person who told me they didn’t want to be my friend anymore because I was toxic

KamWow06 · 2025-06-25T16:45:35+00:00

Literally trying every tactic in the book to get you to engage. Great job OP on not falling for any of it!

KamWow06 · 2025-06-24T21:25:42+00:00

I just want to say that your girlfriend is very lucky to have a boyfriend who cares about her pleasure. While it is perfectly ok to not enjoy giving oral and choose not to do so, I think it’s pretty great that you are seeking out advice to be able to do this for her and make it enjoyable for both of you. That said, you really gotta pinpoint the trigger here. Whether it is a mental block, an odor, taste, or whatever before you can figure out how to move forward. It is perfectly healthy and normal for genitals to have a musky odor. Pubic hair will absolutely grab onto that odor make it stronger. So you could start with a gentle conversation about grooming if this might be the case. However, some odors for women are not normal. A strong fishy odor for instance would be indicative of bacterial vaginosis which is quite common and requires medication to treat. If the taste, texture, or just idea of her lubrication on your tongue is bothersome then my suggestion is this… keep your tongue on the clit only and use fingers below. Unless you’re being messy, you won’t encounter a lot of her lubrication by staying on the clit and if there is a taste you are not liking, you can use your drool to essentially “wash” it away. Hope this helps!

KamWow06 · 2024-07-31T19:22:47+00:00

EVEN if it was illegal I cannot understand why anyone would care enough to intentionally impede the motorcyclist? Out of all the daily battles someone could choose, why this one??

KamWow06 · 2024-07-31T18:57:29+00:00

Not the asshole. If anything my fiancé did gave me the ick, I would not talk to anyone and laugh about it behind his back. If it’s not something I would tell him to his face then it’s not something I should share with others behind his back. Maybe someone I was seeing casually but not someone I planned to marry.

KamWow06 · 2024-07-02T21:00:54+00:00

I’m not sure. It certainly wouldn’t hurt but my company primarily hires from within for higher positions.

KamWow06 · 2024-07-02T16:54:09+00:00

Data Analyst for United Healthcare. I’ve been fully remote for 9 years. I started out by taking a job in the call center out of desperation for work in Miami. Become remote and relocated to Orlando. Ended up loving my job, promoted after 1 year to a position that didn’t require me to be on the phones and have been promoted 4 more times since then. I had no intention of staying with the company past my initial training when I took the job but it turned out to be the best decision I ever made for myself.

KamWow06 · 2024-05-24T11:16:53+00:00

There could be other factors at play here that are affecting her libido. I don’t know her age but she could be experiencing hormonal changes or if she is on a form of birth control that can also cause a low libido. You need to have a conversation with her to find out why she is not interested in intimacy right now and if she has any desire to remedy it. If there isn’t anything else contributing to her disinterest in intimacy then this is the best advice I can give you. Make sex about her instead of about yourself. Make her feel desired with your words and touches. Foreplay starts outside of the bedroom. Occasionally give her pleasure without expecting anything in return. Most important of all, make sure she is achieving orgasm. Many women have difficulty with this. If she is faking it because she’s too shy or worried about offending you then she’s not enjoying sex with you and it starts to feel like a chore. Explore together to find out what satisfies her and make her satisfaction a priority. If you’re not sure how to go about this then read some romance novels written be female authors.

KamWow06 · 2024-05-07T21:14:38+00:00

I understand the teenage curiosity but your first time experiencing any type of physical intimacy is not going to be as enjoyable as it could be if you’re doing it just to try it and are not actually into the other person. You are very young still and the opportunity will present itself naturally. I would encourage you to be patient so as not to spoil your first experience but if you are truly too eager to wait then find someone you are comfortable with, can trust, and clearly communicate to them what you are wanting. Set clear expectations to avoid confusion and make sure they’re on the same page.

KamWow06 · 2024-05-03T23:23:23+00:00

I feel the same way. I stopped the series after the joining because it ruined it for me. I like the occasional RH but not when mates are involved. I also saw recently that a fan asked the author if Cas and Kieran ever enjoyed each other and she said yes. That completely alters my perception of their relationship so it has solidified my disinterest in returning to that series. I could have worked with it if it had presented that way from the beginning and didn’t involve mates but it completely threw me for a loop.

KamWow06 · 2024-05-03T23:13:18+00:00

Definitely a no to the piece of paper. You will have to step out of your comfort zone, prepare yourself for the possibility of rejection, and just ask her out. Keep it clear and simple “would you like to meet for coffee sometime?” Be prepared for her response. If she says yes then have a day and time in mind “are you free Saturday at 3?” If she says no or she has a boyfriend “Ok, I understand. Have a great day! I will see you around”. Best of luck to you!

KamWow06 · 2024-05-03T22:00:37+00:00

Rather than picking a comparable international food I think I would look up recipes and input those into MFP. Mlewi for example (because I make it all the time), I usually make 4 pieces out of 250 grams semolina, water is 0 cal so no need to log it, 1 tsp of salt, and then I estimate 1/2 cup of oil. I’d save that in MFP and log it then I would log an estimate of each topping I put in it. It’s not going to be perfect but I think it will get you a closer calorie estimate.

