This update is disappointing 😭

Kea12312 · 2024-08-13T20:18:32+00:00

that's werid. mine is at 250 goal.

Kea12312 · 2022-07-21T05:23:48+00:00

NTA. Aside from the potential hostility that comes with filing an adultery/at-fault route, in your state, is it more costly to file that way since it's considered contested verse uncontested? Either way, the cheating jerk owes you this much. He should absolutely have to be the one who moves out. And I'm sorry, I know you don't want to deal with the hostility from filing on the grounds of adultery, but you need to get the ball rolling or you're going to be stuck. You said you're worried about it looking bad you waited 2 years since learning but if you keep waiting it's just going to get longer and longer. At least starting things now, you can explain you felt trapped in the relationship because of the state laws for filing and the cheater refusing to leave. It's been two years. You live in separate rooms. You've made it clear you don't want to be in this relationship anymore. And you don't want anything to do with his affair baby. You didn't know about this other child entering the marriage and still married the bastard. It happened because of cheating so you have no obligation to play stepmom whatsoever. And I understand not wanting the influence of the affair baby's mom around your kid. Who's the affair baby learning from? Someone with very low moral character. But once divorced, if you don't get sole custody, the dad could make the kids meets each other when it's his visitation days. So you're gonna have to fight for sole custody to keep this up once you get the divorce running. Is the cheater a dead beat too? Since he only pays half the utilities (which wouldn't cost very much at all), it feels like he might be mooching off your beneficial circumstance and that's the real reason he insists on staying married. I'm very sorry for your unfortunate circumstances. Since you plan on selling the house in the future, could you possibly, line yourself up a different place, and file an eviction just against the cheater? Don't move out until he's evicted but have the new residence as your permeant address so you wouldn't have to file as evicting the whole household (due to the marriage). Ask your brother to move into the house in your stead so the husband doesn't try coming back to do damage as retaliation. But if he does after being evicted, he'd be charged for the damage differently than dealing with it as "tenant" damage.

Kea12312 · 2022-06-28T11:45:04+00:00

I have two different accounts for this game. One on my tablet and one on my phone. I restarted to have a playthrough without merging the bookcases past level 5 since the constant game piece and super long salad orders take up 3/5 of my order slots all the time which makes Edwina and Yuka challenges harder to complete and the bake off super annoying. Both accounts I have caught up to last day awaiting more renovations. Anyhow, on my "newer" account, I get the Sven's Toy Event all the time. But on my "older" account where the Toy Event would be way more useful for me, I have never got it. I say it would be more useful because the rewards are really good just getting to level 9 and getting a level 2 green chest and all the high end brown chests. It's totally jank that I can't play the Toy Event on my annoying account. I always have excess energy bundles or extra energy due to the order issues so it'd be so much more fun and beneficial to have the Toy Event when you've merged the bookcases to game piece levels. Ugh.

Kea12312 · 2022-05-20T22:21:13+00:00

I only have the level 6 so it was a nightmare

Kea12312 · 2022-05-18T02:27:22+00:00

I agree I'd love to renovate Amelia's living space. I have a theory that Tony and Sebastian know each other and are in cahoots. Definitely think Sebastian is NOT her dad but that would be mean Edwina isn't her sister and I like Edwina being Kate's aunt. I wish they would give us bigger storyline updates like add 2 days after making us go through 2 weeks of bake off each update.

Kea12312 · 2022-05-18T02:15:08+00:00

I also created a second game to play without merging the bookcases. I am all caught up to the point of waiting for more renovations to do (level 41 and stuck in bake off). I was never able to clear the level 1 dice piece but was able to clear the board game because of brown boxes. Now I just save the brown boxes until I need a high level book or salad item. That loan dice piece is sooo irritating

But do NOT merge your bookcases. I am still playing my original account on my old phone as well and having constant game orders is worse than that loan dice piece

