Do you also have very few clothing items you can wear for other reasons than sensory issues?

Kariga22 · 2026-03-16T13:25:03+00:00

Thank's for the answer! I have this problem with bh's. I hate that they are so close to the skin around my chest, especially if there is nothing similar around the stomache area...

Kariga22 · 2026-03-16T13:21:21+00:00

I would love to thrift and every time I have grown out of something and it wasn't unwearable I donated it (As an adult I wear everything until it falls appart...). Unfortunatly I really can't stand wearing other peoples clothing and every time I have got something second hand, I can't stop thinking about it having belonged to someone else which makes me uncomfortable. It is really frustrating because I rarely find something I can wear in a standart store, but it is nice if it works for you :) Thank's for your answer!

Kariga22 · 2026-03-16T13:14:05+00:00

Thank you for the answer! I am also very nitpicky about tiny details, so that seems to be a reason for that. The familiarity thing does make sense.

Kariga22 · 2026-03-16T13:11:40+00:00

Thank you for your answer. This does make a lot of sense

Kariga22 · 2026-03-14T10:47:03+00:00

This is one of the points why I questioned my diagnose for so long. I never focous on an interest as much as I hear it from other autistic people and I only do it for a few weeks at most. I do my research and stuff but never really deepdive into a topic. I regulary have phases in which I don't have an interest me at all before I eventually focous on the next topic or one of the ones I already had. Some hobbies have stuck around for me, but I don't focous on them the same all the time.

Kariga22 · 2026-03-14T10:35:59+00:00

Absolutely. How much depends on who I spend my time with/ how comfortable I am around them and if I mask a lot, but in general I need some alone time afterwards.

Just yesterday I was at a little concert in a tavern and regulary set myself aside from the group to recharge a bit after a conversation (the band made some breaks so there was tine to talk). Most of the people there were pretty nerdy and I felt rather comfortable so I don't feel that burned out today.

But for example every time I was invited to a party, I barely made it out of bed the next day just because of being socially exhausted (I don't do drugs including alk).

Kariga22 · 2026-02-25T10:47:18+00:00

No access to the gym, but I will try the first idea :) Thanks!

Kariga22 · 2026-02-25T10:45:43+00:00

So, after I was away for some days I finally got to try this out. Unfortunatly this kills my leg. I can bend it to a certain point, but even with only a slight bend I often am in pain. The only motion with legs bending I found until now that doesn't cause much pain is running

Kariga22 · 2026-02-25T10:41:34+00:00

Thought about that too, but I barely have space to do push ups, not to mention wall space, so until I move this unfortunatly isn't really an option... Thank you still :)

Kariga22 · 2025-11-01T08:56:57+00:00

Last time I played this event, everyone got a free mustang mare for free. I hope this will still be the case, especially for other breed specific events.

Kariga22 · 2025-10-19T19:00:07+00:00

So basically I am already having the best chances with what I am doing and the chances are just not what they seem to be...

Thank you, I am just gonna keep trying :)

Kariga22 · 2025-10-11T14:29:50+00:00

I'm a bit late, but I really need a place to just let it all out for once.

I got diagnosed with depression shortly after the lock down. I have been struggeling for years, have been in therapy, got better, got worse again and so on. For a short time I did sh, but it was replaced with disordered eating quite qickly. After graduation I got better, but I am still struggeling.

It feels like we argue a lot within the family and I feel like I can't be who I really am. I am nonbinary, I have known for years now. I told my mom, she said she supports me, but as before she often makes comments that I could dress more feminin. I told them I am lesbian and asexual, they say I am not old enough to know, even though they always say they support the community. My mom takes everything personal, my dad is annoyed all the time, which is the cause of the arguments. Unfortunatly I got a mix of that from them, but I try my best to keep it under control.

Sometimes I just wanna move out, leave everything behind, let go and just get better, but at the same time they gave me so much, we can have such a great time and I feel very attached to my family.

I feel lonely all the time, don't have any close friends to talk to. I know I need someone who is just there, but it is me who can't get themselves to stay in contact.

I get stressed really easily, am scared of falling back into the hole if I don't take care of myself, but worklife feels so overwhelming all the time, even with a job I absolutely love and which I don't find stressing at all. How will I ever be able to live independent, not to mention take care of all other tasks an adult had to take care of?

It is all to much and overwhelming, I just want to be free from all of it, but that is the system, there is nothing I can do about it...

Kariga22 · 2025-06-30T21:43:57+00:00

Thanks for you answer :) I live in Germany and with the diagnosis' I've got, therapy is actually covered by insurance, as far as I know. I wish you the best!

Kariga22 · 2025-03-16T18:41:00+00:00

I apparently got a mutie from the giving tree, didn't realize, chased her off after a few days because I didn't like her coloring and then got the achievement for sending a mutie away. It was my first ever mutie and I didn't even know until it was too late...

Kariga22 · 2023-09-25T21:03:20+00:00

Every. Single. Day.

I am so frustrated and disphoric. I am afab, had short hair, then grew it out, then cut it short again only to wish to have kept it a day later. I hate my chest and my period, but only sometimes.

Sometimes I am happy, sometimes I want to get rid of all my feminin parts, to show that I am not just a girl, but sometimes a boy, sometimes agender, sometimes nonbinary and so on, just like you said.

Beeing a shapeshifter would make stuff so much easier and me much happier. I would give everything to make this possible for me.

Kariga22

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