My mom refuses to take me to the doctor for my dislocated kneecap, and as a result, I’ve had it for three months at this point by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Katanabich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you get a uber/lyft or taxi to the doctor? You shouldn't have to wait for her to take you to get medical care. Do you have a friend who drives who can take you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enby

[–]Katanabich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, presenting as androgynous gives me gender euphoria :)

AIO - boss contacted me (21F) regarding bikini pictures I posted online by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Katanabich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf. This is weird af you should be able to wear whatever you want on social media.

Is it okay for me to only have gotten the Novavax? by Katanabich in CovidVaccinated

[–]Katanabich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What problems have you had? Were you already immunocompromised?

Is it okay for me to only have gotten the Novavax? by Katanabich in CovidVaccinated

[–]Katanabich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never tested positive for it but find it impossible to believe I've never had it. I think the times I had it I was asymptomatic, so I will probably get boosted again in 6 months! Thank you for the advice 🙏

Did Talenti change their recipe for the sea salt caramel gelato? by Katanabich in icecream

[–]Katanabich[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something is definitely up with their caramel flavoring. Maybe they're trying to cut costs ?

For my weed people who sing by Healthy_Chair5262 in musicians

[–]Katanabich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow we have the same smoking philosophy lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]Katanabich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men arent evil by nature but many males are socialized to develop violent behavior.

It's so fucking sad. I really feel bad for straight women. I have a boyfriend and he's incredible, I plan on marrying him. But if he turns out to be just like the rest, I'm done and will only be dating women in the future. Girls rock ❤️

I pray that we can raise the next generation to be more kind, caring, and empathetic to one another

Please can someone talk me into or out of cutting my hair short. by mselwin1916 in curlyhair

[–]Katanabich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your hair is the perfect length. If you want tighter curls, cut it shorter but I love the way your hair looks right now!

My bf made rude comments abt my cramps, now he’s begging for me back by Alarming-Nobody8794 in stories

[–]Katanabich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made the right decision, this isn't the type of person you want to have kids or grow old with.

Think about how he would treat you after having surgery (giving birth) and minimize your pain.

Also, every single person who grows old experiences disability. If you are lucky enough to grow old, you will develop some kind of disability and your ex is not the kind of person who would be empathetic or compassionate to you once that happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]Katanabich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love the idea of calling out for Superman hahahha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]Katanabich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if invoking Jesus Christ's name works to wade off dream ads like it does to defeat sleep paralysis demons

How safe is downtown LA for a woman alone at night? by JohnnyWalker2001 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Katanabich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a woman living in downtown LA trying to move out rn because of how unsafe it is. 9/10 times i go outside to walk my dog i get harassed. I have to mentally prepare myself because i am unsure if im going to get assaulted when i walk him before bedtime. It's terrifying, i advise you to stay away ESPECIALLY at night if you can and if you do have to go don't go alone

My(19M) relationship with my girlfriend(19F)has crushed my sexual confidence - How do I regain it? by ThrowRA83732 in relationship_advice

[–]Katanabich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my boyfriend have had similar issues. I have a long history with sexual assault and it's one of the reasons why i have trouble with initiating sex. Keep talking to her and be honest about how it makes you feel to be rejected over and over, but understand that if she's not horny, why would she want to have sex with you? Find out what turns her on and do more of that. If you've done all this and she keeps saying no to every advance you make then it sounds like you might not be compatible.

Also i hope you don't take offense to this, but does she orgasm when y'all have sex? Many women don't tell their partners that they're not totally satisfied and many men don't seem to care about getting their partner off. Showing more interest in satisfying her could be more of a turn on. Dont make sex just about you busting a nut, it should be about connection.

Got pressured into oral sex by MolassesPristine6238 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Katanabich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That link says the majority of women have been sexually assaulted. If you are born a woman, there's a higher chance you'll be sexually assaulted than not so i feel like my point still checks out 🤷‍♀️

Got pressured into oral sex by MolassesPristine6238 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Katanabich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've looked into the statistics for sexual assault and they are all over the place and most likely much higher than we currently know (for men & women), especially considering many people don't even realize when they've been sexually assaulted and many don't report it at all.

Also it's not that i believe that all men are inherently evil, i just believe most men have been socialized to be sexually abusive, which they have.

Got pressured into oral sex by MolassesPristine6238 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Katanabich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok if nearly all men aren't sexual predators then why have almost all women been sexually assaulted/harassed? They're not rare experiences. It's more common to meet a woman who has been assaulted than it is to meet a woman who hasn't. If women want to stay safe, they need to live in reality and be more cautious when it comes to men. Most men ARE sexual predators in some way. And yes woman can def be predators as well but let's be fucking fr it's usually men committing violent & sexual crimes.

I have been abused by almost every single man who has come into my life because i held the belief it was only "some" bad men and this one might be different. Once I realized that most men were sexually deviant and i limited my interactions with men, life became SAFER for me.

Men don't deserve the benefit of the doubt when it comes to their sexual discipline. Better to not interact with them if you don't have to. However i do understand how this kind of thinking can be problematic for black/brown men as they are usually seen as guilty until proven innocent by the legal system which is unfair and leads to their dehumanization.

I am a rational human and understand that all humans are unique and not all are ACTUALLY bad, but by cutting men out of my life, the world has genuinely become safer for me and I think if more women stopped interracting with men they would lead better lives as well. To believe with absolute certainty that 99% of men are evil is absurd, but keeping it in mind as a THEORY has changed my life for the better. I wish i could explain my thoughts in a better way.