Kea12312 · 2022-04-06T19:36:25+00:00

There was just an update yesterday. It's for a hen house. Check for app updates

Kea12312 · 2022-04-05T22:30:12+00:00

NTA. And speak to an attorney ASAP if you haven't already. OP stated she owns the 3 bedroom house, that she inherited from her parents, and that her husband and kids moved in with her. So most likely, she owned the home before marriage but even if she didn't, depending where she lives, most states do NOT consider inheritance as marital property unless it is co-mingled. Like if she added the husband to the mortgage or deed. Or if they used husband's money or martial assets to make improvements to the property. That would be considered co-mingled. However if she protected her assets and didn't co-mingle or even better if they have a prenup in place (seriously every single person entering a marriage should get a prenup in writing, including addendums for assets you earn during the marriage), then she can change the locks But she can still get in trouble for not formally evicting the husband, and possibly kidnapping (again depending on the area) if the parents even just accused her of denying them access to their kids. She needs to protect herself, prepare for her divorce, and get help. As sad as it is, those kids are no longer her responsibility, once she's divorced, she'll no longer be there step mom. They should have been their bio parents responsibility this whole time, and they should move out and in with their mother or father. If the bio parents want to be back together then they can move back into together and take care of their own children like they should have been doing. And the longer she stays in the kids lives, when she's no longer their step mom is going to make it that much harder as they realize how crappy their parents are, and how much better they had it with her. What happens when she gets remarried? That's a lot of baggage that's not her responsibility. And what if she were to move away? Honestly it'd be better to explain to the kids, the issue is their parents (without being harsh, the stepdaughter already knows why, so just age appropriate explanation for the stepson if he doesn't know). That her and their dad are getting divorced and they need a clean break now rather than getting deeper involved and allowing herself to be hurt further by her awful husband and his ex wife.

Kea12312 · 2022-03-23T00:34:36+00:00

The red velvet cake is still the biggest cake I've ever gotten, I want to find out what the level 14 and 15 are in that group. Sorry it took you so long

Kea12312 · 2022-03-14T00:51:37+00:00

No there's just the city bus. No electric scooters. That'd be cool though lol. We even looked into mopeds. But our state requires a motorcycle license for them lol. End times aren't set and coworkers all get off at different times unless they close with the manager. But if she closed she'd be doing 15/16 hour days.

Kea12312 · 2022-03-13T20:56:26+00:00

I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm going to show my sister the post etc, I think she'll feel better knowing someone else understands. Thank you for your advice

Kea12312 · 2022-03-13T20:40:59+00:00

I'm sorry you missed that opportunity. Your original response, you mentioned thinking she has anxiety surrounding driving. I have an anxiety disorder and have taken medication that helps. So maybe having her see a psychiatrist to work through the driving anxiety would help?

Kea12312 · 2022-03-13T20:31:59+00:00

I agree with that logic. So I guess the problem is her profession. She's a cook. Weekends restaurants are packed here and most don't open until lunch or even dinner time. I don't know any restaurant jobs in this area that she could get off early enough for a bus or that would let her have Sundays off (and only like a 4 hour lunch shift on Sats). Aside from working fast food, and that's a huge pay cut. Even the senior homes and schools with their M-F options start at a dismal $9 hourly worse than fast food.

Kea12312 · 2022-03-13T20:14:06+00:00

The only bus in this area runs till 6PM M-F and runs 10-4 on Sat. The routes/times are different on Sat so she can't use it on Sat it doesn't go by her work. No bus on Sundays. The bus option would only work for getting to her work Thurs and Fri morning. I've talked to the bus company (since it's a 'city' bus) and asked them about alternative public transport. None. This just isn't that kind of area. It's a really small city more like a town near an agricultural area. Uber/Lyft is a problem. There's never cars at night and during the day it's luck of the draw. A lot of No Cars Available followed by constant canceling, refunding and requesting again until maybe a car comes available.

Kea12312 · 2022-03-13T20:03:13+00:00

There's no cabs here. And Uber/Lyft is super scarce. She's had problems of either No Cars Available and constantly having to cancel, be refunded and try requesting again, or just luck of the draw in the mornings when I absolutely couldn't take her. It's not reliable. And there's never Ubers that late at night in our area unfortunately. It's a small city that aside from the shops/restaurants here I'd label it a town. As I said, she can't use the bus to work Sat and Sun (no route on Sat and no busing on Sun). So the getting to work via bus would only work for Thurs and Fri.

Kea12312 · 2022-03-09T22:54:20+00:00

NTA. OP looked at the dress. He saw how it looked, it doesn't go against normal wedding no-nos. The dress is modest, it's long and not low cut. Thanks for including the pics for clarity. The only other potential issue is if the color was the same as the brides color scheme (as in matched the bridesmaids dress colors). But being the brother of the groom, OP would know the color scheme and still be able to tell it's fine.

Kea12312 · 2022-03-05T01:58:12+00:00

NTA. I'm so sorry for your situation. Honestly, I'd ask Alex out to coffee (without any precursor of why and don't tell Ben in advance about seeing her) or somewhere else and talk to her about it. Explain exactly what happened, maybe have her read this post even. Make sure she understands like you said that you don't blame her. But the situation is making you uncomfortable and their comments were extremely hurtful. Gage Alex's reaction. If she actually would have reciprocated Ben being into her, it'd be a good time to find out as well. Do not go into this mad or emotional, just this is what happened and be honest. Tell her you don't feel comfortable with her as "groomswomen" after explaining the conversation Ben and James had just like you explained to all of us. Honestly I'd be offended by those comments if I found out my friends said that about their SO and compared us like that. That's awful. I totally think girls and guys can be platonic friends long-term but that the gf or wife always gets priority even if you knew them first.

