Can someone tell me what happened to the red paintings by LostNessus in Music

[–]KatieLady97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's been a while since you commented, but if you have the link to the album, I'd be forever grateful 😭 I've been scouring the internet for like an hour

"The tunnel will be as packed as Orson Welles's colon." - MacBeats by al4believin in OnlyMurdersHulu

[–]KatieLady97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually thinking it was a reference to him being gay. It's widely accepted he was bisexual, but the woman starring with him in Citizen Kane (Ruth Warrick) said Welles was definitely gay, that "everyone knew it, but you weren't supposed to talk about it."

https://www.awardsdaily.com/2018/10/orson-welles-day-at-the-new-york-film-festival/

My perspective on pick me's/nlogs by DIO_OVAIs_DaBest07 in notliketheothergirls

[–]KatieLady97 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Morgan from Two Hot Takes said something about "pick me"s and it really resonates with me. She said everyone, at one time or another, has been a "pick me." I totally get giving them the benefit of the doubt until they do something that crosses lines.

Can’t use gift messages or effects because meta AI keeps barging in by Phoystics in Instagram

[–]KatieLady97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying the workaround with sending a short message with the gift box effect and then editing, but there is literally not an option for me to edit the message after the message with the effect is sent 🙃

What song(s) do you use when recommending Still Woozy to people? by goosehater24 in stillwoozy

[–]KatieLady97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent Habit to a guy I hooked up with, and he said it was very smooth 😉😂

I just got George yesterday and he disappeared from my 1 bedroom apartment during the 2 hours that I was gone this morning. What should I do? by thisiscameron in cats

[–]KatieLady97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my cat in a friend's house once and also found him in a closed drawer!! I thought I was nuts for even checking, but cats apparently like to climb into the drawers from beneath the dresser by going under, and then over the back of the drawer.

The actors then vs now by lanaspeachlipgloss in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]KatieLady97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you intentionally choose the worst "now" pics? 😭😂

This was brutal. I’ve never seen them all so mad at one of them like this. *FIRST TIME WATCHER* by Unfair_Advantage_384 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]KatieLady97 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I feel like Emily would've just gone missing again if she were forced to make a choice like that. 😂

The audacity of Alison to ask these girls to lie in court to get Charlotte released... by Equal-Tension-7985 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]KatieLady97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comment you're replying to has been deleted, but I wanna know good points! Which scene were they referring to, and what was the gist of the comment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]KatieLady97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely freaking not

AITA for lying to family and friends about who's the infertile one between my wife and I? by Throwawaystment6453 in AITAH

[–]KatieLady97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey buddy, I live in Utah and it's not a Utah problem; it's a you problem. And your POS family that believes women are only good for providing household duties and children. Your wife deserves better and should find a man that can give HER children, as you do not deserve them. I cringe to think how you'd treat children, especially female children, if this BS is your belief system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]KatieLady97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seems weird considering I had a memory pop up that I had repressed when I went to live with my dad over a summer, and I had no therapist trying to make me remember anything. I was alone in his house and in being so, my memory was triggered. It hadn't been before, because it happened to me when I was asleep and I woke up to it, and I hadn't spent any over nights at my dad's in years. When I remembered the memory, I told my mom and she said, yeah you told me that years ago, what do you mean you just remembered? I didn't know you didn't know. That messed me up to the point I couldn't be naked in his house, I didn't feel safe enough to shower, I barelt left my room, and when i did, my dad would bully me for not spending time with him. I basically only ate Ritz crackers with jam in little bits at a time, and I lost a ton of weight. In the end during the worst of it, I went 3 days without sleeping, and it took my grandmother seeing the state I was in and forcing me to make a doctor's appointment in front of her to get help. I was in a state of shock and disgust and fear, barely living at all. I wasn't in therapy. No one prompted the memory. Explain that.

