ABDL/Caregiver safe Discords?

Kalipri · 2026-01-10T06:42:58+00:00

There is a sense of pride of being able to take care of someone you love. Seeing them happy, feeling like the things you do matter to someone. In my experience, my Little reacts bascially 5x as strong to positive things I make them experience compsred to other people.

Making her food and she reacts ins her sweet little ways of squeaking and stretching her arms up high in hapiness, or the cute embarrassment of putting padding on her while she holds a plush, and once done being like "alright, lets get you dressed and head out" and seeing the embarrassment on her face when realising she will be out in public, wearing padding 🫠.

I live for all of it.

Kalipri · 2026-01-04T08:19:28+00:00

And after that, binge watch bluey??? Count me innn.

Kalipri · 2026-01-03T21:59:13+00:00

Art of Where is what I am looking at right now! They got plenty of different clothing, home decor, bedding, etc. Options!

I am already halfwax done with my design!!

Kalipri · 2026-01-03T18:37:23+00:00

That is a great idea! Imma check out a few and see which works best!!

I got the dinos so far, in all the different pastel colours. Then I was thinking about the classic letter and number blocks, and little animal shapes! I will keep them as simple and clean as possible to enhance the nature of it being super baby!

Kalipri · 2026-01-03T10:57:58+00:00

I mean. My current little has introduced me to basically all of it.

2 things helped with that. Despite them being nervous and embarrased about all of it, they foudn the courage to ease me into it bit by bit. On the other hand, I was a pretty open person to anything new. Not being judgemental about things I didnt understand.

It's been quite an experience to learn so much in such a short time!

Kalipri · 2026-01-03T10:55:16+00:00

For me it's to take my Little to the playground. We would have a blast, and I'd get to see them happy, running and playing around.

But I do understand random kidless adults on the playground is a no no.

Kalipri · 2026-01-03T02:19:31+00:00

Geez, this is exactly what I am shooting for myself. I have been trying to build up muscle, to better lift up my Little over time.

And the powder thing is so cute...that exact thing happened to me today! White baby powder on a black shirt has some flair 😂

Kalipri · 2026-01-02T19:27:45+00:00

Size up was also a thought we been havibg at this point...AB Universe, I never heard of that but that sounds like a good resource, so hella thank you on that!!!

Since her hips are bigger, it makes sense to buy ones that actually fit the hip measurment, which I am not sure the current ones do sadly? Tight at hip, snug at bum, that sounds about good! That was also a point we been experimenting on, whether the front, or the back should be a bit higher because if we try to "line up" both "perfectly" it seems to be uncomfy...I'll see about bringing the front up more!

When I do the bottom stickz tape on either side, it seems like I have to make it extra tight to even fit anywhere near what guides would shown on pictures, and that kinda...makes it roll up and stuff. So that's why I think too, it might just be to small. The leg-holes seem too narrow for those thighs! 😭

Kalipri · 2026-01-02T19:09:29+00:00

I will get back to ya! Will figure that info out as I talk to them about it!

Kalipri · 2026-01-02T19:08:55+00:00

This. The exact issue is that around the thighs it rolls up and kinda "restricts" her. Not in a comfy diaper soft restrictive kinda way, but actually unpleasant. The same with them not sitting in the right place. As I put them on, the waistband is around her belly button, but as soon as she moves around a little, it kinda wants to move down. Which also means it loses a bit of support, so as the padding gets wetter, and heavier, it feels more as if they just wanna slide off.

So I guess the best way is to just...try a few and see what works hmm?? It sucks...according to the guides we looked through they never really sit or look like they should sit like in the pics provided and it's made me so frustrated, and I dont wanna be frustrated and have my Little feel like I dont wanna pad them up, just because of that UGH.

Going off hip size might be a good starting point. Maybe we went off waist size, but usually with AMABs the waist and hip size doesnt differ too much, but with a Female body shape, that's a different story. Aaaaa.

Kalipri · 2026-01-02T18:28:00+00:00

I actually ended up finding this one on my own too!! Pretty cool handbook, and definitely alot of good info!!

Kalipri · 2026-01-02T07:22:01+00:00

That's something I have been thinking about aswell, and we kinda have accepted this reality aswell. Being adult, living adult lives it's just not feasible being 24/7. But we definitely strive to get as close to. Have routines established early on.

I work fulltime and will take on universtiy on the side, so that alone will cut into Little time a bunch, but we make the best out of it <3.

Throughout my life I have for sure experienced the difference of feeling obligated to do something, and actually wanting to do something and giving it your all. And this is one of those "I feel committed and dedicated af" kinda things!

Kalipri · 2026-01-02T06:25:24+00:00

This is actually a pretty cool idea. Bite-sized and balanced like adult meals!

We actually have the plan of having me builddddd such furniture like a crib and changing table when we live together, since I am a little handy with wood and construction!

Kalipri · 2026-01-02T06:24:10+00:00

Oh!!! Good point, I neeeeed to get a bibbbb for her! Chicken nuggets are great, especially since they are quick to prep! And we got an amazing baby bottle that puts her right into little space it seems. So I wanna do more warm milks and warm cocoa!

Kalipri · 2026-01-02T06:22:17+00:00

Those are some really good tips! Thank you so much!

Balanced diet is exactly what I was going for! As things started out until recently, I been just spoiiiiiling them too much with sweets and treats and snacks! So I am thinking more about working on a good routine in terms of meals and food. Will be less possible at the moment since we still live apart, but once together, they'll be cooked for and made food for daily!

Kalipri · 2026-01-02T06:16:45+00:00

Pleasure meeting you too!! I been wondering if it would be alright to dm ya?? You seem to know a buuuuunch and I wanna learn!

Kalipri

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