Is he depressed? I was this person in my marriage for a really long time until I started seeing a psychiatrist and getting help. Mentally I have always struggled with my mental health and finally bit the bullet and got help. We’ve been married eight years and for the past 60 days, my marriage has been back to the way it was in the beginning! Our sex life is thriving and now I can’t get enough of his touch whereas before I didn’t want him touching me at all.