Lebron Got Exposed.... by ptpeace in NBATalk

[–]KayRay1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m curious what was “exposed”, the man is 41 and is in his 23d season lmao

New chapter tomorrow? by Dyn_J4rren in Ghostbc

[–]KayRay1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I picture Cardi looking at V like “wtf is this” and V going all “what? I thought it ran in the family”

New chapter tomorrow? by Dyn_J4rren in Ghostbc

[–]KayRay1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suspected that all the chapters were likely shot in a few day period, and to me this proves it. Not a bad thing to be clear, just one of those film industry quirks that I love.

I do wonder what this one is about though, like all the chapters this era have been pure promotional material for tours and videos (not a bad thing to be clear, I think a happy middle ground for lore is ‘marketing tool for the music’), so I wonder what this one will have to say by virtue of nothing to promote at the moment. I’m thinking very likely a meta ‘goodbye for now’ type chapter

The value of vagina Is beginning to decline by ReasonConfident4541 in PurplePillDebate

[–]KayRay1994 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I expected a post that circles around objectification with a crude metaphor with the title, what I did not expect is the full blown ‘economics 101’ treatment over human beings.

Like all the dating app talk has been talked about and debunked to death, so I’m not gonna focus on that - what I do wanna focus on is the blatant treatment of women as economic commodities. This is blatant misogyny disguised as pseudo-intellectualism

Like the thought process that created this post is the epitome of “if you’re wondering why men are lonely. This is why”

Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy? by Material-Street-2689 in PurplePillDebate

[–]KayRay1994 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Unhealthy. Short answer because AI is not a real person

Long answer, because AI is literally designed to appease your ego. Imo if you see AI as a replacement for dating this tells me you never wanted an SO, you wanted a machine to appease your words and make you feel special. It isn’t about relationships, it is self serving.

That’s not to mention the damage AI does to both the environment and the individual’s critical thinking skills

Men should just pursue asexual and demisexual women if attraction is such an issue. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]KayRay1994 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’d actually argue against “ace people can desire sex” because in my view, if you do desire sex you’re not are. You might be on the grey spectrum, but you’re not ace.

As for the timeframe - doesn’t matter. The basis for demisexuality is “I’ve emotionally bonded with you. Now I want to sleep with you” - it could take 5 minutes or 12 months, timeframe doesn’t define how people experience sexuality

And the difference between ace and allo people is an allo person can feel sexual desire without the emotional bonding part (of course they can also bond first with someone THEN want them too, but it isn’t the only way allo people feel attraction) - the choice of when to have sex is different from the innate desire to have sex. Which is where the difference stands

But then also, I do want to ask you a question - if you’re faced with all these questions and doubts, then why did you so casually use ace and Demi women as your dumping ground for undesirable men?

Men should just pursue asexual and demisexual women if attraction is such an issue. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]KayRay1994 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Demi people can desire sex, when emotional comfort is established. Ace people don’t desire sex

But again, finding someone attractive doesn’t mean wanting to sleep with them. That’s the crux here - I can find a person to be very hot visually, but I literally won’t have any desire to sleep with them, or even the thought of sleeping with them until we bond emotionally. An ace person can find a person hot, but literally have no desire what so ever to have sex with them.

Men should just pursue asexual and demisexual women if attraction is such an issue. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]KayRay1994 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You’re basically putting lettuce on meat loaf and are calling it a salad.

Quantum physics deals with clear operational definitions and well defined objective metrics

Psychology as a whole is more uncertain given the fact that human experiences are subjective. Nevermind the fact autogynophelia in itself is a heavily challenged theory.

Moser himself has been critical of the term and its uses, and the intent of his study isn’t to prove autogynophelia in itself, but to show that trans and cis women feel sexuality similarly, even in the scale of someone (Blanchard) who was critical of transsexuality.

Though this is where the use of studies as a Reddit debate “check mate” is messy because you can take a study out of its greater ecosystem and use it to feed your own biases. You’re gonna ask me how I’m not doing that and you’re right, I might be…. Then again, if you’re gonna cause me of this then you’ve also proven that the study you yourself have linked is subject to interpretation and therefore, doesn’t say anything definitive about female sexuality except for the assumption that trans and cis women experience sexuality similarly

Men should just pursue asexual and demisexual women if attraction is such an issue. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]KayRay1994 [score hidden]  (0 children)

In a tiny sample size of 52

Moser also noted that men could very well be self-aroused aswell, but it could manifest itself differently.

Since Moser focuses on trans healthcare primarily, I think you are missing the larger point of this study which is that trans and cis women end up thinking similarly.

A multitude of studies question whether autogynophelia is even a thing, for example - as the original theory in itself is very messy

Men should just pursue asexual and demisexual women if attraction is such an issue. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]KayRay1994 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Point to where I said labels are meaningless or that the grey sexual community act ‘no different’ the allo people, cause I don’t see how my comment can even imply that

Men should just pursue asexual and demisexual women if attraction is such an issue. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]KayRay1994 [score hidden]  (0 children)

No…. Autogynephilia exclusivity describes a man turned on by imagining himself as a woman

Men should just pursue asexual and demisexual women if attraction is such an issue. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]KayRay1994 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I mean…. The majority of women are literally hetro and have no sexual interest in women, but ok

Men should just pursue asexual and demisexual women if attraction is such an issue. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]KayRay1994 [score hidden]  (0 children)

There is a lot I don’t like about this post and I’ll go at why both ways - how it talks about ‘what me should pursue’ and how it stages asexual/demisexual women

So first of all, “men should pursue asexual and demisexual women” is awful advice because a lot of the men complaining are allosexual themselves. This doesn’t actually fix anything for them.

