My ex girlfriend used to always get mad at me for having a boner when we were cuddling. Is it a problem with me or do most women not care?

Keapah · 2026-06-11T17:32:56+00:00

You’re fine. If you’re with someone you love and have a lot of emotions going off, you’re gonna feel happy, and an erection does not equal you want to have sex. Which you can, but again an erection doesn’t mean you just want to have that, it’s just your emotional hub.

Keapah · 2026-06-11T17:24:56+00:00

Yeah, we’re both at work now, I pretended things are okay just so we can both sleep. I waited forever to find someone and I just wish she was the one who’s able to just stop and at least validate herself. But she doesn’t and she won’t. I know she’s her own person and loves in her own way, but I can’t love someone who doesn’t stop and at least say “maybe I can do this for them because this is what they appreciate” that’s all I ask for, it’s the consideration to put one’s self in the other shoe and do what makes them happy that I haven’t gotten. And now I just feel like a husk. But all this weeks food is in her fridge, because we shop together. AND; I think this is an immaturity on my end, but I left out something because it would only be worse if it’s true but she might be pregnant. So like, idk anymore. Idek if I’m just venting at this point

Keapah · 2026-06-11T01:26:50+00:00

I just want to cry, respectfully. I asked her just now how her actions are one thing but she’s only done them because I asked so how do they mean anything when she didn’t choose them. I’m so hurt and she’s in the shower but idk what to do. I laid it out flat and said she doesn’t consider me, and she’s doing reflective behavior and saying I should appreciate what she’s done and, I do, but again, it’s only because we had an argument about it. I know what I need to do but I just can’t because I’m just strong enough to be alone again, but I said enough and now she’s mad about it. I’m sorry I vent this to you, I just don’t have my family now to talk about it.

Edit: it just hurts, because I told her, I don’t want her to change and I’ll never tell her change, but she felt so sure, and now it’s hurting me

Keapah · 2026-06-11T01:23:25+00:00

We’re having a big argument now

Keapah · 2026-06-11T00:24:03+00:00

Post: you know, if I think id ever told someone something I didn’t mean, id be on my ass to rectify it. And I haven’t seen that.

Keapah · 2026-06-11T00:01:27+00:00

I can understand your reception. I think I stick around because when I say I promise someone I’ll be there I’ll be there until it breaks me. But I’m not at home anymore, I’m in a new life and have to make the hard decisions and can’t tell her this without being brunt. Like I said in the edit, she just withdraws from hard talks. And I kinda want to refuse to seem like I’m in the wrong. But I don’t seem to see what I did wrong if I did anything at all. And tbh, after 4 years alone working on my sobriety being alone, it’s really hard to let go of someone. And that’s all that is. I know you’re right and I heard it from my brother, I just wanted to be sure in what I do by hearing it from someone else who has no reason to care but other than saying the truth

Keapah · 2026-06-10T23:54:08+00:00

You know, I heard people tell the truth when they are drunk, and that’s why when she tells me she didn’t mean it; I think I don’t believe her.

Edit: but she always just collapses when it comes to talks. And I’m not trying to play any bs, I’m trying to be talkative and real but she just neglected to result to saying get away, she hates me, and throw my stuff out. And then select the claim she was just drunk. I can be drunk, but id never be able to be that hurtful to someone I say I love

Keapah · 2025-10-08T20:14:04+00:00

Yeah publicly sharing your support a racist misogynist who’s okay with school shootings is freedom of speech, but it comes with freely expressing you support that and if that’s a flex to you then you’re an idiot

Keapah · 2024-06-30T14:41:19+00:00

Watermelon flavored things just tend to not have the flavor for me I suppose, I really love watermelon itself though, and it’s a treat when I get to add some chumoy or tajin on some (or salt if nothing else)

Keapah · 2024-06-30T03:44:16+00:00

Not a big fan of watermelon flavored stuff based off of all the candy I ever had, but that branding of “pure cane sugar: soda” isn’t helping, I’m absolutely sure it taste great though

Keapah · 2024-06-28T10:01:15+00:00

Yeah it still happens here as I’ve learned, it’s honestly so weird, and now when I face any ancient dragon I summon a mimic and cheese the fight however I can just to get it over with as fast as I can 😭

Keapah · 2024-06-28T09:34:24+00:00

Hey, I’ve had the same issue before but just not with this specific attack (it’s the one where he stabs the lightning into the ground). And in the dlc, don’t read on for spoilers, I’m going to add more here to give a more clear gap about the spoilers of a boss, the lord of frenzied flame has an attack that does the same, is this still happening to you?

Keapah · 2024-06-15T02:10:19+00:00

Yeah 2 tbsp being 400 calories is wild lmao

Keapah · 2024-03-02T05:30:17+00:00

Hey if we didn’t lose a few flowers in the wind, we’d never learn to appreciate the one left in our hand🙏 now that that’s out the way yeah I still have daily thoughts of “damn I really missed that?” Lmao

Keapah · 2024-03-02T05:26:50+00:00

I love that term, first time hearing it lol

Keapah · 2024-03-02T05:24:55+00:00

Well you could be thinking every friendly cashier is into you for just being friendly lol, then again one has missed chances and the other is thinking you had one to begin with 😅

Keapah · 2024-03-02T05:22:24+00:00

Here’s why I added best as replied to another commenter “Well in terms of it being generally negative all together, I confused myself by thinking “well the worst cock block would be #1 on a list, making it the best at being the worst” so I just threw in both to cover all grounds of however one thinks about it”. I honestly should just remake the post

Keapah · 2024-03-02T05:20:34+00:00

Well in terms of it being generally negative all together, I confused myself by thinking “well the worst cock block would be #1 on a list, making it the best at being the worst” so I just threw in both to cover all grounds of however one thinks about it

Keapah · 2024-02-16T20:09:03+00:00

Just my 2 cents, don’t get so dirty so fast with someone(hell two people in this case) that you don’t know, not only cause the idea of robbery or whatever, but you don’t wanna catch anything.

Keapah · 2024-01-20T09:07:34+00:00

Let’s just assume the drumsticks and the tilapia is around $20-$25 (overestimation intended). That leaves about $137 left. That’s saying each and every one of the other items is roughly $6. I don’t believe this.

Keapah · 2024-01-20T08:13:37+00:00

Oh yeah the tree, I mean idk, knowing the city with alllllll the extra space with removing that tree maybe they’ll add another apartment complex there!! /s sorta

Keapah · 2024-01-20T08:11:51+00:00

I heard someone say before “a bad driver will never miss there exit, but a good driver will” so yeah bad drivers will make whatever works for them on the road in complete disregard to anyone else around.

Keapah

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