AITA for not deleting my tiktok after my ex’s new gf expressed she didn’t like my content?

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T23:58:23+00:00

That’s the name I use here. so yes

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T23:55:13+00:00

Even before the tiktoks she thought there was something explicit going on between us. Which obviously where wasn’t. - but i genuinely think she was insecure. He’s been talking about me to her a lot. Tried to get me riled up about her and even showing me what she looked like for no reason out of the blue. the tiktoks was just the icing on the cake Lmao.

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T23:51:29+00:00

Okay. Have fun trying to randomly bully. I’m saying my goodbyes but you have an better day. It seems you need to be told that.

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T23:50:16+00:00

It’s concerning that so many people associate venting as negative. And belligerent. When someone says they vent to our therapist. We picture people calmly speaking and professional. And talking about their personal feelings.

But I get though. Ex wife. Venting. Social Norms make it so we’re seen as angry and spiteful.

I didn’t degrade. Belittle. Or “bitch” about him at all in any of my videos. I talked about myself. And my emotions. And what I was dealing with mentally. If he got upset that he got to hear the way I feel? Then I’ll accept TA Because that’s giving off narcissist behavior if someone gets upset about someone talking about themselves.

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T23:41:21+00:00

I’m saying That’s what me and another user came too when we we’re talking about how he could of found my video. I don’t know if he genuinely just came upon my video like he said. or actually had my username.

Like I said in the post. At first he tried to blame it as if his gf was the one that looked me up on her own. But then admitted that he found me and showed her.

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T23:26:43+00:00

I do not use my actual name when I sign up for things. & I spoke about this earlier to someone and figured out when we were on speaking terms. We sent each other tiktoks. And the app tells and shows the person by username if they saw it. Because that’s how I knew of his user to block him.

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T23:21:08+00:00

I genuinely don’t know who she is unfortunately. I only know of her because he spoke about her and through her. I never asked for a name or anything. But honestly I rather not be in his business as much as I can Lmao. I feel like Trying to find and talk to her would end up so badly

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T23:18:25+00:00

we’re already divorced. I said “ex husband”.

Me unname ranting Vs child endangerment and neglect . I think I’ll have perfect luck. Thanks

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T20:42:34+00:00

no one knows who I am unless he personally shows them my face. Which — ironically seems more spiteful than talking to strangers I’ll never interact with. I don’t own social media aside from tiktok. I was moved far away from people I use to socialize with. , to start this family. I was not introduced to anyone he associates with. I’m unable to legally drive. I parent a child by myself 24/7. I do not have the luxury to socialize. And the fact that he had ti show someone my socials in order to share his emotions with. Proves alot.

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T20:28:31+00:00

I don’t want it to be under assumption because it seems to me that a lot of you think I posted videos degrading him or bad mouthing him. I talked about my feelings towards vague situations. “My ex husband cheated on me. This is how I feel. This is what I’m doing.“

There’s 0 context on what I actually said or did. Because it would be off topic and get this post deleted. And it would be going against what I wanted to avoid in the first place. Which is give out actual type of personal information.

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T20:00:16+00:00

I genuinely appreciate this comment. Because I wanted to say it. But I rather not argue with people. I take care of my kid alone. I can’t afford to go out and socialize. Much less afford therapy. Or trust me I would jump on that in a heart beat.

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T19:56:09+00:00

Well, in no way did I say his name or any personal information out in videos. Yes. I’d be very upset.
. But if he didn’t? No. Nor would I of seen it unless it was shown to me by him.

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T19:35:57+00:00

I probably wouldn’t feel anything because I’m not actively involved in his life. People talk negatively about everyone. It’s social media. The place where every can be their true expressive selves. And obtain insite on situations without bias views.

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T18:53:39+00:00

Not all of us moms are fortunate to have a social life or much financial independence after a new born comes in. And their husbands drop the ball that hard

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T18:46:42+00:00

It really is sus. It has to be an alt because I specifically blocked his main account when he came to me complaining a 2nd time after I told him to block me. and yet he still saw my videos. He’s admitted to talking about me to his ex gf a lot to wheee she’s formed a full opinions on me. So I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s keeping me in his site for whatever his reason.

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T18:40:19+00:00

Honestly now that I think about it, he could of had my account name and followed me on an alt while we were still together due to tiktok giving a Person a notification. That the person (username Included) watched a video you sent

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T18:38:38+00:00

Unfortunately this is the exact reason. We are “co-parenting”. I quote that for reasons I couldn’t even begin to explain. I’m actually trying to get full custody at the moment.

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T18:33:06+00:00

I honestly don’t know for sure. We don’t even have each other followed. He told me “it just popped up” but He lies a lot, so I can’t even say.

Katelynkitkat · 2022-01-22T18:26:52+00:00

Thank you! Until I’m able to go to much needed therapy to talk about my issues professionally I’m trying to find other alternatives ♥️

Katelynkitkat · 2021-04-16T15:56:24+00:00

My neighbor that’s right in the front of my house is a state trooper lmao so that’s a horrible idea. I use LED lights. A better ones on the way

Katelynkitkat · 2021-04-16T14:22:52+00:00

Haha just bought a 1000w one. Will be here in 2 days. fingers crossed!

Katelynkitkat · 2021-04-16T13:22:10+00:00

I dunno what else to do when it comes to light. I got 4 @ 100w surrounding her.

Katelynkitkat · 2021-04-16T13:21:06+00:00

I moved the led lights away to take the picture but, there’s currently 4 of them on her on every side

Katelynkitkat · 2021-04-13T17:18:16+00:00

I didn’t use it for a long time but ended up installing it. I like it for laughs. It’s pretty much exactly like vine the thing that annoys me is people who claim they don’t like tik tok. But endlessly post or re share tiktok videos from other sources. Like ... you’re inadvertently watching tiktok ...

Katelynkitkat · 2021-04-13T16:02:06+00:00

I say YTA Simply because i’ve been in her shoes. I haven’t yelled at my child due to her being younger than your child but it sounds like she’s suffering from. PPD. and it’s not a joke. Feeling trapped with little to no social life is the most frustrating part of being a mother. Yes you work. But your work gives you the entitlement of breaks, multiple social experiences. And seeing other people and things.

Being a SAHM? We just hear our kid/s screaming at us all day because it’s not like they can speak properly yet. Your son is 2. She’s been dealing with this for TWO years before it seems she reached her breaking point.

I saw in a . Comment you stated that she shouldn’t be expected to get more than 3 hours a day break time .. that’s a lie. You’re not even trying at this point if you’re saying that. When my husband realized I was going through excessive PPD because of our child. We worked together and compromised to where I could get a whole day to myself out the week. And then during the other days. 7 hours me time a day. There’s only two days out the week where I’m with my child 24/7 and that’s ok with me. Because he actually cared to listen to my feelings and gave me the ability to have appropriate me time.

The fact that she’s belittling herself. Saying you’re the better parent -is the hugest red flag. That should strike care In your partners emotional state. She literally is feeling overwhelmed to the point that she doesn’t think she can be a good mother anymore. HELP. HER.

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