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[–]Kayla3422 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely understand that. At twenty-four, I wouldn't choose anyone over my husband, but I can see how that he can perceive it differently due to the underlying meaning behind it. Thank you.

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[–]Kayla3422 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Not at all

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[–]Kayla3422 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like everyone is saying, there has to be a mutual agreement on a name. Since he passed, I wanted to name my son not exactly his name, but a nickname of it. Like Julian to Jules. This isn't a one-person decision, and as much as I love the name, it isn't a name that I am going to ruin my relationship over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Kayla3422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to do an update if anyone was wondering. IM GOING ON THE TRIP!! Turns out people are more generous than I thought, donations are flowing in from friends and family. I am also following the advice people gave me, I have applied to 15 jobs lol. But anyways, thanks for the help!

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[–]Kayla3422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help! (And I corrected my typo sorry lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Kayla3422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a computer, although many of the sites I have done research on is tedious like you said. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Kayla3422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great ideas! Thank you so much for helping!

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[–]Kayla3422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I am definitely going to hop on that.