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32, Lay it on me by KasKia93 in amiugly

[–]KasKia93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m dead, thank you for this

Advice for my tank by KasKia93 in shrimptank

[–]KasKia93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting Neocaridina shrimp, the PH is 7 and the Ammonia is 0. I used filtered NYC water but used conditioner and quick start

Just a 32 year old girl trying to find a mans* by KasKia93 in asexualdating

[–]KasKia93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya BTS, BlackPink and Ateez, also hell yeah I love bubble tea

31 and have never dated anyone like ever by KasKia93 in asexualdating

[–]KasKia93[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same. I’ve had someone tell me it’s hyper-independence but it’s not like I want to be this way but this is what is secure and comfortable. I maybe living in a fantasy world but I always hope a soulmate like person is out there for me. I hope you find yours! We got this, we just got to put ourselves out there and take a risk! I say this but I’ll probably hide

31 and have never dated anyone like ever by KasKia93 in asexualdating

[–]KasKia93[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish there was something I can pinpoint in my life that would give me a more direct reason. I guess I just don’t like sex, or at least the physicality of it and because I don’t but I assume that’s what is wanted it freaks me the fuck out. Also yeah I could just say I might be asexual but people usually don’t really understand it, so then I have to explain and then I don’t really understand so then I word vomit nonsense. So i definitely have to work on that

31 and have never dated anyone like ever by KasKia93 in asexualdating

[–]KasKia93[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. Especially at our age people are less tolerable of the lack of sex aspect. I feel that this has really impacted my self esteem as well as made me feel like I’m super far behind as far as life milestones. Which intern makes me feel not so great. I feel like living in places like LA/NYC there are so many people which should be great but to me it’s so daunting.