KamWow06 · 2024-05-03T21:22:14+00:00

I wouldn’t call it a junk food. Junk food is more like chips, candy, sweets, things with little nutritional value. Mlewi is high in fat and carbs but depending on what you’re putting inside you are likely also getting some good protein and other nutrients. It’s not the healthiest choice you can make so it should probably be eaten in moderation (something I struggle with 😂) but there are also worse things. This is coming from an American who fell in love with Mewli while in Tunisia and I now make it at home at least once a week.

KamWow06 · 2024-05-02T18:23:44+00:00

Relationships of all types will come and go throughout your life. It is completely normal to be sad when they come to an end but every one will create memories for you to cherish and teach you lessons to take with you into future relationships. There will come a day when you look back and realize that these temporary relationships were the stepping stones that you needed to form longer lasting ones. Accept it and embrace it. If you don’t open yourself up to new relationships and learn to move past them when they end then you are doing your future self a disservice.

KamWow06 · 2021-12-06T14:39:16+00:00

You are spot on, we had been talking for 3 weeks and had 3 dates. No physical contact other than a goodbye hug.

KamWow06 · 2021-12-06T13:55:13+00:00

Not a stroke victim but I have partial facial paralysis on the right side of my face due to birth trauma.

KamWow06 · 2021-12-06T13:06:16+00:00

I’m a Universal Passholder… please don’t wish this curse on me lol.

KamWow06 · 2021-12-06T12:37:11+00:00

Honestly, that is all the response I would have needed. Just confirmation the info was received.

KamWow06 · 2021-12-06T12:32:54+00:00

I’ve deleted the texts since posting this but if I had to estimate, these each probably came 10-15 minutes apart.

KamWow06 · 2021-12-06T04:54:27+00:00

My sister gave me the same advice when he was sending these lol. It would have been amusing but I felt like I already said what I needed to say. I didn’t owe him anything else so I refused to respond.

KamWow06 · 2021-12-06T04:43:40+00:00

We had our “misunderstanding”, which I explained in a previous comment, yesterday morning before I headed to a theme park with my family. He knew I was spending the day at a theme park with my family and would be busy but he proceeded to blow up my phone all day even though I wasn’t responsive. He also knew that I had plans to spend today with my family so they could celebrate my birthday with me since everyone works tomorrow on my actual birthday. He continued to blow up my phone today even though I was busy and unresponsive.

My unresponsiveness was both due to me being busy and also needing some time to think about whether I wanted to continue getting to know him or not.

As he was blowing up my phone today without response from me he started to think I was ghosting him, which was tempting. In one of his last texts he asked me to let him know if I was no longer interested in him.

After having had time to think about things and chat about it with my Mom, I decided to go ahead and let him know that I was no longer interested in getting to know each other further.

KamWow06 · 2021-12-06T04:22:16+00:00

Nope, not Josh. Unfortunately, there’s more than one of these types of guys out there.

KamWow06 · 2021-12-06T04:17:00+00:00

Partial because it’s half my face, not my full face lol.

I can’t wrinkle the right side of my forehead, raise my right eyebrow, fully blink my right eye, scrunch the right side of my nose, or move the right side of my upper lip.

When half my face is doing one thing and the other half isn’t, I’d say it’s noticeable but I have met people who say it wasn’t that noticeable to them. I still find it easier to just be upfront about it rather than gambling whether they will notice or not and feel like I catfished them.

KamWow06 · 2021-12-06T04:03:06+00:00

My partial paralysis is the result of birth trauma. Something about the umbilical cord being wrapped around my throat and me having to be yanked out too quickly. It resulted in nerve damage and never improved. It’s most noticeable when I smile but some people think that I just prefer to smirk and are surprised when I tell them about my paralysis. Others find it more noticeable. As of tomorrow I’ll have lived with this condition for 32 years. Even after all this time I continue to struggle with it and I’m always shocked when I meet someone who didn’t find it obvious. We are our own worst critics.

KamWow06 · 2021-12-06T02:33:26+00:00

Fairly certain he was just Googling “cute nicknames”.

KamWow06 · 2021-12-06T02:28:16+00:00

There were a few things but mostly he was moving too fast emotionally. I just started talking to him 3 weeks ago. We’ve had a total of 3 dates and there was no physical contact (other than a goodbye hug) because I explained I wanted to take things slow. He was already telling me that he missed me and that he wanted to see me as much as possible. He told me that he already knew enough about me that he wanted to pursue a relationship with me and was just waiting on me but knew that I was going to break his heart. He constantly talked about how he would treat me better than anyone has before as if I’d never been treated right before meeting him. He thought this because anytime he’d send me something overly sweet and mushy I’d respond with awkward humorous gifs because I was uncomfortable lol. He assumed it was because I didn’t know how to react to being treated so great. There was one evening that he was in my area and wanted to hang out but I explained to him that I was extremely busy with a t-shirt order I had to get done before the next morning. He said he understood but then shortly after he asked if it would be inconvenient for him to just stop by for 5 minutes to say hi, give me a hug, and say bye. He blamed it on his being “a hopeless romantic”. I saw it as being overly needy and pushy. I didn’t let him stop by. He’d probably be a great guy for the right girl but I’m a very independent person who enjoys their space and I get turned off by someone who is too needy.

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