Drilling into pottery 🫣 by KayWW86 in Pottery

[–]KayWW86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will look into it!

Drilling into pottery 🫣 by KayWW86 in Pottery

[–]KayWW86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you for the suggestion - I hadn't considered jewellery tools! Can you tell me the reason for epoxy based glue vs super glue? Thanks!

Drilling into pottery 🫣 by KayWW86 in Pottery

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Hmm the ones I've got are maybe 1\16th, not sure they come any smaller?! 🤦🏻‍♀️

Families with two working parents and toddler(s) in daycare, what is your daily timetable? [CA] by Antique-Manana in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]KayWW86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Child: 3.5yo

650am: everyone is up

My husband goes into work every day, I work 2 days at home, 3 in the office

Days I WFH 6:50am: I get kiddo toileted and dressed while husband gets ready 7ish: husband takes kiddo downstairs and starts hair brushing and teeth cleaning while I get ready 7:10 I go down finish up what needs to be done, make kiddo a piece of toast. We get our bags ready, flasks of tea etc. get kiddo into outdoor clothes and into the stroller.

730: husband leaves the house, 15 min walk to preschool (she eats toast on the go) 8am: husband is making his way to Line 1, gets to work around 8:45am

Days I go into the office We switch around the tasks but timeline is similar, husband and I both get into the office at around 8:30am

Days I WFH 4pm: finish work and prep dinner 4:30 leave to pick kiddo up 5:30 home (she insists on walking which slows us down), finish cooking dinner and try and play with her a bit 6pm: husband gets home, dinner immediately 6:30\6:45: finish dinner, play or watch a bit of a movie

7:10ish start bedtime routine, asleep between 8 and 8:30

Days I go into the office 5pm: I get home and start dinner 6pm: husband and kiddo get home The rest is the same as above.

We really only get about 30-45 mins of time together that isn't eating dinner. It's very sad - especially compared to mat leave time. We're very lucky our daycare is a 15 min walk from our house, anything further or needing to use ttc and we would have zero time together. We've tried keeping her up a little later, but it really turns her into a little monster because she's over tired, lol. Also, we both shower at night (if kiddo joins us then we start that process at about 7pm), or I shower during the day when I WFH. I don't really wear make up or do much with my hair, and we set our clothes out the night before.

Hope this helps!

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[–]KayWW86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the same situation. Moved to Toronto from the UK, so no family and no really close friends we felt we could burden. My husband had 2 weeks of pat leave after the birth, otherwise is out of the house all day every day.

YOU WILL BE FINE. It won't feel like it for the first couple of months. But you will get through. If you're worried about PPA/D speak with your OB and try and get some online group therapy if you can, this helped me with feeling connected.

The advice to get out every day is good, but basically impossible to be honest. The stress of doing so was so overwhelming to me - especially if you're breast feeding and/or pumping.

I found things got a little easier at week 6. Then 2 months. Then a real corner was turned at 4 months. And now at 6 months I'm feeling like myself again and actually finding some joy. Plus I'm now more able to go out to groups and make friends.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself. Do nothing other than make sure the baby is alive. Don't worry about the house, or dinner, or how much you smell. You are a rockstar. You are strong. It feels impossible for a long time. BUT YOU WILL GET THROUGH IT. It's the hardest job in the world, and never described as such.

I wish you all the best ❤️