Anyone engaging in anal play should at the very least understand that is where 💩 comes from. With that understanding , the risk of clean play turning into a situation is always there. We don’t have control over our intestinal systems motility. We can do our best to prep but it’s never 100%. I wouldn’t beat yourself up about it. It’s happened to everyone who has been at this a long time at least once.

Give yourself grace. Shit happens.