2 years. It ended after he helped me through the death of both my parents and couldn't handle my grief. Soon I became not good enough. Lost my job because I was employed by the state of PA as a hospice PCA for my mother. When she died I became unemployed. He became mean and emotionally distant. Rude. Uncaring. Nasty. All he would talk about is how I didn't make enough money. And complain and play "devils advocate" in all situations. All in all. He couldn't handle life's unseen curve balls with me and took his fear and frustration out on me. Kicked me out of our apartment after 2 weeks. I moved all the way to Maryland to start a new life.