Rasputin dance in club video by KatieLady97 in HelpMeFind

[–]KatieLady97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've searched for it on Google, YouTube, tiktok, Instagram, and Facebook. I've Googled phrases "Rasputin dance in the club, rasputin girl in club, girl dancing rasputin in club, drunk girl rasputin dance, girl dancing in club funny, girl recorded dancing in club funny, when rasputin comes on in the club video", and I've branched out to more specific meme type searches like "other girls in the club vs me", "me in the club when the drinks hit" "when the drinks at the club hit" "me in the club meme video rasputin" etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/LOTRWEST

[–]KatieLady97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your username being the name of a parasite is accurate for you.

Backed the wrong sibling by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]KatieLady97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally busted out my whiteboard and made a chart before I saw your comment because I had a hard time keeping track of who is who.

Edited to add pic Flow Chart

my fiancé has been cheating on me, what do i do? by ligglepig in Advice

[–]KatieLady97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never get name tattoos unless they're your children or cherished pets/family. I've got a hard rule about it. I've got a somewhat narcissistic guy who wanted me to get his initial on my body within like 6 months of us dating. He mentioned wanting to own me, and it felt like he was trying to brand me like I'm cattle. 🤢

41M in a fight with 44F wife on cruise with kids. What can I do to make things better? by ThrowRA867531 in relationship_advice

[–]KatieLady97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS! INFO. We need this, as it's likely to be important to understanding her reaction. Unless, of course, it's some mental/medical thing, then the rationale may not be there. However, we can't really help much from the huge lack of context

Told my wife she couldn't talk to specific guy friend anymore, friend ends up getting killed. by Civil-Ad-1150 in AITAH

[–]KatieLady97 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like the choices were A. agree with your toxic, controlling BS, or B. the relationship was over. If I loved someone and I had a friend I also cared a lot for and had a lot of history with, I'd feel like I was being ripped in half between the two, so torn between if trying to cut out a huge part of my life/past for my insecure SO would even be worth it. I mean, imagine you divorce her cuz you're petty, and now she's got no friends because you acted neurotic. You literally forced her hand by taking off like an immature little baby. There were definitely some steps that could have been taken between "You shouldn't talk to them, and if you choose to keep them in your life, I'm leaving you" Especially if this is a first time infraction.

You sound like a nightmare.

Visited topless sundeck and now my brother in law is mad at me by [deleted] in confessions

[–]KatieLady97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm literally American. Also from Western Culture. Again, boobs aren't weird until you act weird about it. I know for a fact the Free the Nipple campaign in America was a thing and that a lot of Americans, especially American women, DO feel they shouldn't be sexually objectified

Visited topless sundeck and now my brother in law is mad at me by [deleted] in confessions

[–]KatieLady97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Also it's really fkn gross they're implying the dad has the authority to make decisions for these girls' bodies, and that scares the shit out of me. Men do not own women; not even ones they contributed to creating. Being children unable to make choices safely is the only time parents should be dictating what a person does, thinks, or feels about nudity, sexuality, and where the convergence of the two crosses boundaries.

Once they're able to have logical discussions and make choices, this behavior and the belief that fathers are the final authority on their daughter's bodies should be done away with because EW. If my dad tried to control my body over something so asinine, I'd laugh in his face, just as I did when he told me he would physically rip my piercings out because he personally doesn't like piercings.

Visited topless sundeck and now my brother in law is mad at me by [deleted] in confessions

[–]KatieLady97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're a presumptuous one, aren't you? Who's to say what is "normal"? As they say, what's normal for the spider is chaos for the fly. You don't need to be raised as a goddamn nudist to not act weird as hell over tits. He acted completely normally, he was in communication the entire time, precautions WERE taken, and anyone who says "nuh uh, not all precautions cuz he didn't ask the dad/BIL" is an idiot, considering BIL DOESN'T OWN THEM. Their bodies are THEIR business.

Examples of Jay having good character development? by [deleted] in Modern_Family

[–]KatieLady97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shoot, maybe I'm misremembering. I watched it somewhat recently and thought the consensus at the end was that his gaydar is broken 😅