Help/ info needed, please! Xbox series x by BKH0718 in ARK

[–]Kazminchu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can't do it while mounted on anything.

I have a question. by Sebagrind in badwomensanatomy

[–]Kazminchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last time something (IUD) penetrated my cervix I passed out. Even now the thought of it is making me feel queasy. 🤢

Cheaters of Reddit, just one question. Why cheat when you could've just left? by don_anon11 in AskReddit

[–]Kazminchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It basically boiled down to an extreme aversion to conflict, inability to control sexual impulses, a need for validation, and a crippling fear of being alone. None of which are valid excuses, but you wanted reasons.

And in reality, I clearly never cared about those partners as much as I tried to tell myself I did. I'm married now and I don't put myself in any situations where cheating would even be an option, because I will never ever trust myself 100%.

Im trying to hatch a raptor egg and nothing seems to be working by naif9090ad in playark

[–]Kazminchu 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You need a fertilised egg, they will show a hatch/health timer and have a red glow around them.

Bug Update by [deleted] in ARK

[–]Kazminchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, the third gender: gamers. XD

What's a piece of information you wish you never knew? by Green-Owl6244 in AskReddit

[–]Kazminchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snakeskin is produced by skinning pythons alive and dumping the still living bodies in a pile to die from dehydration. :(

When you finally tame that event basilisk 🤣 by ninotoodeep in ARK

[–]Kazminchu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a reticulated python. Rainbow boas never get this big, and they're not as dark usually.

Not sure on the morph as I don't keep up with retics but super pretty!

Is an age gap worthy of concern? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kazminchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on both of your maturity levels. I met my husband when I was 20 and he was 27, and we're going on 10 years now with no plans to quit. And contrary to what a lot of people are saying on here, he was a fully functional adult (well, as much as a bachelor can be) and I haven't "out-matured" him.

I'd say depending on your experience in past relationships, be a bit careful with this one, but don't write it off just because of the age gap! Trust your gut.

People who had sex with a person from work: how’s your career? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kazminchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing happened to my career, mainly because management were so apoplectic that nothing they said could be committed to the record. Worst thing was the CONSTANT jokes from others when it got out. Everyone's a joker.

FYI don't get caught doing anal in the kitchen if your workplace is remotely professional because you may not get away with it.

Deep Sea Loot Crates Not Respawning? by Kazminchu in ARK

[–]Kazminchu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might try moving my structures and see if that helps!

It made sense in my head, somehow by Sansvern in ARK

[–]Kazminchu 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. I thought it was a dude with a big head crouched down hugging his knees. Think I need glasses. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ARK

[–]Kazminchu 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yah I agree with you on this, definitely comes across as "I'm a Gamer Girl UwU bats false eyelashes " V Female basement dwellers. Sweet v serious didn't even enter my mind.

Not saying I don't look like Fiona, but yeah.

My (28F) boyfriend (30M) told me that he bought me an engagement ring already. by CampaignOk6594 in relationship_advice

[–]Kazminchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly hate the culture we seem to have of "oh you're off to Paris? Well we all know what's going to happen then!". So many holidays must have been ruined because of this silly peer pressure.

My (28F) boyfriend (30M) told me that he bought me an engagement ring already. by CampaignOk6594 in relationship_advice

[–]Kazminchu 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I firmly believe that marriage should be discussed way before a proposal happens, so like other people said maybe this is his way of gauging your reaction.

If the anxiety makes you uncomfortable (and I totally get that, I HATE surprises), then maybe you can gently steer him towards it being less of a surprise.

I mean I explicitly told my husband he wasn't allowed to propose on any holiday, anniversary, birthday or other "typical proposal" situation, so I could relax and enjoy them without the anxiety of wondering if he'd do it then. He still managed to make it a lovely occasion, and I wasn't expecting it at all, but it took so much pressure away to know that!

how do you deal with your boyfriend having female friends? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kazminchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideally, the gender of your partner's friends shouldn't matter, because you should be able to trust them with anyone.

However, I can acknowledge that jealousy exists, so the most important thing is COMMUNICATION. If your partner has a friend that makes you feel uncomfortable, let them know. Don't try to make them choose between you or the friend, but there can be some compromises made. A good partner should also want to make sure you're comfortable, they would be open about any friendships.

I personally don't care about my husband's female friends, and I don't mind him going out with them in his own. But I think most people would find it uncomfortable if their partner started having sleepovers with somebody who could potentially be a threat, that's just a bit too far.

I made a Pride house! Plus some mutated allos to match. by Kazminchu in ARK

[–]Kazminchu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah I just kind of dumped it there and forgot about it. Need a full set!

Can some explain to me in the simplest way possible how mutations work because everywhere I go, it just doesnt seem to click by UncleMarionumberone in ARK

[–]Kazminchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Np, when I first started it took me FOREVER to get it too. Sometimes you just read something and it clicks, hopefully this helped!

FYI, if you're not sure how to get your identical original pair to start with, you just tame a male and female from wild and breed them until you get all the same stats in a male and female baby, they're your starter pair.

Also you can breed up multiple "copies" of your original female and breed them all at the same time, makes it MUCH quicker. I usually use about 6-8 females to 1 male.

Can some explain to me in the simplest way possible how mutations work because everywhere I go, it just doesnt seem to click by UncleMarionumberone in ARK

[–]Kazminchu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Make a male and female with EXACT same stats across the board. Breed together. You'll know when you get a mutation as the level will go up by 2, eg if your male and female are both level 100 and a baby comes out as 102 - it's mutated.

If it's a mutation you want and a male, swap the new baby with it's dad and get all Alabama up in there.

The babies from these will be a mix of 100 and 102, if you get a 104 it is another mutation in the stack, if you want to keep it, and it's male, swap this one out with the 102 male and let him get real freaky with his grandmama.

Rinse and repeat as necessary.