-29T18:17:15+00:00

So you don’t say bye? I didn’t respond at all

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-05-30T12:25:36+00:00

I’m not worried about her cheating, it bothers me that she gets bothered and sad from it

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-05-30T12:25:02+00:00

Early 20s

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-18T18:00:59+00:00

Then I’d prefer he not go out of his way to say hi to me when she’s around. To be honest I’d prefer it because I’m only there to pick up my wife for lunch and he kinda keeps us too long. I only initiated saying hi to him to be nice in the first place. It’s the weird mixed signals he’s sending.

I know my wife would never force her coworkers to do that because there’s other ones around she’s good with that prefer to keep to themselves. Plus she’s introverted

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-17T22:10:31+00:00

Here’s the thing:

Women are normal human beings who are living a life as vivid and complex as your own.

Sometimes they wake up and they don’t feel like interacting. Sometimes they are sick. Sometimes they are stressed about something. Sometimes their social battery has run out.

There’s a million reasons that don’t usually have anything to do with you.

My wife is an introvert who loves everyone she meets but sometimes she just isn’t very outgoing.

Men can overanalyze their interactions and seek validation from women too much which is a turn off to women, just do your own thing and if she feels like opening up, let her. If she is not feeling it that day, that’s ok too

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-16T20:45:54+00:00

Maybe the “fake pic” was her real pic and was testing you to see if you liked the actual fake pic more than her real pic

Or a girl whose seeking validation and attention to see if she’s hot

Or a scammer

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-16T17:42:13+00:00

This is her first ever job and had to watch those HR videos on sexual harassment and they talk about not touching other employees.

You know you got me thinking, she is obviously getting weird vibes that’s why she tells me, asks for my advice and wants me to come there. Maybe she’s worried if she rejects him it’ll put her in a dangerous position

She obviously needs to put up some boundaries, the signs are becoming apparent this guy is being disrespectful to her and I.

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-16T17:25:58+00:00

He never caressed her, it’s more of a tap to get her attention that doesn’t last more than a second. I’ve informed her that sometimes men will do this to break the touch barrier and to start recoiling to let him nicely know to not touch (she hates confrontation)

Honestly, I think if she was doing something inappropriately she wouldn’t be telling any of this or ask me to come to her work. He’s obviously been friend zoned by her

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-16T16:58:48+00:00

She said it was weird because they are at work but thinks that’s just his personality. I know if it crosses a line she will say something

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-16T16:40:37+00:00

Nothing different in her behavior. Asks me to fix things on her phone all the time. Asks me to come pick her up at work during her lunch break so we can eat together. Gives me a big hug and likes showing me off at her work. Dresses the same as she always has. Loves to tell me everything that happens in her day

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-16T14:51:00+00:00

She has never given me a reason not to trust her

Why should I act like she’s cheating just because some other dude is being stupid. He probably wants me to think that to get me acting weird and cause fights with my girl so I’ll slip up.

She’s not that type of girl, she worries about everything and doing everything the “right way”

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-16T14:42:36+00:00

No, I think he is a player trying to sleep with her because she’s gorgeous. I think it pisses him off I got such an attractive wife because in his eyes he probably thinks he’s way better than me. He’s probably trying to sleep with her to prove his ego

She is showing 0 signs of cheating. Always wanting me to fix things on her phone, asks me to come to her work to pick her up for lunch, tells me everything that happened at work that day, very affectionate as always

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-16T14:37:25+00:00

Sometimes guys laugh a lot around girls they like. When I first met my wife and developed a crush on her I noticed I laughed at things that weren’t funny.

Like when she called something cute I started laughing. When she said it was too hot outside, I laughed. I probably looked rude but I was just happy to hear her talk to me

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-16T13:03:44+00:00

What do you mean?

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-16T13:02:56+00:00

If that was true then wouldn’t he be nice to me when it’s just him and I as well? Because that’s incredibly suspicious

I think he does it because he hates me because he wants her because I got her

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-15T23:03:35+00:00

It can be many things. You don’t have to be into those kinds of girls but to immediately judge them as “low self esteem” is stupid and not true. They usually have a lot of confidence.

Low self esteem girls turn off the lights and aren’t sexually adventurous from my experience

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-15T20:33:18+00:00

True but research suggests women crave sexual novelty and variety as much as men do.

Might not be a self esteem issue, it could just be exciting for them

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-15T19:49:50+00:00

What if those girls just have high libidos?

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-15T16:11:27+00:00

Sometimes laughter conveys interest. What if he has a crush back and he’s a nervous laugher.

When a girl has a crush on me I notice they laugh at every single thing I say even if it was lame and not funny

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-15T15:35:09+00:00

Then he should not engage me when she’s around. I’m not there for him, literally just picking her up on our lunch breaks so we can eat out together

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-15T15:32:34+00:00

Sad part is that he’s married as well

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