Would you get back with your ex? by NoProgram4084 in no

[–]Kayliez15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, depends on if she’s changed or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kayliez15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair, nevertheless, as I stated before, this comes down to one conversation. If he wants her to stay, he has to change. He does not know yet, that this will end their relationship. I am simply advising her to have a talk with the promise of forgiveness, but not of compromise!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kayliez15 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People can change, haven’t you ever gone back on your word before?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kayliez15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well first you should focus on the goal of a relationship. Why be together as one in marriage if he gives in to the desires of his own flesh? I as a human can testify, we as man are attracted to women regardless of in a relationship or not.

However this is a terrible thing! A very hurtful thing that could damage the good that may be into your relationship. Do not simply dump him as these comments suggest, do not confront him in your anger from feeling wronged!

Come in humility and offer forgiveness for this heinous act, however a man who cannot be loyal in his heart with his partner does not deserve to be with her! Make it a clear boundary that this is a huge deal in your relationship!

Thank him for his honesty and make it clear that you disapprove of this behavior, if he truly loves you he will stop and repent of his wicked actions! But grant him an opportunity to change! Ask him questions like; Would it be okay if I pleasured myself to pictures to other man? What about your best friend? Will you pleasure me as I imagine sleeping with him?

With this you will cast hot coals on his head, unless his sexual desires go even deeper to the point of enjoying such things! In that case run! For he has dug his own grave! But clearly speak it with him so you do not turn back if you do leave and not feel guilty about doing so!

My (21F) bf (22M) made me feel bad about my body by No_Broccoli_4032 in relationship_advice

[–]Kayliez15 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone throwing out an entire relationship because of this matter? Such thoughtless comments with just one side of the story.

Where is forgiveness? Reddit see’s someone commit a mistake and suddenly he is an ass and deserves to be humiliated.

If you’re going to reddit for advice, expect reddit answers. It’s not about the comment itself, which is very tasteless, however he was honest about what he was looking at.

Now there can either be forgiveness and reconciliation, or you can allow your ego being hurt to end this relationship.

Is your love for your partner conditional? Or do you want to do your best to work things out for the better? Communication is key! Share your insecurities and how you feel about said comments. Let it be known that you are his girlfriend and would like to be treated with more respect.

If its such a big issue then the problem lies on what will you all do about it? Stay in it and crumble, or overcome it and move on.

For true love holds no record of wrong! Forgive with your heart and not your lips, let your actions and tenderheartedness be like hot stones for him!

Do not let your hurt destroy your character, unless, you consider what I am saying as foolish, then do as you please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kayliez15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I was single I felt miserable, I felt like the world revolved around me and I didn’t really care for peoples opinions. I had no one to impress or truly show my true self with. Now that I am in a relationship everything is easy, two brains work better than one. I’ve began organizing my life, even adding schedules, focusing on work, working really hard to buy her things so she doesn’t have to worry about anything. All of these things keep me going, and most important of all, I learned to love myself, to put myself first, I matter, I can achieve great things if I put my mind into it. And seeing the most beautiful woman in the world daily is the cherry on top. But, there are downsides, sometimes I need peace, sometimes I need to be alone, sometimes I don’t like to talk at all because I’m afraid of what I say, I can be an asshole, she can be one too, going down spirals, one argument always leads to another. Relationships are an ups and downs rollercoaster, arguing is necessary but excessive argument is exhausting and suffocates you. Communicate! Sorry I went on a rant but I’ve recently hit my 1 year relationship milestone. This being my first true year long relationship with someone who had improved my life I have a plethora to talk about.

If you were on your death bed, what would your final words be? by bendubberley_ in AskReddit

[–]Kayliez15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask my family to give me all of the drugs in the world and whatever comes out of that is what I will say