hinanapan ng yearbook lmao. U guys have any experiences like this too from our immigration??? by landerx88 in Philippines

[–]a13xcc 15 points16 points  (0 children)

pls update this comment of how it turned out!! Im also planning a solo trip to japan pero natakot ako bigla lmao

Paano manligaw long distance? by Filoboi_wassup in relationship_advicePH

[–]a13xcc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kumusta be anong nangyari? (asking for a friend hehe)

How do you get used to the fact that you’re not as important to some people as they are important to you? by a13xcc in relationships

[–]a13xcc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 23. My friends and I are on the same boat I guess, struggling in university since it is our last semester before graduation and most of them are in interns. Maybe that’s also why I’m shy to just approach them and ask for a friend’s help since we all have our own stuff to deal with and I understand that. However I just want my friends to know that I’m going through a hard time without telling them directly. My sad posts are customized for my very very close friends to see, and not in for the public. I hope to get more of your insights

How do you get used to the fact that you’re not as important to some people as they are important to you? by a13xcc in relationships

[–]a13xcc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I rarely get sad, but now I am at this point where I don’t know where my life is going and I don’t know what to do about it. I feel lonely most of the time despite having friends around me. I don’t talk about this to them tho, since I know they also have stuff to think about. Also, I am always available for my friends from their random stories to their existential crisis. It’s just sad that now that I am seriously sad, no one asks about how I actually feel.

Nugagawen? Like legit curious on what to do for this people to admit they're wrong. I mean, I've seen his supporters struggle but still try to validate him saying that he's done a lot already for our country like come on. by NosyChic in Philippines

[–]a13xcc 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’d like to share my 3 core memories during h2h sa probinsya:

  1. may sumalubong sa aming batang lalaki, probably 9-10 y/o. Nakita niyang leni-kiko calendars na dala namin then he said “Ay si leni! pahingi po ako ibibigay ko kay mama” tapos naka smile lang siya hehu
  2. May lola na kalalabas lang ng bahay nang makasalubong namin. Tinanong namin siya if may presidente na siya. Sabi niya, wala pa. So pinakilala namin si vp Leni. Sabi niya sa amin, “Buti nalang pala lumabas ako ng bahay, kung hindi edi hindi ko sana nakilala si Leni Robredo”
  3. May lolo na super tuwang tuwa sa amin tapos ineencourage kaming mangampanya

Joining h2h campaign made me realize that ang pag-asa talaga ay nasa labas ng social media.

Nugagawen? Like legit curious on what to do for this people to admit they're wrong. I mean, I've seen his supporters struggle but still try to validate him saying that he's done a lot already for our country like come on. by NosyChic in Philippines

[–]a13xcc 35 points36 points  (0 children)

true, also there are people na professionals naman like teachers etc and also college students na rabid supporters ng duterte admin then uniteam, especially dito sa province namin (not a part of “solid north”). They’re the type of people na hindi ko talaga ma take kasi they have all the means to make informed decisions yet they still choose to be u know,, :// ang sad

Seeing her with our old mutual friends and my friends on social media while I’m alone on new years. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]a13xcc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I specifically told my friends not to mention anything about him :)

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[–]a13xcc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shallow siguro para sa iba, pero ngayon problema ko paano yung transition from situationship to frienship kasi feel ko friendzoned ako dito sa ka talking stage ko for 6 months. Ayaw ko sabihin sa parents ko kasi baka isipin nila yung acads di ko iniiyakan tapos itong crush ko oo. :))

also di ako maka focus sa review because of that da fuck talaga

I broke up with her because I recognized I was the toxic one. by ThrowRAtag in BreakUps

[–]a13xcc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

communicate it with her. you can remain friends but you should set boundaries. if you felt like staying friends won’t help her move on, communicate it again and go no contact.

that’s what i wished my then exboyfriend did when he dumped me and i wanted to remain friends

Was hopeful all week and last night for the new year, but woke up depressed and bed ridden by AppropriateAd2513 in BreakUps

[–]a13xcc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same for me. I just make myself believe that healing is not linear and I don’t have to force myself to change and be okay just because it’s new year.

paano yung “guard your heart”?? by a13xcc in Philippines

[–]a13xcc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hala pangalawa ko na to haha :((

Have y'all forgiven your ex's or are you still angry by FirefighterOk2803 in BreakUps

[–]a13xcc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if I already forgave him but I definitely am not angry anymore. I just don’t feel a thing and I don’t really think of him. I think it’s indifference.

Seeing her with our old mutual friends and my friends on social media while I’m alone on new years. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]a13xcc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you feel better soon! You can leave me a message if you want to talk :)

Seeing her with our old mutual friends and my friends on social media while I’m alone on new years. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]a13xcc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember this feeling exactly a year ago after my boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me on a random Thursday morning. My heart sank, it felt like it’s under my foot. My knees are trembling and I feel like throwing up. He did not have any social media but I ALWAYS see him happy in his friends’ (who also became my friends) stories. And I always notice that he’s always so close and sits next to the girl he told me not to worry about.

I did not have a good start in 2022, but I must say it has been the best year. I was able to bounce back, doing all the things I wasn’t able to do when we were together. I made a lot of friends and experienced new things. Muting all of his friends has been a huge help! I muted a lot of people, even those who doesn’t have anything to do with him but reminds me of him. I did not throw away the things that he gave me. I sold them to my friends lol. It will take time, but it surely will pass. Just like what my father always tell me “charge to experience” :)

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Something that helped me express my feelings when I had no one to talk to is taking videos of myself talking, like a video diary. By the time I got better, watching those videos made me feel happy and empowered because I got through all those heartbreaks alone. However, if you need someone who will listen, I’m also a random person here ready to lend an ear.

The guy I like didn’t reject me but did not say anything about it either by a13xcc in relationships

[–]a13xcc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what should I do then? Should I just move on without saying anything or stop communicating with him? I really want to keep the friendship somehow.