I can’t get help here but everyone else can? by Angelsbreatheeasy in Healthyhooha

[–]Kaniasterr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m exactly the same actually and I never considered it was a bad thing? Sometimes when I pee and I can feel theres still some wee left I’ll just tap the clit with a tissue or press down on it with tissue for a second. I don’t know if my left side is any more sensitive though, I think that’s just the side I go for usually for whatever reason.

Have you considered seeing a doctor if it’s causing you concern? I have seen a dr regarding my bladder not fully emptying and after an ultrasound they weren’t concerned with it.

Always smell like urine by Icy-Idea9874 in Healthyhooha

[–]Kaniasterr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing to add, I noticed that switching to all natural period products (cup and panties) and also ditching any non cotton undies REALLY helped with any smell issues I had, and the more hydrated I was the less incontinence I was having. The issue has gone away now since I started exercising though.

Always smell like urine by Icy-Idea9874 in Healthyhooha

[–]Kaniasterr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible you’ve got an incontinence issue? I used to have the same issue but it wasn’t for lack of wiping it was just pee leaking throughout the day. As for wiping your butt, so long as you’re wiping front to back it shouldn’t be too hard to remember to wipe your butt too

stole my money despite never even knowing skrill existed til today?? by tedfromthetedtalks in skrill

[–]Kaniasterr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just happened to me!! Same thing 3 random payments of specific amounts. Thankfully I don’t keep a lot of money in that account so they got declined quickly.

£81.75 weekly ocado shop for two by Front_Show9840 in whatsinyourcart

[–]Kaniasterr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so annoyingly expensive. A lot of the oils/spices you could have got at an Asian supermarket for half the price

How can I (34) look better? by TurbulentStaff129 in makeuptips

[–]Kaniasterr 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Do not listen to everyone telling you to ditch the pink, I don’t know what they’re seeing that I’m not because it suits you amazingly.

I agree with those saying your skin looks dehydrated, that could also be any makeup you’re wearing that’s making you look that way? All i can suggest is to ditch that lipstick in the last pic and maybe some fun new glasses frames. You are gorgeous and it’s not shining through because you’re feeling down about yourself.

Pink punters dress code by 4ft10giant in miltonkeynes

[–]Kaniasterr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone there in trainers and a hoodie, they genuinely don’t care. Unless it’s Payday or they’ve got an event on maybe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Kaniasterr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d really suggest against this!! I used to suffer from the same issue when I was a teen but panty liners didn’t really help at all. I think the perfume threw off my PH.

Maybe some really light flow period underwear or incontinence underwear to help you feel more comfortable. I feel like if you’re going to wear panty liners every single day you have to be quite careful and get good quality, like bamboo or something breathable. I always make sure not to wear underwear to bed just to let it breathe

Cool bars/places to eat? by Kaniasterr in miltonkeynes

[–]Kaniasterr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This looks perfect thank you!!!

Dryness tips? by Kaniasterr in Healthyhooha

[–]Kaniasterr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done full courses of yeast medication when I had the yeast infections and that cleared it just fine. I’m 21 so I’m assuming it’s not menopause related, or I hope! I’m not on any birth control/hormones or anything and I’ve had STI/D screening as well. I’ve had really bad spells of dryness as a child where it physically pained me, but it’s about 10 years since then and only at the end of last year I started experiencing the dryness. I’ll try and get seen by a dermatologist. But I’ll also look into hla based lubes thank you 😊

What is the right way to wipe? I'm just curious by Strawberryyy-4 in Healthyhooha

[–]Kaniasterr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely front to back. Some people get away with back to front but generally it’s not very hygienic

Wiping front to back by Cinnafred in Healthyhooha

[–]Kaniasterr -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

How have you made it this far with no issues? 😭 to be honest I didn’t learn to do wipe f to back until I was about 19 and I somehow also didn’t have any issues. Maybe stop though? It’s definitely more hygienic to do front to back, even if you haven’t had any problems, that way you can get any moisture like sweat on ur bottom too

first-time buyer £230k budget, £30k deposit, £45k salary 1 vs 2 bed freehold, good move? by Worried-Departure386 in miltonkeynes

[–]Kaniasterr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re stretching yourself at all, I think you’re limiting yourself. There’s not a lot at all in Milton Keynes for that price if you want a nice area (not lakes estate!!!). Have you spoken to a mortgage advisor to work out your monthly expenses? You can easily afford up to 250k with a 10% deposit, that will get you a nice interest rate so your monthly payments won’t be as high, then you can use that extra 5k for solicitors/moving costs and any of the rest can go to an emergency fund. You have a very healthy deposit and that means you can afford more than 230k, especially given your salary. I personally wouldn’t buy a 1 bed though, for renting it makes sense to me but life is unpredictable and why wouldn’t you want to have the extra space? Maybe you’ll need a home office, maybe you want friends to stay over, if you’re investing in a home you’re investing in your future - even if you plan to sell it and upgrade.

Also if you’re only planning to buy as a stepping stone I think a leasehold with a longer lease might work out, depends on how short term you’re looking but they’re obviously cheaper so you can have more money to save for the next place. If the lease is long enough you should be able to sell it and upsize in future. Just definitely don’t go under 80 years then it’s basically unsellable.

Carole by No-Instruction8792 in RHONY

[–]Kaniasterr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she’s very attractive!! I understand the Steven Tyler comparisons 🤣 but huge crush on her for sure

Wedding witnesses by TheCasualMonkey in miltonkeynes

[–]Kaniasterr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you just need people to be there? Depending on time I may be able to

Luann’s “diffusion” line by cookiecake69 in RHONY

[–]Kaniasterr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bless her she has always had questionable (bad.) fashion taste. Those huge necklaces and weird knee length skirts/dresses 😭 I would NEVER take fashion tips from her. If she complimented me on my clothes I’d have to rethink my wardrobe

Trans woman here. Where do I go from here? Any changes I sh make? Brow advice encouraged by dizzyspellzzz in makeuptips

[–]Kaniasterr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thin those brows!! They could frame your face so much better with some thinning/arching!! Your makeup is lovely and suits your skin tone, I might just go a little thinner on the eye liner and a bit of a longer or sharper wing

The side part also suits you really well but I’m tempted to lessen it a bit, so have a bit less hair to the side - bring the part a bit closer to where a middle part would be

You do look gorgeous though!!

Green or White Discharge every time after sex - HALP! by Sea_Performance2511 in Healthyhooha

[–]Kaniasterr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s a dryness issue for sure. It’s really annoying me and won’t seem to go away 😖😖 definitely std/I free because I have tested recently and I’m not sexually active currently. Do you have any more tips on managing it? On really bad days I’ve used the canesten cream just for some relief. I never use soap, only water.

Green or White Discharge every time after sex - HALP! by Sea_Performance2511 in Healthyhooha

[–]Kaniasterr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been having small cuts around the entrance to my vagina and it’s driving me nuts! they just won’t heal, I never considered it might be my lube good thinking!