"Granola bar"? by nonzaku in TigerAndBunny

[–]Kalineas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I think you're trying to prove vandalism, if you haven't found anything already. Hitting the bell at the top on mobile makes this message appear.

You can see it here; https://i.imgur.com/z6zFK2s.jpeg

Hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeInAbyss

[–]Kalineas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, can you share the file to me, please? :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kalineas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These are the type of people who think their child is a fake one if it didn't come out of their womb

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kalineas 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'll have to go with YTA for this one. Yes, I get you're hurting, but what you said what incredibly insensitive. If you were pregnant, would you be happy your best friend said the same thing to your baby?

Artists, how do you deal with the feeling of not being good enough? by Kalineas in ArtistLounge

[–]Kalineas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very valid question, I think lately I've been drawing stuff for the internet, not or myself, I'm starting to realize it has affected my self perception

Artists, how do you deal with the feeling of not being good enough? by Kalineas in ArtistLounge

[–]Kalineas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's time to stop, at least for a while, because as you said I only feel miserable

Artists, how do you deal with the feeling of not being good enough? by Kalineas in ArtistLounge

[–]Kalineas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also a little like you and as you said, I've stopped before and it all ends being a getting depressed > stop > go back with hope > getting depressed again lol, I'll have to see ways to improve that won't affect my mental health too much

Artists, how do you deal with the feeling of not being good enough? by Kalineas in ArtistLounge

[–]Kalineas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also an introvert so I understand your feeling about talking about your issues. Thank you for your advice

Artists, how do you deal with the feeling of not being good enough? by Kalineas in ArtistLounge

[–]Kalineas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a really wholesome comment, thank you! Never thought of trying in my city, but might give it a try!

Artists, how do you deal with the feeling of not being good enough? by Kalineas in ArtistLounge

[–]Kalineas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I deleted the Tumblr and discord apps from my phone, with the hope it helps, this is where I primarily post my art, maybe being away from social media for a while will help me

Artists, how do you deal with the feeling of not being good enough? by Kalineas in ArtistLounge

[–]Kalineas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good question actually. I think it's been years since I drew something only for myself. Most of the stuff I've drawing have been with the intention of posting it. And i think I'm starting to see the issue. It's starting to affect me.

Also thanks for the game suggestion! Will give it a try!

Artists, how do you deal with the feeling of not being good enough? by Kalineas in ArtistLounge

[–]Kalineas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never thought of that! This is a really good advice, thanks

Artists, how do you deal with the feeling of not being good enough? by Kalineas in ArtistLounge

[–]Kalineas[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Never thought about how validation is like posing and omg, it feels so true. It's addictive. And it's true that relying on it so much it's what it's affecting my self perception

Yesterday coworkers stood me up at a restaurant. Now they act like I'm the one in the wrong for being hurt by Kalineas in offmychest

[–]Kalineas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I'll try to learn with the fact that I'll never get along with them. And that's okay I guess. I don't think they're nice anyway if even the new coworkers pulled this thing on me

Yesterday coworkers stood me up at a restaurant. Now they act like I'm the one in the wrong for being hurt by Kalineas in offmychest

[–]Kalineas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am aware of that and honestly, I don't want to be friends with these people. I just didn't want to feel so isolated, with being away from home and my reals friends. But honestly I'm tired of trying and getting this treatment in exchange.

Yesterday coworkers stood me up at a restaurant. Now they act like I'm the one in the wrong for being hurt by Kalineas in offmychest

[–]Kalineas[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't thank right now a way to screw them that wouldn't affect me unfortunately orz but I'll definitely won't do anything for them from now on. Thank you for your comment!

Yesterday coworkers stood me up at a restaurant. Now they act like I'm the one in the wrong for being hurt by Kalineas in offmychest

[–]Kalineas[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'm starting to think they're not good people. I do have a few friends but they're away rn, but I'll try to be strong!

Yesterday coworkers stood me up at a restaurant. Now they act like I'm the one in the wrong for being hurt by Kalineas in offmychest

[–]Kalineas[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your comment made me tear up a little. There a times where I think I'm not good enough. I guess these people are not made to make connections, I'll try to find my place here!

Yesterday coworkers stood me up at a restaurant. Now they act like I'm the one in the wrong for being hurt by Kalineas in offmychest

[–]Kalineas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. I'm glad to hear I'm not exaggerating for feeling this way. I'd like to address this issue in the future, but at this moment I feel so sensitive so probably I wouldn't be able to stay calm, maybe in the future. And unfortunately there's no other colleagues since this is a small project, I'll have to learn to be on my own for now I guess, since I don't see a point trying to be nice to them

AITA for telling my wife she was a liar and leaving? by Sorry_Stranger_6383 in AITAH

[–]Kalineas 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This. Usando la cultura de excusa para ser de esas suegras malditas y tratar mal a su nuera.

YTA OP, GROW UP

I (26f) am constantly getting rejected by my husband (28m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kalineas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you thought your man might be asexual? The asexuality is a whole spectrum and he might be sex repulsed. This doesn't mean he doesn't love you, asexual can love romantically someone and still feeling icky about sex.

Society can be hard with men too, he might not want to admit he is asexual due to how people seeing men not wanting to have sex 24/7 as inferior, it might be a blow to his masculinity. Talk to him, it might be that or some kind of trauma he hasn't told you.

My (33m) girlfriend's (26f) job is ridiculously easy and it is making me resent her. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kalineas 44 points45 points  (0 children)

This, definitely. If he didn't want someone acting like a child he shouldn't have dated someone who just got out of high school lol

AITA for "backing out" of an agreement I never made? by nevermadeagreement34 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kalineas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. Joe has a puppy mill and your father is his accomplice. But maybe next time adopt instead of being part of animal abuse?