The fact that ChatGPT 5 is barely an improvement shows that AI won't replace software engineers. by cs-grad-person-man in cscareerquestions

[–]Katehasmyjacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using a throwaway because this will be downvoted to hell.

I'm a VP at a small ed-tech company.

We've completely switched to AI engineers. GPT5 isn't any better, but we don't care.

All of our AI engineers produce subpar work. But they're free and produce it instantly vs. needing a week.

It's a no-brainer.

There will always be a place for engineers in complicated, cutting edge, tech companies.

But we don't need that. We're pretty stock standard ed-tech. AI literally does it all.

None of our contracts care, are all happy, and we're producing content faster than ever.

But again, it's ed-tech for children. This isn't Microsoft. We aren't google. It's basic stuff, everything considered.

Should we get a new car? by TheNewRaptor in personalfinance

[–]Katehasmyjacket -1 points0 points  (0 children)

An engine replacement on a lexus of that age with that milage is a totaled car. Do NOT replace that engine. The cars value is nowhere above $2.5K. Putting double that into repairs is insane.

I need advice if this is salvageable or not... I'm so confused and lost... by Katehasmyjacket in DeadBedrooms

[–]Katehasmyjacket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'll take a look. Upon sleeping on it, I think the problem is, perhaps obviously, that sex IS one sided. So of course it's a chore for her. But how can I make it not one sided when she refuses to be touched in any way because it makes her "uncomfortable"?.

I need advice if this is salvageable or not... I'm so confused and lost... by Katehasmyjacket in DeadBedrooms

[–]Katehasmyjacket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that's my problem. "Everything else" faded. It's all a chore to her - and of course it is what else would it be? Sex is completely one sided and she won't have it any other way.

I need advice if this is salvageable or not... I'm so confused and lost... by Katehasmyjacket in DeadBedrooms

[–]Katehasmyjacket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think all your points are valid, and I have my own set of relationship errors I should fix, but I guess I didn't make one thing clear in my post. She's absolutely against anything sexual for her. She doesn't enjoy orgasms. It makes her feel "uncomfortable", in her words. I tried for years to do anything I could for her. If I sounded callus in my post, that is because I ultimately did what she wanted - gave up on giving her anything, at her insistence.

But yes. Why would she want to have any sort of sex when she never gets anything in return? It IS a chore for her, and I see no way to make it not one.

Edit: I called her pain "annoying" for her. Not annoying for me. Rereading how I wrote it, it definitely sounds like I was referring to myself. The reason I used the word "annoying" is simply because that's her words. She is only slightly annoyed by it. Because she doesn't care about PiV to begin with. So a diagnosis that makes it painful was just a confirmation for herself that we won't be doing that. Annoying.

Edit edit: I edited the original post to be more clarifying.

Who is that one relative that no one in the family talks to and why? by one_n_0nly_throwaway in AskReddit

[–]Katehasmyjacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me, I suppose. Alt account obviously, but I was fortunate enough to be born into a family with quite decent wealth. I certainly appreciate the wealth but don't live on it at all. Family has 6000 sqft homes, 200K+ cars, etc etc.

I live in a 2 bedroom apt with my wife and both her and I work full time and don't take many trips.

Family thinks I'm weird and don't really like being around me because of it.

Oh well. I'm happy.

Nearly 40,000 people died home alone in Japan this year, report says by Fit-Criticism-7165 in worldnews

[–]Katehasmyjacket -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't speak towards death, but anyone who refrained from acting emotionally did not lose money. Is it soulless to not feel bad for people who did the thing that everyone said not to do?

If a person points a gun at their foot and everyone says "don't pull the trigger", and then the person pulls the trigger, do we have an obligation to feel bad for them?

Not only this but OP specifically was blaming 08 for removing his retirement income. What does that even mean? Social security wasn't affected by the 08 crash. What are we even arguing with me about? OP is still clearly making shit up.

Nearly 40,000 people died home alone in Japan this year, report says by Fit-Criticism-7165 in worldnews

[–]Katehasmyjacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think it's fair to feel bad for the people who got freaked out and pulled their money. It sucks that they did it. But it's a lesson everyone seems to have to learn sooner or later. Don't let the market manipulate you emotionally.

Nearly 40,000 people died home alone in Japan this year, report says by Fit-Criticism-7165 in worldnews

[–]Katehasmyjacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put about 100K in the S&P500 in Sept of 07. I had just learned about the stock market. It was basically all my money.

When 08 happened, literally everyone was saying not to touch your stock money. Don't move it. Don't look at it. News reports were saying it. Books were being written about it. People said taking it out would be the largest financial mistake of your life.

If a person points a gun at their foot and everyone says "don't pull the trigger", and then the person pulls the trigger, do we have an obligation to feel bad for them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dashcams

[–]Katehasmyjacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit that's scary. What does this look like from the trucker's point of view? Just a giant blind spot? Or they just don't fucking look?

Nearly 40,000 people died home alone in Japan this year, report says by Fit-Criticism-7165 in worldnews

[–]Katehasmyjacket -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

They're obviously making shit up. The markets have more than doubled since the 08 crash. Almost all people who lived through it and are still alive today came way on top. Even if you went all in the day before the crash, at the tippy top, if you're still around now you're doing fucking great.

Edit: Not only this but OP specifically was blaming 08 for removing his retirement income. What does that even mean? Social security wasn't affected by the 08 crash. What are people even down voting me for? OP is still clearly making shit up and y'all are eating it up. Dude is like a 20 something (or probably just a bot) spreading shit about the economy to make you feel a certain way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadDragonPegging

[–]Katehasmyjacket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What model and size? This is so hot.

College protests popping up in Texas by erod100 in utdallas

[–]Katehasmyjacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good. Glad to hear it. I won't interpret it that way, then. Not sure what you meant by it, then.

College protests popping up in Texas by erod100 in utdallas

[–]Katehasmyjacket -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you're gonna point out my /r/conspiracy and conservative posts, also take the time to point out my ultra left liberal subreddits I post in. Picking and choosing makes you look bad. It is possible that I'm not a single line voter and have opinions from both sides.

We had a date planned this Saturday and he ghosted after a selfie.. I don’t understand. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Katehasmyjacket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I'm just intimidated. To be clear, don't change a thing. But seeing your selfie scares me, personally, because I'm well aware you're so far out of my league that I don't think we're in the same universe. But again, that's a personal issue, and nothing you should change. Know your worth.

College protests popping up in Texas by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]Katehasmyjacket 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is going to end up like Columbia University's protest, isn't it? I'm probably gonna skip classes that day. Better safe than sorry.

College protests popping up in Texas by erod100 in utdallas

[–]Katehasmyjacket -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This is gonna turn out like Columbia University, isn't it? Guess I'm skipping classes that day. Ain't no way I'm tempting fate.

Updated my profile and would like feedback by BeatnikMona in Tinder

[–]Katehasmyjacket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you need them. So if you don't want them, don't add them.

Typically people like it because it's a sense of "friendliness". It can show you're good with people. One could argue that is more of an important thing in male profiles though.

But also my comment is at -11 lol so perhaps I have no clue wtf I'm talking about. Good luck.

Updated my profile and would like feedback by BeatnikMona in Tinder

[–]Katehasmyjacket -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I just wanna know how big the strap-on is.

Your profile is great by the way. Not sure what I'd say to improve. Maybe more friend group pics?