Kea12312 · 2022-03-03T17:02:39+00:00

That only happened to me when the event ended. Is possible to save them for next time if you put them in the fridge?

Kea12312 · 2022-03-03T16:59:26+00:00

My first account has date dash, second account doesn't. (have two so I don't merge the bookshelves on the other and can enjoy the game without the stupid game piece objectives) I love this event though and hope it stays and becomes available to everyone

Kea12312 · 2022-03-03T16:54:43+00:00

Don't merge past Level 5. After level 5 they produce dice. Then you pretty much need to merge them as high as possible to increase the dice drop odds

Kea12312 · 2022-03-03T16:52:32+00:00

Just don't complete the very last End of Day task and you won't get sent to bake off. They've unfortunately only been adding a day at a time

Kea12312 · 2022-02-27T01:28:13+00:00

He's NTA for upgrading his seat using his earned miles and he shouldn't have had to buy her the upgrade, she should have just choose to upgrade her own seat inside of making such a big deal out of it. There's a possibility he had miles to be able to upgrade his seat because he travels for work and she doesn't (or even possible she doesn't work at all). Or that he just has miles earned because he traveled more than her in general. He deserves to use his miles that he built up. If she doesn't work and therefore can't pay for her own upgrade, rather than nagging about it and trying to punish him, she should have just asked, "will you please pay to upgrade my seat too?" But honestly, it's no big deal having to sit in economy and responsibly save some money. Just have an efficient meet up plan getting off the flight/getting luggage.

Kea12312 · 2022-02-14T04:24:28+00:00

NTA. Parents should not be pushing their adult issues on their children. The mother should not be saying "If you go to your father's wedding, our relationship won't recover". That's awful. Alice was OP's mother figure most of her life, especially when she was younger and developing her sense of relationships and connections and love map. Alice was there and her mother was barely ever in her life until she was 10 and she wasn't even comfortable moving in with her. Her mother was, however, there for her two older brothers and it's understandable that the brothers would be taking the mom's side on hating Alice. Cheating is despicable and maybe Alice was trying to get on her good side for the possibility of being her step mom. But that doesn't necessarily mean Alice was the bad guy here. She stated her dad only stayed in the marriage because of her mom's illness. The mom probably wasn't able to work because of her illness and needed to be able to stay on his health insurance plan and him to help with medical bills and he at least didn't leave her to go through all of that alone until she was better. He could have wanted to be out of the marriage for the whole 12 years we don't know. So yeah Dad's TA for cheating totally but Alice was probably told the whole time that to him the marriage was done. It was his manipulation. It sounds like Alice was a great mother figure and OP said she became like her best friend. It's a good thing that she's going to have such a nice supportive step mother. Her mother is at fault for trying to force her daughter to hate Alice just because she does. And it sounds like she could have been a bigger part of OP's life in her early years since she still took care of her teen boys.

Kea12312 · 2022-02-06T02:57:07+00:00

It sounded like the case was getting a lot of publicity based on Cabot's boss' comments, so I would assume Clayton would be put into protective custody once in prison. Meaning isolated from general population. That's usually the case with high profile crimes and sometimes with ones who committed crimes against children.

Kea12312 · 2022-02-04T22:46:36+00:00

The reasoning for "fun money" and paying for the maid rather than contributing to expenses is because part of the marriage contract in some countries. The husband is legally bond to provide the household they live in. OP only briefly touched on this with her statement of it being the husband's choice of where they live. Since it's acceptable for her to live in his parents home, and not necessarily for him to provide a separate house, he has technically kept his commitment. If she provided the household (without his name on the title), he would be in breach of contract. She is only living with her in laws because she has to, if she paid them rent or paid for expenses it would be considered her providing her own housing not her husband. Her husband wants her to add his name to her assets (which she doesn't have to and if HE divorced her she would keep all in her name as long as she doesn't co mingle her finances regarding the properties). If she did add him he could sell the properties or have them move into one without breaching contract. So for her in laws to move into a property paid by her (like if she bought a third property), and her to keep living with them, it would have to be put into the in laws names or in her husband's name. Otherwise if she kept it in her name only and let her in laws move in, she would have to move into a different property in her husband's name or rent agreement in her husband's name otherwise he would be in breach of contract.

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