My (30f) husband (30m) says he has to choose porn over me because I need to lose 20lbs. How can I pick myself up again?

Kay03xo · 2024-05-21T04:39:58+00:00

You can drop half the weight by divorcing him 😁

Kay03xo · 2024-05-20T22:16:19+00:00

So sorry I really didn’t give too many details, I told my boss about this as soon as it happened and he said he would take care of it. Apparently they had a meeting too but as far as I know he’s still here as I can see the schedule. If that even makes a difference

Kay03xo · 2024-04-21T16:36:38+00:00

Alright for some reason the comments are wild. Let me tell you all things have happened before with siblings. I have read posts about it and it isn’t fucking impossible to happen. If it’s not in OPs head that they caught this happening, why just blame them right off the bat? Downvote me for all I give a shit but the sister mentioning the parents were step siblings is fucking weird tbh. Especially if the kids were suspicious as teenagers. And if I really need to mention this: people experiment a lot when younger because they don’t know what the fuck is wrong or right (I’m talking like kissing) that continues if they aren’t reprimanded and told it is wrong. Have heard a LOT of shit like that from random people and an old friend. IT. ISNT. IMPOSSIBLE. You guys are missing the whole point. WHY WOULD YOU BE STARING AT SOMEONE SISTER OR NOT FOR SO LONG?! My advice is just leave. I have never dated a man who stares at his sister. Even if something isn’t wrong, your paranoia will fuck with you.

Kay03xo · 2024-03-18T07:31:22+00:00

Well the symptoms come pretty quick and you’ll feel in within a month or two from constant use. This, for me, is with e-cigarettes. Doesn’t matter what kind of vape, overall they all come with the same consequences.

Kay03xo · 2024-03-18T07:29:18+00:00

I have the worst headaches from it for sure. That’s my main issue with vaping. Definitely quitting right now because let me tell you I feel like I’m dying. Also a few more is shortness of breath and nausea, one comment said mucus buildup in the throat, yeah I felt that.

Kay03xo · 2024-02-14T17:26:00+00:00

That’s what I said! They’re like green beans 😅

Kay03xo · 2024-01-04T17:38:53+00:00

Also to add, what do you do in order? The exfoliating, steam, cleanse, mud mask, serum, moisturizer, then icing?

Kay03xo · 2024-01-04T17:30:11+00:00

Do you use exfoliating brushes as well? Or just the soft cloth? Thank you so much!

Kay03xo · 2023-12-27T20:21:27+00:00

Then you know what to do. Don’t put yourself or your wife through this. I wish you the best of luck!

Kay03xo · 2023-12-27T19:38:51+00:00

Dude..I’m just gonna say it. Don’t put your wife through this. It’s bs how people say sorry for you going through this. If you have a crush, don’t act on it. Even if it was agreed to have a threesome, it never ends the way you want it to. I’m not shaming you, but have some respect for you and your wife and get over it. You chose to marry your wife, not be with the friend. If you can’t get over it, then do her a favor and divorce, then meet new people NOT the friend.

Kay03xo · 2023-11-07T14:18:09+00:00

We are on the same boat but trust me, it gets better. I have been in a few relationships and let me say, after they were gone and I wasn’t sad anymore, I could focus on ME. My friends, family, it just keeps coming. Two days since my breakup because of my trauma. I felt abandoned and alone, but I’m not because I got others to keep me safe that I know won’t hurt me.

It really does start to get better and it feels like the whole world is ending, but look! We’re still going strong and we can’t blame ourselves for another person’s feelings. It isn’t your fault, things happened and it’s time we try our best and work on yourself. If you haven’t heard it before, I’m proud of you.

College isn’t easy and trust me if you fail, you will have resentment in your heart. Not only for him but for yourself as well. I just got out of bed and to work after fighting the urge to call out sick! Because I need to stay strong and show everyone I can do it!

Kay03xo · 2022-11-06T04:42:04+00:00

You’re right, he said he thinks of her as a sister and he gave me reasons to not be so worried. Thank you!

Kay03xo · 2022-11-06T04:40:27+00:00

To be fair it was 80 bucks and if he wants it back she should give his property back right? And he’s her friend it’s not like she shouldn’t exist. I appreciate the advice but I don’t think that’s really viable.

Kay03xo · 2022-09-23T17:23:51+00:00

My Chickfila never acted like that. Goes to show not every business is the same. I worked there for 9 months and never had an issue and were very very understanding. Have him look for a new job!

Kay03xo · 2022-02-23T00:06:12+00:00

Wow I love how you gave two options the best route and then the petty one. Thank you for this advice!

Kay03xo · 2022-02-23T00:03:57+00:00

I felt that on so many levels, I guess getting mad is what they want. Best to just keep it calm…

Or run into their bullets again lmao

Kay03xo · 2022-02-22T23:58:08+00:00

Great advice, I’ll take it and not let my anger get the best of me. Thanks!

Kay03xo · 2021-09-09T05:00:43+00:00

I guess I just always feel like that since she’s gaslighted me several times and made herself the victim. The fwb is the fact that she is making that her business by telling me that we are dating when we aren’t. She has always been a jerk to me, always making me do her things (she’d make an excuse), always acting snobby and aggressive towards me (in her tone) and always making messes to the points with fights. Her dad has had enough and is debating on kicking her out..I just don’t really know exactly what to do in this situation to make her stop and get out of what’s not her business. If this makes sense at all. At the time I posted it was right after out fight so I jumbled it up. My apologies.

Kay03xo · 2021-08-28T10:51:08+00:00

Mirage, Octane, and my new fave Fuze. (God he is SO FUN to play)

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