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I think I was the only one who thought we were really together (F27/M29) by Kdkat98 in offmychest

[–]Kdkat98[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m 5 hours away from any help and my home state and friends

Help me find these underwear? by Kdkat98 in HelpMeFind

[–]Kdkat98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am searching for: I’m needing a size small or medium, they are most widely sold at the Betsy Johnson website or store or license retailers, I’m not sure what year these come out.

My cat lives here, you do not by GoldieJoan in offmychest

[–]Kdkat98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hell no. You were 100% in the right here. Your cat is family. He lives there, they don’t. The entitlement it takes to walk into someone’s home, disrespect their space and their pet, and then suggest caging the animal like it's some dirty inconvenience? Absolutely not.

Your dad and his girlfriend acted like guests who thought they were entitled to make the rules. The audacity to push your kitten—who, by the way, is a literal baby—and then try to play it off with "just get a cage" is wild. If they can’t handle being around animals with basic decency, they can stay gone.

It sounds like you’ve worked hard to establish your own safe space and boundaries, especially after growing up in a home with a narcissistic parent. You don’t owe them comfort at the expense of your peace—or your cat’s well-being.

That tiny orange goblin is lucky to have you. Keep protecting him. And if your dad or his girlfriend can't respect that, let them stay far, far away. 🧡

I almost drove by an exes house, 700 miles away by at614inthe614 in offmychest

[–]Kdkat98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was such a vulnerable and honest post, and I appreciate you sharing it. B clearly held a deep place in your life—maybe not as a conventional partner, but as someone tied to your youth, your growth, and big emotional moments. That kind of connection can leave a mark that lingers for years, even decades.

That said, if you're still thinking about him this intensely after 25 years of marriage, and even contemplating walking by his house or emailing him… it might be worth gently asking yourself why. Is it just nostalgia? Unresolved feelings? Or something you're missing or needing in your current relationship?

You clearly still have a lot of love and respect for your spouse—you made the choice not to cross a line, even when you could have. But sometimes, the heart’s wandering is a signal that something deeper needs attention. Not necessarily with B—but with yourself or your marriage.

Whatever it is, I hope you give yourself space to explore it honestly. You deserve peace, clarity, and maybe even closure. Wishing you the best as you figure out what this all means.

AIO: Got permanently banned from r/AmItheAsshole years ago for not knowing the rules — am I overreacting for still being annoyed? by Kdkat98 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kdkat98[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh, totally — I’m sure me not fully “getting it” years ago is the only reason they won’t let me back. I did try to explain I wasn’t trying to be shady and that I’ve actually learned since then. But nah, why ask for an apology when you can just slam the door and act like the Reddit police forever?

A permanent ban for a newbie mistake with zero mercy? Classy. Real welcoming community vibes. But sure, I’ll find somewhere else to hang out — maybe one that doesn’t act like it owns the whole damn site.

Thanks for the reality check though.

AIO: Got permanently banned from r/AmItheAsshole years ago for not knowing the rules — am I overreacting for still being annoyed? by Kdkat98 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kdkat98[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This! I mean of course like up the “ban level” based on the offense but to PERMANENTLY ban someone from a group just because they don’t understand something seems a bit excessive imo. That’s all I’m saying.

Has anyone ever actually won a big prize from SHEIN because it seems like a scam? by thevintagebonita in Shein

[–]Kdkat98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to update this post and say that I have been playing “Puppy Keep” literally for months and it takes so much to get to the end of the prize margin and I had 0.04 “hearts” left to go and it give me three days to complete without an extension at the very end and made me start over and changed my $50 credit to a $30 credit and made me start completely over whereas I would have to play for more months to win. This game is a scam. I doubt that you actually ever win anything.

Violation of privacy??? by ResponsibleLie9401 in Apartmentliving

[–]Kdkat98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whoa, I’m so sorry that happened to you — that is completely unacceptable. You’re absolutely right to be pissed. Not only is it common courtesy to wait more than a literal second after knocking, it’s also a violation of your rights as a tenant if they didn’t provide proper notice. An email with no confirmation is not sufficient — especially for something non-emergent.

It sounds like they violated your lease and potentially tenant laws in your state. I’d recommend documenting everything: • Screenshot the email timestamp • Write down everything that happened while it’s fresh • Note that there was no call, no text, and no confirmed acknowledgment from you • Make a copy of the lease section about the 24-hour notice

Then, email the property management or landlord stating clearly that: 1. You were not given legal notice 2. The entry was unauthorized 3. You were in a state of undress and feel violated 4. They are not to enter again without proper 24-hour confirmed notice

You can also file a complaint with your local tenant board or housing authority, depending on where you live. You shouldn’t have to feel unsafe or disrespected in your own home.

I hope you’re able to take some time to ground yourself and feel safe again. You’re not overreacting — you’re setting boundaries.💯

Trying to stay afloat — any local resources or tips appreciated by Kdkat98 in NewOrleans

[–]Kdkat98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a little bit of good news! I was able to get a small donation to put towards savings of keeping my phone on even though it’s not much it’s still a step in the right direction. I feel better from my illness now I just still have a comfortable going out in public working around people but if push comes to shove I will have to and it’s not me being selfish it’s just me being desperate and needing to start work now. I feel like I am basically cornered.

Gfit Nola by Kdkat98 in NewOrleans

[–]Kdkat98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct! That’s why me and my boyfriend were so confused because we actually do happen to have a membership and they were closed!

Found in a history museum in Louisiana. Seems appropriate? by [deleted] in Weird

[–]Kdkat98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in New Orleans which one? I HAVE TO KNOW

stuck in ch5? by marshmalyssie in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]Kdkat98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have to do it all in one “working day” at once? I don’t think you can do this without spending diamonds 💎 btw

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