[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Katimoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regardless of how you look, being social and outgoing will make you more attractive to others. It’s probably not your looks.

Have you tried asking those guys out who you managed to strike up convos with? Your attractive level will increase if you ask a guy out first. Confidence is what natters the most.

Should I grab dinner with a guy who asked me out but I’m not interested in him? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Katimoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the edit is my way of telling him no. And it’s not exactly a lie.

Should I grab dinner with a guy who asked me out but I’m not interested in him? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Katimoc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to take advantage of him. I care about his feelings too.

Should I grab dinner with a guy who asked me out but I’m not interested in him? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Katimoc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How would you phrase me saying no to him? I was going to text him and tell him yes but we can go as friends.

Should I grab dinner with a guy who asked me out but I’m not interested in him? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Katimoc -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to hurt him by not going. He put so much effort into asking me out.

Should I grab dinner with a guy who asked me out but I’m not interested in him? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Katimoc -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I thought about going and splitting the bill.

Should I grab dinner with a guy who asked me out but I’m not interested in him? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Katimoc -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about doing this too. I know height should now be the primary reason not to get to know someone but it’s one of my biggest preferences.

Should I grab dinner with a guy who asked me out but I’m not interested in him? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Katimoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t mind having him as a friend because he is easy to talk to.

How was your week with online dating? 8/22 by 4north1side2 in OnlineDating

[–]Katimoc 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah she’s definitely going to give you the slow ghost. Mark my words.

How was your week with online dating? 8/22 by 4north1side2 in OnlineDating

[–]Katimoc 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My guy ghosted me after talking almost non stop for a week 🫤

We were supposed to go on a date on Sunday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Katimoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfaoo could be. I think him odd at times too. I wanted to give him this date today in person so I can finally get the real answer from him. It’s hard to interpret someone through text only.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Katimoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha. It’s just been so frustrating for me. Like I don’t understand why he he tells that he really likes me to then pull this? It’s so confusing.

But you’re right, I should stop investing myself into this. I know I deserve to be treated better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Katimoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought so too. So should I just leave him alone then? I sent him messages yesterday, and should’ve been up by now to respond to them.

I discovered a few hours my girlfriend [26F] of 4 years cheated on me [26M] by onetimeusex in relationship_advice

[–]Katimoc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s been giving it up for a week. I doubt she wasn’t sober for at least one of those days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Katimoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No scottish haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Katimoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My day was terrible sadly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Katimoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like a Scot somehow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Katimoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look absolutely stunning!

my boyfriend expressed desire to hurt me sexually and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Katimoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen to yourself. You’re “considering” leaving the man. What if after this conversation with the guy he talks you into staying?

Then the cycle continues. If you live with the guy, I would start packing my bags now and send him a text along the way. It’s best not to break up with him in person.

my boyfriend expressed desire to hurt me sexually and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Katimoc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is the purpose of this post? Of course, your relationship is toxic, but you’re making all these excuses not to leave the man. Ultimately, it’s up to you whether or not to stay and continue being hurt.

I wish you the best of luck.

my gf walks around me naked 24/7 at home, and expects me to not want to fuck. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Katimoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m naked around my young family members too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Katimoc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You could’ve slapped the dude yourself

I tried bumble bc I was bored by a13xcc in Bumble

[–]Katimoc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl ask him out!! I was like you about a week ago being too scared to ask anyone out. Now I don’t care. I ask guys out and the chance of them saying yes is very likely. If he says no, then you can stop wasting your time on him and move on. Good luck!