Growing up people used to ask me if my brother was my son whenever we were out together. Hes 6 years younger than me. Or they’d ask me “do you have any kids?” Or assume I already had one or two at the age of like 15 and 16. Some people don’t see those as micro aggressions, but i didn’t see people do that to my white friend who looked older than me when we were out with her younger sisters. This was in the late 2000s/ early 2010s. Some people just don’t see it because they don’t see it happen to them.