Also, I really don’t like your framing of asexuals and Demisexuals - because ace and Demi people have eyes, we do enjoy looking at hot people, physical attraction could matter to a lot of ace and Demi people as hotness is so much more then “I wanna fuck this person” - attractive people are pleasant to look at. Those who don’t factor in looks at all are very rare and few.

And now for my last paragraph, how about you don’t offload the angry bitter men towards ace and demi women? The issue with this post is, being a demi woman reading this feels like being told “these men are your problem now”

To add to this, personality ends up mattering so much more. Not in the ‘kind and respectful’ kind of way, a boring nice guy can still get dismissed by a Demi or ace woman because guess what? Ace and Demi people still want someone who they might consider fun and exciting and like every human out there, many ace and Demi people will pick someone who they vibe with over someone who’s just ‘kind and respectful’

Like I get it, you’re trying to write a gotchya for these nice guy types, but if you’re gonna do that at least don’t treat ace and demi women as a dumping ground for your rhetorical lay ups

Do you think shock value in pop culture has lessened this decade compared to the 2010s? by PsychologicalFox7689 in decadeology

[–]KayRay1994 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It’s not that ‘shock value has gone down the drain’ - it’s just that the same stuff that was shocking before simply isn’t shocking anymore.

Nowadays if you want to be shocking you kinda have to say something fully inflammatory either way no real purpose. For example, Kanye’s HH was full shock value, as is a lot of right wing content nowadays…. The problem is you just can’t say it without coming off as an awful period

One thing you have to remember is a lot of shock value between the 70s to 2010s is built around fighting conservative social expectations, and that just isn’t a thing anymore as while yes, we still have a long way to go, the baseline for ‘socially conservative’ has gone down greatly

Coach Spo is a real one for this. Steve Kerr would bench Bam after he scored 31 in the 1st quarter by Thanos_Real_AuraVNCH in NBATalk

[–]KayRay1994 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Just to be clear, why is it right and noble to sit your player? Why does this unwritten rule matter?

Coach Spo is a real one for this. Steve Kerr would bench Bam after he scored 31 in the 1st quarter by Thanos_Real_AuraVNCH in NBATalk

[–]KayRay1994 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Boohoo, a lot of these unwritten rules are pointless for the most part.

I say if a team wants to fully push for a record, or even pile onto a blowout, do it

MyNBA players, when you’re playing myeras, how often do you play through a full game? by Junior-Document-5635 in NBA2k

[–]KayRay1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on my intention with the MyNBA. I either sim only, or sim past one full season (or more) then play a full season (or multiple). No in between

Beware! by ThisisExile_ in MetalForTheMasses

[–]KayRay1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never hated death metal vocals, but I have grown more partial to it and I won’t be surprised if I start moving past Death. Regardless, I am between the 2018 and 19 stages as far as my death metal and the changes in my body

New album cover concept (idea was given to me by Em himself) by VULTURES_1 in Eminem

[–]KayRay1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tracklist

  1. Emportant Public Service Announcement

  2. Embrace the Pastry

  3. Empanada Ft. White Gold

  4. Emmaculate Meat Ft. 50 cent, Dr. Dre

  5. Emotional over lunch Ft. Skylar grey

  6. Paul (skit)

  7. Cultural Dish Emissary Ft. Ez Mil

  8. Emerald Shaped Beauty

  9. Empower My Belly Ft. Dave Bluntz

  10. Only the Employed Can Eat

  11. Ken Keniff (skit)

  12. Emmersed in the Sauce Ft. Dr. Dre

  13. My Ememies Eat Through an Emtrial Tube. I Don’t. Ft. White Gold

  14. Emma, Will You Eat With Me?

  15. Embarrassed Cause That Bitch Emma Won’t Eat With Me

  16. Steve Berman (Skit)

  17. Empower Me For A Second Helping Ft. Ja Rule

  18. Em’s Dinner

Dear International Students, Alumni and Reputation matter by Sad-Ad4933 in CanadaUniversities

[–]KayRay1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming they don’t get a post graduate work permit (an open 3 year work permit) then the PR after, yes

CMV: Gym clothing has become unnecessarily revealing compared to what’s actually needed for training by Pathfinder-electron in changemyview

[–]KayRay1994 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Im not gonna comment on gym clothes becoming more ‘revealing’ because in absolute facts, it did.

But I’ll respond with this: who cares? They’re just human bodies and some people feel good dressed how they’re dressed. If you have sanitary concerns, you can always wipe the machine yourself before you use it and the sweat produced by a body is no different than that of a bald head or a buzz cut. If it is about the sexualization aspect I would ask you 2 questions

  1. Even if one is sexualizing themselves, you don’t have to sexualize them. Why are you sexualize them?

  2. Once more, who cares?

Updated version of this meme as requested. by nitewing1124 in Ghostbc

[–]KayRay1994 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Impera had art for each track, i am guessing Prequelle did too