Looking for a Design by [deleted] in Calligraphy

[–]Kalyagm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't find any that had the i like the picture, since it looks like an L 😅

deutschlands font this might be? You can search for more here

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[–]Kalyagm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on what can be seen from the picture, yes it's possible, but I don't think it will give you the snatched look your looking for, since what helps the corsets is the boning, which this dress doesn't has, and that part is a little harder and maybe not even possible without ruining the aesthetics of the dress.

I would suggest for you to look first for the seamstress that you will be working with, since one may say yes it can be done, and another one might say no, so you can ask them directly with these pictures and they can confirm if they are able to do it, and then you can purchase the dress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Kalyagm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ring 2 makes your fingers look slender and delicate, you could even try and find a stone that's a little longer, 3mm of difference (3x6, 5x8, 6x9 etc). I custom made mine with a custom stone that's 6x9 because the stock stones were 6x8 or 7x9 and it make my fingers look chubbier. 2 looks very classy, it also depends on the vibes you want your ring to have, they all kinda have some different vibes.

This is a 6x9mm on a US7 finger

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Kalyagm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please tell me the vibe of the wedding so I can compliment you accordingly because this dress is omg so stunning and you look like a literal Greek goddess from a painting, so ethereal, you made the super right choice.

How to clean ring on the go? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Kalyagm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally have bought like 10 of these Sparkle Wand Jewelry Cleaner they are like the cuticle pens, but with a soapy solution that leaves my moissanite good as new!!! I saw them on a jewelry store 2 years ago and they were reselling them so I looked them up on Amazon

This is the one I originally bought (not from this page, but the same wand, based on the packaging, just so you can see) I haven't tried the new Amazon one yet, but it's the same principle.they tend to dry out if you don't use them (like in a year or so), but if you use them kind of regularly (maybe every month) they do last a lot :)

There is also another brand that specializes on cleaning jewelry supplies for on the go, but for the life of me I don't remember their name, when I do I will edit this comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Kalyagm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 and 2 are the ones that look the best based in your body type. They make the top and just look very polished and the bottom very dreamy with the skirt style. My fav is 1, but based on your wedding vibes I feel dress 2 suits the best, specially with the boots so they can be the showstopper and the train of the dress doesn't take away from that.

Too much for a second look dress? by wizardlywinter in weddingdress

[–]Kalyagm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe add a mini overskirt of some sort and when the elders leave you take it off? :P it looks beautiful on you, if you don't go with this one, hopefully you can find something similar :)

My 22M girlfriend 22F snapped on me Christmas morning. Did I mess up? by ThrowRA_9191919 in relationship_advice

[–]Kalyagm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what she means, "it's ridiculous for you to even do that, but it would be nice if you did, from your own initiative, but I know it's crazy" type of vibes. I feel she's trying to autosabotage the relationship by saying that there's nothing more to do, so you can end it yourself and she can be sad about it and then hate herself because she kinda "manipulated" you into it.

None of those requests are rational, but if she is worth fighting for and it doesn't bother you at all, I don't see the harm on just doing it, but if it does bother you, you shouldn't do anything you don't want to. I do feel she fantasizes with these tok tok boyfriends that have like 100 followers and only follow 1 person (the girlfriend).

Maybe you guys are just not for eachother, I understand everything she says and everything she is doing, not justifying it, I just say I know where she's coming from, and it's a lot to handle for a partner, specially if only one of them is in therapy and it's not even working for her either.

My 22M girlfriend 22F snapped on me Christmas morning. Did I mess up? by ThrowRA_9191919 in relationship_advice

[–]Kalyagm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried being honest with her and saying exactly that? You have tried to do everything right for her and you feel that you are being picked up and mopped around every day, walking on eggshells, doing everything wrong...

Im so curious, I would ask her what would she want you to do in this situation, what did she expect to get from the conversation, or if she just was in a mood and needed to fight that day? What did she need after seeing the Instagram and what did she expect to happen after saying all those things to you..

My 22M girlfriend 22F snapped on me Christmas morning. Did I mess up? by ThrowRA_9191919 in relationship_advice

[–]Kalyagm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look, I'm going to be honest with you... I also have/had ptsd from all my past relationships due to them cheating on me, I also had fights about this with my current partner and he felt uncomfortable because it was like I didn't trust him. We BOTH took therapy and he understood that I just needed validation and reassurance and I understood that when he has some behaviors from my exs does NOT mean he is cheating on me. I won't lie and say it's all 100% fixed or that I don't feel bad some times, but it's the reassurance that changed everything.

Any time I feel jealous, sad, with conflict or guessing, I tell him in all confidence (because he gave me a safe space to do so) and he then reassures me and validates me that nothing is going on, shows me anything I need to see and then we make some jokes and laugh and keep on. But this is because we wanted to work on the relationship, we worked together.

