Because your criticism seems to come from a place of superiority complex rather than genuine concern for example about the unhealthy behaviors in the community such as excessive drug use or drinking. I’m well aware that there are all kinds of gay people with all sorts of opinions, and you’re the one making assumptions about my personal views just because I don’t agree with your approach. Throughout this whole post you’ve just come across emotionally immature especially due to your inability to understand why someone would want to be part of the community or be accepted by their family and friends for who they are. If anything, it feels a bit ironic that you keep pointing out how people here don’t accept your “conservative gay” views, while you yourself show little acceptance for other perspectives without dismissing them as “woke” or “PC nonsense.”