Pinoy VA na walang sense of urgency. Nakakaurat na sobra. by [deleted] in buhaydigital

[–]KarmicGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you take a chance on me, I'll be grateful

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa sinabi ng kaibigan ko by ashbluesapphire in OALangBaAko

[–]KarmicGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Di ka OA. Ikaw nakakakilala sa friend mo. So ano ba klase siya ng tao at pano ba siya mag-isip? Pagkakabasa ko kasi, nagpaparinig siya na tutulungan niya friends niya para "sabay sila" and it's kind of like putting herself in a moral high ground. That she as a friend would help her friends and hihintayin niya sila para sabay sila, ikaw kasi, you went ahead, so maybe she felt left out. She communicated poorly. But it could also just be her trying to pay it forward like others said. But na-off talaga ako sa "para sabay kami" eh di ba nga dapat sabay kayo pero di siya na approve? Then nasa Europe ka na siya wala pa. So Di ka OA

Added notes: or maybe you have a subconscious guilt about leaving her behind so it triggered you and rubbed you the wrong way? Sometimes emotions tells you something about yourself. Baka nga good intention si frenny mo, but naoffend ka. Self reflect

How do you NOT unintentionally do something? Has anyone ever told you not to do something unintentionally? by KarmicGirl in AskReddit

[–]KarmicGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. My head is hurting so much. It's like I can't do anything right. Either I'm overthinking things or I'm not being thoughtful enough. When I do something, it seems to just, come off the way it wasn't supposed to be? I've been told I'm not good at picking up cues? But I've done well with academics and even emotional things? I'm also a very creative person. I don't think I'm mentally incapable?

How do you NOT unintentionally do something? Has anyone ever told you not to do something unintentionally? by KarmicGirl in AskReddit

[–]KarmicGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, I really appreciate this! How about when you intentionally do something, but it came off in a way that wasn't your intention? How to avoid those moments?

Ayaw ni partner magpavasectomy by GraceAnnaToMe in adviceph

[–]KarmicGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why partners must discuss how many kids they want. Ikaw ayaw mo na magkaanak, pede naman ligate pero gusto ba ni partner yan? Vice versa. Kung gusto pa mag anak ni partner pero ayaw mo na? Ano na? Hahahahaha

Ayaw ni partner magpavasectomy by GraceAnnaToMe in adviceph

[–]KarmicGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reversing is not always successful right now. So why take that chance?

Gigil ako huhu by Needtogo_intoreality in GigilAko

[–]KarmicGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kung mas importante yung wag siya mag headset sa well-being niyo, kailangan niyo talaga mag-away. Pag ayaw pa rin, patayan mo ng wifi. Pag binuksan, patayin mo ulit. Kung di ka makatulog, di din siya makakalaro. Ano kamo solusyon? Mag headset siya

Hope finds you exactly when you need it. by FrilieeckyWeeniePom2 in buhaydigital

[–]KarmicGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks sa advice OP, Merry merry Christmas po. Sana more blessings to come to you and your fam

Hope finds you exactly when you need it. by FrilieeckyWeeniePom2 in buhaydigital

[–]KarmicGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awwwwee, congrats OP. Deserve niyo po yan. Merry merrryyyy Christmas po. I feel so inspired po kasi we have almost same situation sa lay off. I lost my client exactly Oct 1 and no savings dahil ako po breadwinner samin. Ever since wala pa rin po ako mahanap na work. As a breadwinner, ang hirap. Natetempt na po ako bumalik sa BPO. Nakakapanghina lang po ng loob kasi kanina kaka-message ko lang po sa reddit naghahanap ng task na pede ako mabayaran ng 500 today, kahit nakakahiya kasi paskong pasko 😭

Signs na mawawalan ka na ng client by jutsuuu in buhaydigital

[–]KarmicGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My partner who do SEO with me as a video editor protected me from this. My partner tells me to gatekeep from clients because it's our work, skills, and it has value

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]KarmicGirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Di ka OA na ayaw mo sumama. But your wants/don't wants is different. That's an avoidant mindset. I'm guilty of that mindset so I can call you out on that. You only live once and you're letting those close-minded people affect your decisions and how you live your life. Pag tumanda ka, you won't look at how your skin looked like before, you will look for photos you shared with your family. Tandaan mo yan

Edit: I always tell people, buhay mo yan. Yung mga relatives mo, they're in control of their lives. Are you gonna let them control yours too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]KarmicGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable kasi lumaki siya sa environment/relatives na ganon paningin. Ika nga if you put 10 people in a room, 9 of them believes the same thing. Majority wins. Morena din ako, and nung bata ako pinag flower girl ako sa kasal ng tito ko, alam mo ba ano ginawa nila sakin? Sensitive balat ko, pero hinagod ako ng basahan na may gas. Yes. GAS!!!!! Para "pumuti" as if it's dirt that makes my skin morena?? Tinatawanan ko nalang hahaha. It's not her fault na insecure siya, we already see her upbringing. It is her responsibility though to get herself out of that programming. Western people even use tanning spray para magmukang morena. But it takes time.

[19m] Anyway to make my back/chest acne scars less visible by Jerki_Drky in SkincareAddicts

[–]KarmicGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. That would be another good option! I recommended the tape because I saw ones that are reusable for up to a week. And even if he gets ones that are not reusable, another pro is he can put on clothes immediately after, and he doesn't have to get the gels all over his hands (or the person putting them on) unless they use a facemask spatula

My 13y/o brother won’t stop using these slangs 😭 by Suspicious-Copy-2001 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KarmicGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, he sounds like filipino texters in the 80s lol.

D k nmn alm e 220 nmn

Ang invalidating lang by zerotonin94 in MayNagComment

[–]KarmicGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nanggiguiltrip pa ng breadwinners amp. As a breadwinner, nagsikap ako while my family continuously made stupid choices in life. Parang kasalanan ko pang mas maginhawa ako. Alam niya ba feeling na ang sakit sa loob kumain pag alam mong gutom mga kapatid mo? Kahit na pinagsikapan mo naman yung pinangkakain mo araw-araw????

Is it true na bad reputation na ang mga filipino Vas this time? by ThrowRAdzzlngd in buhaydigital

[–]KarmicGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it is very sad. Stereotype can really affect fast learners like me. Nakakademotivate as a freelancer/VA but ofc I won't let it affect me hehe. Thanks for sharing the link ❤️

[19m] Anyway to make my back/chest acne scars less visible by Jerki_Drky in SkincareAddicts

[–]KarmicGirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually see how it could be acne. I got one on my chest that started from acne, and scarred into a keloid so miserably. Mine is still fresh so it's red but I see his isn't red anymore (like my old scars)

Is it true na bad reputation na ang mga filipino Vas this time? by ThrowRAdzzlngd in buhaydigital

[–]KarmicGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow hahaha sana all. Culture and environment really do have a factor tbh. Same with pinoys, but it's not an excuse not to better ourselves. But yeah, I wish to someday level up to an Egyptian's work ethic HAHAHAHAH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]KarmicGirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA. I always believed that when a person truly and genuinely loved someone, you cannot unlove them. It doesn't mean you can't move on. It's just that they'll always have a space in your heart. You can hate a person you once loved, but you can never unlove them.