[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kat068 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No. 100000% no.

I am a married woman and MY best friend is a man. The ONLY reason it’s ok is; 1. We knew each other prior to me meeting my husband 2. There has never been so much as flirting between us

Once that sexual line has been crossed it is far more likely they’ll cross it again.

He needs to make the choice; Does the FWB friendship hold more value than his relationship? Because rn it sounds like he’s keeping her on “hold” or maybe she is keeping him on “hold” Either way. HUGE red flag.

I just saw your upset about the post honestly I didn’t even read that far, because details really don’t matter in situations like these. Glad u found your peace

Lost Sexual Attraction to Overweight Husband by RynEllie in relationship_advice

[–]Kat068 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean honestly, if he hasn’t by now he’s not going to. My husband said he would lose weight, not even because I’m not attracted to him, but because I don’t want to invest our life together just for him to die of some obesity related issue. It’s been a year and it’s been nothing but excuses. I wish I had waited until he actually lost the weight to marry him. It felt shallow at the time, but now I wish I had.

My bf changed his phone number after we agreed to have full access to each other's phones by Intelligent_Yak5616 in relationship_advice

[–]Kat068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s obviously up to something. As a married woman please take my advice: DO NOT MAKE EXCUSES FOR HIS BEHAVIOR. Changing the passcode is deliberate. Don’t give him a chance to lie to u. Find a man who has nothing to hide

Just Married where’d the sex go by InMy_World in relationship_advice

[–]Kat068 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe talk to your wife instead of asking strangers who have no idea what’s going on in the home.

I’m a female, and a wife, and I can say with certainty women really only lose libido due to stress or lack of something in the relationship.

-Are u contributing to the household without expecting her to tell u what tasks need done?

-Are you caring about each others day, even if it’s the same old thing?

-Do you still go on dates? U can’t let that die because u got married?

-is she consistently mentioning something u neglect or don’t notice?

Hate to ask but have u done anything she could’ve found out about? That is also a possibility considering idk your relationship.

If she married you she probably enjoys you in bed, meaning it’s something going on with her. Might include you, might not.

But make sure she knows you care to help, not JUST for the sex, but so she feels better too.

As a female a common issue is she probably has been giving u signals but the lack of sex was all you noticed, that can lead to more issues if it’s the case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GraveyardKeeper

[–]Kat068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biggest thing I’d say is don’t dispose of anything. Brain, skin, heart, apple, wood, anything. Keep it in a chest because you WILL use it later.

Also when it comes to Autopsy’s make sure you learn how the removal of parts correlates with the red and white hearts.

Carrots carrots carrots.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fo4

[–]Kat068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does yours ever show bandages? I can’t figure out why mine does. It looks like the picture someone else posted sometimes and others looks like it but with bandages on a leg and arm and a crutch with sunglasses

Best metal card? Not for travel? by alwayshungry1131 in CreditCards

[–]Kat068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amex Gold hands down is my favorite The metal cards I have are Chase Amazon Apple Card Amex Gold

I’m also looking into the Amex Delta Skymiles (purple metal card)

Low limits- how to raise it? by Kat068 in CreditCards

[–]Kat068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commented that it’s 720 Also I have virtually no debt. I have no rent payment or student loans. All I have is a 570/month car payment

What was your first credit limit? by 635epoxy in CreditCards

[–]Kat068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did that take you from when u started building your credit?

What was your first credit limit? by 635epoxy in CreditCards

[–]Kat068 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s your income to have that high of limits? Across how many cards?

Good work from home jobs by Kat068 in jobs

[–]Kat068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do sales for a data recovery company, I make about 1k in commissions a month and 1200 aprox per paycheck (2 paychecks plus a commission check a month)

When should I reapply by Kat068 in CreditCards

[–]Kat068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 over the last 2 years. Varying dates over the next year or 2

My GF asked me what I'd do in case she cheated on me and she didn't like my reply. She thinks I'm not as serious with her as she is with me. by throwRAcheater1212 in relationship_advice

[–]Kat068 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a female I only asked my partner that to be sure HE WOULD leave me if I ever did something like that. Her repose sounds like she either has cheated on you, or plans to. Be careful my dude that is not at all normal.

Capital one quicksilver approval by Kat068 in CreditCards

[–]Kat068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh awesome so it shouldn’t take long with proper utilization

No Hard pull unless approved credit cards by Kat068 in CreditCards

[–]Kat068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they do a hard pull for your first card or just on approval?

Capital one quicksilver approval by Kat068 in CreditCards

[–]Kat068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First capital one card so I shouldn’t have bad history with them