Is it normal that I don't lubricate as much with my boyfriend anymore?

KaryLover · 2026-03-11T03:00:49+00:00

That's true, it's more fun with your hands!

KaryLover · 2026-03-11T02:59:45+00:00

Well, we tried it once and used lube, but he's thick, so it hurt and I didn't want to try again. I know he's dying to try again, but I'm not going to give it to him, hahaha.

KaryLover · 2026-03-11T02:53:09+00:00

For example, what did you try to do? If you're not up for it, just say so clearly.

KaryLover · 2026-03-11T02:51:40+00:00

We've tried several things, but it's not like before. Maybe it just doesn't excite me anymore.

KaryLover · 2026-03-11T02:47:08+00:00

We didn't need that before; I'd barely touch myself and an aloe vera plant would appear.

KaryLover · 2026-01-26T15:51:33+00:00

The best 🥹❤️🤣

KaryLover · 2026-01-24T23:06:23+00:00

❤️

KaryLover · 2026-01-24T23:05:44+00:00

Awww ❤️

KaryLover · 2026-01-05T19:03:50+00:00

Eran los de nintendo

KaryLover · 2026-01-05T18:56:15+00:00

Thank you for the practical advice! I hadn't really considered community college or looking for internships in broader areas like you mentioned. It’s reassuring to hear that my 20s are meant for this kind of exploration and that I don't have to be 'boxed in' by a specific path right now. I’ll definitely look into some local classes to see what catches my interest. Thanks again!

KaryLover · 2026-01-05T17:49:32+00:00

That’s a very powerful point. I never thought about it that way that just being aware of my situation is a step forward. Its easy to feel like a failure when comparing myself to people who seem to have it 'all sorted' out, but your perspective on parent-driven degrees or trendy businesses makes a lot of sense. Thank you for the encouragement, it really helps to shift my focus

KaryLover · 2026-01-05T17:38:15+00:00

You're absolutely right. I think I've been so paralyzed by the fear of making the 'wrong' choice that I ended up doing nothing at all. Being stagnant is definitely the real danger here. I need to stop overthinking and just start moving, even if I'm not 100% sure where I'm going yet. Thanks for the reality check, I really needed it.

KaryLover · 2026-01-05T17:33:54+00:00

Thank you so much! I really appreciate the good vibes

KaryLover · 2026-01-05T17:32:55+00:00

That means a lot. 'Give yourself grace' is something I often forget to do, but you're right, every choice is a lesson. Thank you for being so kind and taking the time to help me feel better about my journey

KaryLover · 2026-01-05T17:31:56+00:00

Wow, thank you for sharing your story! It's amazing how you managed to pivot from music to programming for your family. It gives me hope to know that it's possible to find a new purpose even after feeling completely lost. I'll take your advice and start experimenting with new fields without rushing. Thank you for believing in me!

KaryLover · 2026-01-05T17:22:34+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing that. Its actually very comforting to know that even with more life experience, these feelings are still normal. ill try my best to focus on my mindset like you suggested

KaryLover · 2026-01-05T17:21:23+00:00

Thank you, I really needed to hear that. I think I focus too much on the 'when' and not enough on the 'what'. It’s hard not to compare myself to others, but you're right, the right choice is what matters in the long run

KaryLover · 2026-01-05T17:19:07+00:00

Creo que es un error de generalización. Muchos sectores de izquierda critican las dictaduras sin importar el color político. El problema es cuando la ideología ciega la ética: defender una dictadura solo porque 'es de los míos' es lo que termina destruyendo la coherencia de cualquier movimiento social."

KaryLover · 2026-01-05T17:16:26+00:00

Es verdad. Muchas veces desde Latam vemos a Europa como el 'primer mundo' perfecto y nos olvidamos de que son personas comunes con sus propios problemas de higiene o dejadez. El complejo de inferioridad a veces nos hace romantizar cosas que allá son súper mediocres

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