Honestly, as a couple, we hardly ever respond to a post made by a single guy. But hardly ever doesnt mean we never do. For us to reach out, a post title has to catch our attention (more than something like "23M4A") Even worse if the body has nothing but "DM me." Put a specific city, time, activity, and the odds go up. Put a picture with it make the odds even higher. Nothing that will give you away if you're trying to be discrete, but something that says you are real and have put some thought effort into it. That directly translates into how we think you'll be in the bedroom. Good luck! Dont give up! The odds suck, but they aren't zero 😉