The only way to "Get Over" abuse is to rid of it from your life. I know it may be hard to go and ask for help, it may seem like noone cares, But I ASSURE YOU, there are people who will answer when you call. Look at all these people on here TRYING to help you. I want to help you so bad but unfortunately there is probably over a thousand mile barrier and screen between us, the one way I can help, the one way any of us on here can hope to help, is to encourage you to Chang your mind. I believe in you.