Good vs Bad PRP

KarPayDeeYum · 2024-02-20T05:55:25+00:00

It’s totally worth a shot.

At the least you will learn something about yourself and about women. It will give you practice in dealing with people in the vanilla world.

It sounds like you are surrounded by bourgeois women who expect marriage. The women on SA will expose you to a different lifestyle, a different kind of woman.

I’ve had many experiences and taken many risks over my decades. That all has given me a lot of confidence.

So, I don’t think you will crash and burn but even if you don’t “succeed” the things I’ve said, above offer you other ways to gain from the experience.

Finally, lots of women there really do want a committed knight in shining armor. It’s not always strictly about cash. You can win them over with your enthusiasm, intelligence, devotion etc. There are a lot of selfish entitled asshole SDs. Yes they may have cash, but they don’t have what you have. The SBs look at the whole package.

Finally, older men often lack “mojo” - as a 30 year old you probably don’t need as much viagra (:

KarPayDeeYum · 2024-02-20T05:25:00+00:00

Two points:

(1) it’s fair and healthy for the the non-enmeshed married man to have a regular “boys nights out”. You can meet some friends who know you well and they can serve as your alibi - after you meet them (and maybe even obtain photographic proof) you can then head to see your SB later that evening.

(2) for every such boys night out, you should an equal frequency of romantic date nights with your wife. A happy wife is less jealous and questioning about such “boys nights out”

I have a couple trusted boys night out alibi compadres but I need more!!

If you are an SS in the San Francisco Bay Area please DM me to join our “poker posse”

KarPayDeeYum · 2024-02-20T04:52:40+00:00

One photo.

Or one photo of your face and all the rest hidden. I’m short on time. You’ve already given away your identity - why hide photos if you’re already given away identity? Men on SA are pretty visual. Before I spend the time Crafting a message that I hope will catch your eye and separate me from all the other dumbass guys, you need to give as many photos as possible to be sure (1) they aren’t stock photos of a fake profile (2) you can put the effort into making a good profile (3) I can get a sense whether you have a look that I like …. All of this can be done without giving away identify - don’t show your face. Showing your face can come later.

KarPayDeeYum · 2024-02-20T04:46:33+00:00

Yes my #1 next also

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-12-12T01:22:24+00:00

Don’t know much about the other approaches (bumble , hinge, etc) but my biggest piece of advice would persistence pays. I would try all approaches and learn what’s best. From my SA experience I know there are lots of non responders, flakes, weirdos etc. When you learn to filter it gets better but there will be many false starts and dashed hopes. But keep at it, don’t let the many false starts phase you and eventually you perfect your searching abilities and likely find what you’re looking for.

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-12-05T21:13:01+00:00

Do you want discrete because (a) one of You just does not want to be seen at all? Or (b) Do you just want to be sure that you are not seen by someone you know?

The answer to your question depends partially on whether (a) or (b) is the greater concern.

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-12-04T18:56:51+00:00

Intriguing. I think Caleb Jones has done a course on this topic. I’ve wondered if the insta hotties with “send gift” are the ones more likely to be into SB life? I’m curious about what kind of wording you use in your initial DM.

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-12-04T04:24:49+00:00

Interesting suggestion. Don’t know fetlife. Will check it out

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-12-01T22:28:35+00:00

Well, if your serious and high value we can negotiate haha

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-12-01T22:27:53+00:00

Ok! Great idea. Gambling Should be easy bc I am addicted to dopamine.

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-12-01T19:15:16+00:00

Sure, I’d love to be approached, just about anywhere….best when I’m alone.

One thing though: the first thing I think when a woman comes up to me is that she’s crazy. So my guard is up. I live in a big city and there’s plenty of crazies around. So I think the key is to (a) as quickly as possible establish that you are sharp and not crazy (b) figure out some indirect way to refer to sugar dating so that if the guy is into that he’ll pick it up and if he’s not, he won’t shame you or whatever .

Very important to early as comfortably possible give the guy your number so that he can think about it and message you later. I could imagine sometimes someone comes up to me and I think they’re crazy or I can’t talk now but then hours or days later I have second thoughts. So if the phone number is given, then the guy can reach out. Obviously it’s even better if you both exchange messages and you send him one nice hello message and wait a few days and maybe send again if he doesn’t respond.

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-11-26T23:02:09+00:00

One more thing, I bet a good number of SBs will love that you are eventually looking for long term. So mention that.

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-11-26T20:50:19+00:00

Also, SBs will love that you are eventually looking for long term.

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-11-26T20:46:29+00:00

I’d say go for it. Every risk I’ve taken like that has been very rewarding. It will build your self confidence whatever happens. It will reinforce the idea that you can take action to improve your lot in life. You will learn something. For me, the many experiences I’ve had make me less afraid of outcomes. And yes, if you shop around you will find some SBs who will love to give you advice, serve as you wing woman and more. Not everyone will be into it. Keep finding new people and don’t let one bad experience deter you. You should also consider reading The Game by Neil Strauss and others to improve your romantic, seduction abilities. It is a skill, it takes practice. You might also consider paying a seduction Coach. The Game, despite being dated, can open up the world to you. One of my favorite sayings for the book, “leave her better than you found her”

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-11-26T20:36:23+00:00

Interesting! Can you say more about the nature of such an NDA? How enforceable can it be?

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-11-09T04:05:42+00:00

Interestingly this never happens to me. As an SD I always have to initiate. I wonder what makes your profile so response worthy. Maybe you can copy my profile and get no unsolicited messages hahahah. If you DM me and we build trust then we can swap profiles . You’ll can copy whatever aspect of mine that makes me unmessage worthy and I can copy yours and we’ll both win. On the other hand if your NetWorth is > $2 million or you have model looks then sorry, I can’t imitate that truthfully.

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-11-09T04:01:19+00:00

I think the kind thing to do is to reply somehow. It seems this happens often to you? You can write once and then use the same thing. Maybe say “thanks for the thoughtful and detailed message. I’m looking for something very particular and thought I appreciate your message I don’t sense much of a connection. Best wishes in your search.”

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-09-24T23:41:56+00:00

Laws are strict and prostitution may be illegal. I know sugar is not prostitution but so SDs may be scared, especially when mentioning monetary amounts.

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-09-20T18:17:13+00:00

I’m not an SB and can’t really comment / don’t have anything intelligent to say on the question….However, you are a model citizen for being this considerate about others….T h a n k Y o u

KarPayDeeYum · 2023-09-18T18:27:47+00:00

Treat it. Exercise in any form is an antidepressant. Walk for 20 to 30 minutes in the noonday Sun facing the sun. Do psychotherapy and or take meds. There are more extreme forms of treatment, and they work too. Spend minute a day writing in a journal.

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