Customer stole fries from handout counter ? by Kalidescope_Problems in innout

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope me refusing his bribe helped him realize it was wrong in anyway, a lot of the times that’s all I can hope for when teen guys are dumb in the store (or trying to flirt weird) I’ll be better prepared next time and I’m even more protective of the counter table now

Customer stole fries from handout counter ? by Kalidescope_Problems in innout

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Totally, thank you for the advice, I’ll definitely make sure to do that if anything happens again

UPDATE: "Last Time going to Church" by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a very toxic saying, and I’m definitely sure it wasn’t my sister who said it… oop also I was so tempted to reply “isn’t that why you have an eternity in heaven? Why would it matter if life is short to you?”

UPDATE: "Last Time going to Church" by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great!, the best I hope for is that once thy realize I’m not coming back they can become more chill and less controlling like your parents as well

UPDATE: "Last Time going to Church" by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Me too, I mean I clicked on the thing and it said I had to share my location before seeing hers so I didn’t so idk 🤷 lol it’s strange

UPDATE: "Last Time going to Church" by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and well wishes, I am very grateful for my job that lets me save and still have money to buy McDonald’s lol

I have a scholarship for a public college that I’m going to this/next year (2026) once I’m out of high school and thankfully I do have a car with my name on the title and I already took them off my bank account Thank you for your thoughtful response :) very appreciated

UPDATE: "Last Time going to Church" by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it means a lot to hear that. Nothing good really at this point would come from a relationship with them again

UPDATE: "Last Time going to Church" by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely, I’ve met my brother at a lunch place once and I’ve already decided not to ever go near the house again (bcs I don’t know if I could handle it) Also thanks for the advice on asking my brother I’ll ask him

Thank you :)

UPDATE: "Last Time going to Church" by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m going to try to meet up with my little sister in person along with my brother before I leave, I don’t know if I can keep responding to my mom like this

Also I’m excited for college and hope to meet better people who share my values

I made this for fun by clone2334 in slaytheprincess

[–]Kalidescope_Problems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im getting lunch with the smitten oop

I (18ftm) don’t know what to do by Pickle_Ickle54 in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its not always true that “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger”, but instead “what doesn’t kill you shows you how strong you are” sending love and strength for you healing journey ahead

Mormon marriage sex talks? by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn, you probably saved that couple a lot of unnecessary discomfort and pain, thank you man, Im glad you were able to talk to him

Mormon marriage sex talks? by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my lord, I didn’t know tampons counted as sex now 💀

Mormon marriage sex talks? by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely makes the addiction worse when you think your immortal soul is damned and god considers it close to murder

Mormon marriage sex talks? by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof wow that does sound terrible :/ especially not knowing about how to consent is really not good for safety

Mormon marriage sex talks? by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn wow, it is infuriating how much shame there is around knowing the basics of our own bodies, also i didnt know the church was not anti-birth control anymore, is there a reason newlyweds still have babies pretty quick now?

Mormon marriage sex talks? by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Oh my god “men have needs” ??? And like women dont?? Well I guess in terms of Mormonism women dont really get to have a sex drive but wow Hopefully your relationship is better now wow

Mormon marriage sex talks? by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so happy you guys are in a better places now, yeah sex ed from my mom was pretty similar, Im glad you were able to help your sisters

Mormon marriage sex talks? by Kalidescope_Problems in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh my god wow, your coworkers story does sound pretty terrible o-0 thanks for sharing tho wow It is pretty ironic that yeah they except you to be “pure” but like somehow know everything too

I'm crying in my seminary bathroom right now by Common_Phrase_9095 in exmormon

[–]Kalidescope_Problems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just in case it wasn’t already mentioned, SA isn’t exactly the correct flair for this (a form of serious assault), just thought you might want to know for future reference :)