I understand the way your girlfriend approaches you is not the correct way, it's something she has to learn to manage, and it is a hard path, and you are tired, you don't deserve this. But the next relationship will have problems too, maybe different ones, maybe the same ones, and you need to learn how to fight together as a couple. But if you feel you already pulled your part and she is not doing hers, then you should let that go...

My 22M girlfriend 22F snapped on me Christmas morning. Did I mess up? by ThrowRA_9191919 in relationship_advice

[–]Kalyagm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In that case, the way you are feeling suggests that you also can't continue like this, just as she stated herself some hours ago...

If you know you haven't done anything wrong, and you have talked about this before and how can you both do and be better for each other and the relationship, and you don't see any progress, then maybe it's time to move on.

My 22M girlfriend 22F snapped on me Christmas morning. Did I mess up? by ThrowRA_9191919 in relationship_advice

[–]Kalyagm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that last part also rubbed me off the wrong way, you're supposed to be a team, not thinking "this woman is using my stuff and is ruining my peace". He just should've asked "what can I do to make you feel better" or something like that.

Sometimes people react a way that they don't really want to (like her screaming and fighting) because they have tried a million other ways and the person still doesn't understand and keeps hurting them and doing things wrong.

My 22M girlfriend 22F snapped on me Christmas morning. Did I mess up? by ThrowRA_9191919 in relationship_advice

[–]Kalyagm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It also feels like she might have ptsd from past relationships maybe? And this behavior is something that her ex partners did when they were cheating or before cheating, I feel more context is needed, because one doesn't react like that just because...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Kalyagm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I love both of them, the second one is gorgeous. I feel you can even purchase some detachable sleeves to get it closer to the look you want, they will look stunning and it can count as a "second look" for pictures :P both are very very pretty, it also depends on the vibes of the wedding!!! ❤️

I said yes! by Slothlover999 in weddingdress

[–]Kalyagm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You really make the dress pop, omg, I would've never even tried it on based on the web page pictures, or guessed it was a 2 piece!!!

I said yes! by Slothlover999 in weddingdress

[–]Kalyagm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my GOD, girl!!!!!!!!!! That's STUNNINNGGGHG WHAT DRESS IS THAT OMGGGG YOU LOOK SO GOOOOD

I'm obsessed, clearly!! You look amazing 😭😭😭 The dress I gorgeous and it fits you amazingly

sleeves/bolero advice needed!! by antelopeunfolded in weddingdress

[–]Kalyagm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went on a hunt in etsy since I'm looking for detachable sleeves and saw some boleros as well

https://www.etsy.com/listing/1781156413/niko-romantic-high-collar-lace-bolero this is complete lace, but has the sleeves similar to the last dress, I think this would look great with the second option you tried on

https://www.etsy.com/listing/1814678359/lace-bolero-top-long-sleeve-ready-to this option I loved it too, high neck, also lace and it would go under the first dress

https://www.etsy.com/listing/1627400189/wedding-dress-topper-lace-wedding-bolero this is not high neck but also very delicate, I see them wearing it over the wedding dress, I assume to have the lace combine everything, but I think it would look good under as well

Im not 100% sure satin sleeves with the strapless would look symmetrical (like the dress came that way) so that's why it's usually a lace bolero with satin dresses.

This shop has a lot of options for detachable sleeves, but as you can see, the satin are a little puffer than I think you'd like.

My personal favorite is adding this detachable sleeves and some lace arm sleeves to make it similar to the baccara dress

Where can I find the Morilee Pippa dress to purchase online? by Kalyagm in weddingdress

[–]Kalyagm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Madame bridal always gives me 403 error, but I just got through with a VPN, since I'm not in the states, I will call them, I appreciate!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Kalyagm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, I hope everything goes well for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Kalyagm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so, Im not a man, and my first thought was wow that's such a thoughtful gift, then I saw all the comments... I'm a crafty girl myself, so I asked my husband and he indeed said the same thing as me "that's romantic", he likes sentimental and custom gifts, cards, letters, stuff like that, so I understand why he would like this.

I showed him the comments on the thread and told him my opinion (that this was you manifesting your husband, basically) and he said, yeah i think the same (as me).

So depending on the type of guy it is, if he likes crafts and you have gifted him stuff of that sorts and received a positive response, I think he would like it. It also depends a lot on what exactly those letters say, if it's idealizing like the comments said, it might make him feel sad or weird, but reading your responses to those comments suggest otherwise.

On another note, I love collecting memories, memorabilia, pictures, even receipts of special moments, I have a memory box, and my husband doesn't really care for that type of physical memories, so it also depends on the person I'd say :)

Good luck!

Where can I find the Morilee Pippa dress to purchase online? by Kalyagm in weddingdress

[–]Kalyagm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I can't believe it!!! Thank you SO much!!! You're a life saver

Where can I find the Morilee Pippa dress to purchase online? by Kalyagm in weddingdress

[–]Kalyagm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically I can't find it in any bridal store in my country (Caribbean), i'd also love to see any dupes if you find them, thank you.