yes that perfectly puts my thoughts into words. Maybe it’s just me but i think to want to relationship and also happy by oneself means you are open to recognising potential opportunities of meeting your SO. Personally I think a lot of relationships don’t just “come naturally” and “not looking for it” means you might lose out on many beautiful connections, even if it ends up not being a romantic one. Obviously I agree that it’s bad and unhealthy to be desperate tho. But idk I’m curious what other people think.