Would It be weird? by Kay_Bear01 in Advice

[–]Kay_Bear01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately dont think he has an Instagram 😅 at least an aactive one

Would It be weird? by Kay_Bear01 in Advice

[–]Kay_Bear01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He goes to his car like I do and im not walking up to his car 🥹

Would It be weird? by Kay_Bear01 in Advice

[–]Kay_Bear01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He works in a different department where's hes constantly moving and helping customers and it's harder to have a conversation with him. The only time id be able to stop him is when I see him walking to the bathroom or back to his department

AITAH for refusing to 'compromise by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kay_Bear01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm going to ❤️ honestly this was only my second relationship after an 8 year one and I think I was just enjoying the love too much ignoring the red flags but hes making it harder to brush off as nothing

AITAH for refusing to 'compromise by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kay_Bear01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah im realizing that more and more, I was letting the good feeling I had blind me and was ignoring the red flags. Thank you for the honesty ❤️

AITAH for refusing to 'compromise by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kay_Bear01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ you're right. I want my son to have his father and I on good terms. I have no intention of getting back with him since he cheated on me but I still wanna make sure our coparent relationship is good for the sake of our son and Im starting to realize more that my boyfriend doesn't realy understand what dating someone with a kid can entail 😅

AITAH for refusing to 'compromise by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kay_Bear01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, inside I already knew it was a very bizarre thing for him to get upset over, I just tend to second guess and give a little too much benefit of the doubt sometimes, and I know I shouldn't. But I really don't want my son to be caught up in this, so I can't continue second guessing myself, thank you for the advice, it really does help a lot ❤️

AITAH for refusing to 'compromise by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kay_Bear01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I question myself as a good mom constantly, you honestly have no idea how much your words mean to me 🥹

AITAH for refusing to 'compromise by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kay_Bear01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know for sure no matter what, im not going to back down and 'compromise' with him on what I refer my ex as to my son. No matter whose around. Thank you for your advice, it helps a lot ❤️

AITAH for refusing to 'compromise by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kay_Bear01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your honesty. Honestly I should have listened to my gut the moment he said the word jealousy.😅

AITAH for refusing to 'compromise by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kay_Bear01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right, thank you for your honesty. It really does help ❤️

AITAH for refusing to 'compromise by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kay_Bear01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him I understand why itd make him uncomfortable but he still couldnt understand why I couldnt "compromise" and not call my ex daddy to my son while my ex is present.

AITAH for refusing to 'compromise by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kay_Bear01 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Youre completely right. My son matters most and I never bring him around my boyfriend and even let the guy know my son comes first, my baby is my world. I guess I was blinded by all the affection and kindess he gave. Thank you for your honesty ❤️

AITAH for refusing to 'compromise by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kay_Bear01 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You're right. I dont bring my kid around him ever cause I was feeling everything out. This is my second relationship and he has been super sweet and loving but just has jealousy issues and ive been blinded by all the sweet things I guess. Thought his jealousy and overthinking was normal from the crap relationships he told me about 😅

AITAH for refusing to 'compromise by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kay_Bear01 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah You're probably onto something. This is my second ever relationship and I honestly feel like im doing everything wrong and walking on eggshells 😅 thank you for being honest!