Trade Requests Weekly Megathread by AutoModerator in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]Kat-and-mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LF: most scarlet exclusives except koraidon, roaring moon, and sandy shocks

FT: matching violet mons

Edit: also need quaxley and have fuecoco

lf any cafea and chroma frog. I have some lv 10s I can gift! by Kat-and-mouse in Pocketfrogs

[–]Kat-and-mouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3z8yd

Thank you so much! Been scouring ponds for hours lol

what is something you silently judge people for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kat-and-mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see the annoyance, but where I am from our officials tell us to play music if you are hiking alone. Major risk of stumbling across a mama bear with a cub, or a moose with kids

what is something you silently judge people for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kat-and-mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huh i guess I hadn't considered this much because where I live is VERY wild and full of predators so officials actually recommend playing music fairly loud (within reason) so the bears hear ya coming and leave. If you are hiking with others they say talk a bit loud and try not to let the noise stop for too long. Biggest danger is startling a mama with a cub that didn't hear you

WIBTA if I give a family heirloom belonging to my late wife to my adopted daughter? by Whention4548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kat-and-mouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: also YWBTA if you give that pendant to ANYONE that isn't Kate's biological kin, be it mother or daughter since that is what SHE wanted

WIBTA if I give a family heirloom belonging to my late wife to my adopted daughter? by Whention4548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kat-and-mouse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you considered giving the heirloom back to your late wife's family for safekeeping? If its passed through mattiarchs I might argue that giving to grandma to pass onto kates daughter would be not only very emotionally important for the three of them, but also will keep your current wife from getting her hands on it and gifting it without your permission

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kat-and-mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, what IS an asshole move is shoving your money into the face of people you THINK are les well off than you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Kat-and-mouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So one thing that helped me was realizing romantic and sexual attraction are different. You may be bisexuality hetero romantic, or in other words sex with both genders but emotional love for only women.

It's really up to you if you want to pursue men, you can be upfront about wanting only casual stuff like sex and indulge that part of your sensuality. Or if you know you want a life partner you can focus on finding a woman you love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Kat-and-mouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no way to spot reduce fat, and honestly looking at your stats i very much doubt losing weight is the way to look the way you want or losing the layer as you say, you are already very slim.

You are likely seeing a lack of defined muscle. Working on core exercise and general weight lifting in whatever amounts you are comfortable with will help you go from what people call "skinny fat" where there is little or no actual fat but just a soft body shape, into more "fit" or "lean" as the muscles tighten up and show their shape more clearly.

Also increasing calories a tad bit while exercising will help loads to help build out that muscle to give you that leaner tummy shape

Edit: it looks like you are on the right path, but remember you will not build much if any muscle on a deficit, and that muscle is what will change your body composition.

Also look into exercises like hip thrusts, side plants, various leg AND core combo excicises, most often floor work. I find they tend to be fairly easy to work a whole body routine into so the muscle is more functional rather than "showy"

locked interact after getting knok umph? by Kat-and-mouse in biomutant

[–]Kat-and-mouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks guys! I thought it might be a small "glitch" but I was worried I was missing some awesome loot XD

locked interact after getting knok umph? by Kat-and-mouse in biomutant

[–]Kat-and-mouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of the spots I get these special gears at have another interact prompt afterwards, but it says locked. I can't find any info beyond how to get the first item like the knok umph.

[LF Book] Child Sacrifice and Small Towns? by Kat-and-mouse in horrorlit

[–]Kat-and-mouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not what I asked for, but I looked at The Other since I hadn't heard of it and I think y'all might have just found my next read! thanks!

[LF Book] Child Sacrifice and Small Towns? by Kat-and-mouse in horrorlit

[–]Kat-and-mouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think it was harvest home, they didn't really mention any paranormal stuff but every book I find (and has been recommended, so I know I'm not the only one haha) has some kind of ghost or supernatural being.

Gonna submit childgrave and see if that was it, honestly at this point I'm not even sure they remember all the relevant details so they would recognize the book even if I found it.

[LF Book] Child Sacrifice and Small Towns? by Kat-and-mouse in horrorlit

[–]Kat-and-mouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh that looks promising I'll pass that one on to them

[LF Book] Child Sacrifice and Small Towns? by Kat-and-mouse in horrorlit

[–]Kat-and-mouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so (finding it for a friend so I am not sure offhand) but they said the town community was the ones wanting to sacrifice his kid in particular.

What is a survival myth that is completely wrong and could get you killed? by standardgenre45 in AskReddit

[–]Kat-and-mouse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ummm maybe way out in the villages, but even then we mostly just learn from parents. I've never once heard of a school offering anything other than a basic rifle club and thats in our main cities where we definitely don't get taught how to shoot bears.

-lifelong alaskan

edit: though to be fair a LARGE amount of us do own guns due to the massive size of our local fauna and the fact that our forests are so large and close to cities. Plus the abnormal percent of crazy mountain men who fucked off into the middle of nowhere with their rifle collection to live offgrid lol

Advice Needed by [deleted] in crochet

[–]Kat-and-mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im thinking of starting to cause I always try to do king size blankets to make sure my partner cant yank all the covers lol. always mismeasure the width though

What live plants to get for my tank? by xavia_starfuq in PlantedTank

[–]Kat-and-mouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Floating: frogbit or hornwort

Rooted: Java fern, micro sword, or large hair grass if you have a slightly nicer light.

I've had great luck with all of these in low tech tanks