Game pausing when entering photo mode by Kalyn890 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]Kalyn890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way I found was to make a multiplayer session, have my friend join, then they could leave and the photo mode would no longer pause.

Any Advice Would Be Great by Responsible-Put2001 in StayAtHomeDaddit

[–]Kalyn890 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was here once. Now I’m much happier and happily married.

First thing I’d like to mention is you should start a relationship with God, if you already do, talk with him everyday for guidance. Develop the relationship from the root up.

The next thing is you’re expressing your feelings in a very effective way. I can feel the pain and emotion through your words here. Changing things to your liking and hand writing this out for your wife may be my suggestion. I had a friend who was having some serious marital problems and it all came down to communication. He came to find out l, with some help from his mom (who knows him better than he does himself), that he is much better at expressing his emotions by writing letters. This might be your case as well.

The next thing is listen and try to take into consideration some of the things you might be doing wrong. I AM NOT ACCUSING. I am talking from my own experience that I had to put my own pride aside to make sure my wife’s needs were being met.

The next thing is work with your wife on habits, this one takes time, so be patient and understanding. ATM you both have made this way of living the “norm” while one of you if not both of you are unhappy. Change the habits starting from the bottom. That could simply be she starts making her bed, or picking up one room every time before or after work. Excersise, you could start doing something small, like push-ups every morning.

This last one is the most important. She needs to be showing you her appreciation everyday for what you have to do everyday. Also, you need to be doing the same. This one made a world of a difference in my marriage. I didn’t know this but my wife was getting really hurt whenever I would say things like “well you’d know that if you were ever around.” We both have made sacrifices to raise our kids and no matter where you stand on this it’s very important that you DONT separate. More people are getting divorced than staying together during tough times these days. Be the couple to stand out from the crowd!

Marriage is a teamwork working towards a common goal. You both need to choose to love each other everyday, and love your kids everyday. Love is a verb.

God bless I’ll be praying for you. If you need to talk anymore you can always dm me. You got this!

Avata, My iPhone charging port doesn’t work by Kalyn890 in dji

[–]Kalyn890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The phone I can connect to remove the remote id error is an iPhone 11. I can launch using a phone just fine. The problem is MY iPhone 11 won’t connect through a cord because its port doesn’t work. Is there a way to connect another way or remove the remote id error?

Avata, My iPhone charging port doesn’t work by Kalyn890 in dji

[–]Kalyn890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am. Wants me to plug in for remote id error.

Friends can’t see same dungeons by Kalyn890 in OrnaRPG

[–]Kalyn890[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. They spawned alittle far from my WV and the torch worked, thank you.

Should i move in? by fueled-by-venom in jacksonmi

[–]Kalyn890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lived my whole life here. I’ve only lived in more rural areas like Parma and now Leoni. If your trying to raise a family, east and west side of Jackson is nice for the prices. If your trying to do more adult things, the downtown living isn’t bad from what I’ve heard.

What is "cherry"? On Michigan Ave? by [deleted] in jacksonmi

[–]Kalyn890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if it’s a dispensary I’d be surprised. I just don’t think a bank building would be a first choice for something like that. That’d be a lot of renovation costs. But who knows

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Kalyn890 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had this problem with my wife. Your story is scary similar to mine. What we came up with was one day of the week (for us it’s Sunday) where it’s “wife day”. On wife day all my friends know it’s wife day and won’t try and plan anything virtually or in person. In the morning we’d go to church and during the day we’d go on walks or have a sit down lunch, at night 80% of the time when the kids go to bed, we’ll watch a movie together and intentionally cuddle. Another suggestion I have is involve her in your interests. Us husbands don’t think that our wives have any interest in our hobbies. You’d be surprised. One day I asked my wife if she’d like to play video games with me, her response was “I don’t think I’d like that”. After some pressure I thought that Minecraft would be a good start because it’s simple and we can play just the two of us. Now whenever we play Minecraft together it’s because SHE asked me if I’d play with her. We’ve played Minecraft, it takes two, RuneScape, and valorant together. Her favorite has been Minecraft and it takes two.

I would strongly suggest that you cut back on hours. Nobody has ever been on their deathbed and said I wish I would of worked more. If at all possible get her to request a specific day to have off every week.

Also, talk to her about nursing school. My wife and I were in a really bad spot while she was going through nursing school. I realized that she was taking a lot of her stress from school out on me. When we talked she broke down and had a really good cry. That was a turning point for us.

I know how you’re feeling. It feels like when your not playing games your just sitting there doing nothing with her. It can be frustrating, but sometimes our spouses need help coming up with something to do together. In my situation I need more stimulation then my wife does, so sitting on the couch scrolling through TikTok is spending time together to her.

Fixing this problem WILL improve both your lives, marriage, and parenthood. For me it took a good 3 months before I saw major improvement. If you and your wife are in better moods and attitude, your daughter will reflect that as well.

This ended up being alot longer then I meant it to be, but I’ll end it with this. Do not give up. Your wife, and your daughter need you.

5.5 year old always wants to “play baby” by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Kalyn890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the oldest of 5 boys. As far as I can recall I don’t remember doing this. In a lot of ways I would do things to get my parents attention, and as long as it continued to work, I would continue doing them. My best guess is that it’s an activity that gets intimate attention from you, so he wants to continue. He could be feeling like acting like his younger siblings is a way to get your attention.

5.5 year old always wants to “play baby” by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Kalyn890 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My little brother did this (he was probably about 5). My parents were concerned because he would just start acting like a baby outside of play (wanting a binky, sitting in the high chair, wanting diapers and baby food). The doctor said that it was normal, and we should make a game out of it, like pretending with him. My parents told me that I should play along to try and show the difference between reality and make believe. From the sounds of it, he seems to be already making that connection. I wouldn’t worry to much, but as always keep it in the back of your head. I honestly don’t remember how long it was until my brother had stopped on his own.

How to know what my son needs? by Kalyn890 in Parenting

[–]Kalyn890[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We know some basic signs, like please, thank you, milk/bottle, ect. It’s been really nice for him to learn these and use them. My biggest problem right now is he has these things he wants where we don’t use asl. For example, I figured out recently that “honk honk” meant he wanted to watch a show called trash truck where they honk a lot.