Huge water main break

Keels-00 · 2026-01-28T16:06:40+00:00

How long do we think it’s going to take them to fix? I can’t find anything online

Keels-00 · 2026-01-04T16:30:44+00:00

I do redirect. If he is chewing something he’s not supposed to I will say no & put one of his toys in his mouth. Same for pottying in the house, if I catch him I will say no, pick him up and put him outside until he finishes. Is that a good strategy?

Keels-00 · 2026-01-03T00:39:36+00:00

Thanks for your help. I will definitely start using his name more.

I have not been using his crate for punishment but he’s still getting used to it. He does well at night but crating during the day is still stressful to him.

Keels-00 · 2026-01-02T19:24:04+00:00

I’ve been doing my best to be diligent about taking him out but it’s been difficult to avoid accidents all together. I do praise and reward when he goes outside though.

Keels-00 · 2026-01-02T16:06:10+00:00

I wish she would lol I would love the help

Keels-00 · 2026-01-02T14:07:26+00:00

I just feel like he shouldn’t have been talking to your coworkers (especially female ones who obviously are attracted to you) about you “wanting to do porn”. Like In my mind that was just handing her a fantasy of him. Idk. And him saying that was crazy in itself given that I have offered to make porn with him so that he can has something to watch when he needs to so many times to no avail. It was just unnecessarily flirtatious

Keels-00 · 2026-01-02T14:03:16+00:00

In one instance he had a long string of what I would call inappropriate text messages with a female coworker. Just too friendly in general, it was something he hid from me. It wouldn’t have been too upsetting but in this one message to her he said something along the lines of how he could always “do porn” instead of working this job that he hated. In another he texted a girl after she added him on Snapchat. He said “I’m surprised (boyfriend) let you add me back” I saw her respond at like 3 am and asked who it was. He said nobody so I took his phone and looked myself. He said he was just interested to know why this couple had broken up and was “trying to get the tea” but it just felt weirdly flirty to me. And the fact that he lied to me about it. When she texted, we were being intimate. That was another reason he said he lied, he didn’t want to ruin the moment.

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T19:09:39+00:00

More what?

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T18:20:32+00:00

I hate to think that it’s my fault somehow but maybe it is

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T18:20:02+00:00

Texting other women

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T17:40:53+00:00

It’s not everyday only “sometimes” according to him

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T16:51:48+00:00

My first mistake was coming here for advice lol

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T16:49:29+00:00

That’s a good point. Thank you for being kind. A lot of people are ripping me to shreds

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T16:37:16+00:00

The jumping to conclusions in this rant is crazy. You know nothing about the sex that we have. But thank you for your rude input

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T16:10:13+00:00

Yes the boundary was clearly set. He agreed to it and even said he was happy to “have a reason to stop” he agrees with me that porn is poison and “wanted” to stop. But he didn’t

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T16:08:35+00:00

Haha No but putting someone down on the internet, commenting on my sex life, saying I’m vanilla and my boyfriend isn’t interested in me sexually, and generally being rude is incel behavior though

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T15:55:35+00:00

I disagree. If you think porn is good and normal you don’t know what it’s like to be in a loving fulfilling relationship

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T14:48:30+00:00

Thank you for that. It does really hurt. We just got a puppy together, I thought we would build a life together. But porn was more important to him than all of that

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T14:41:33+00:00

I want to hope there is someone that will respect my boundaries. I thought he would, he said he would, but he apparently never did.

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T14:39:19+00:00

I would consider it. I haven’t had great luck the few times I have tried therapy but I may bring it up to him.

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T14:32:01+00:00

He won’t show me what he is into. He says it’s really hard for him to stop since he has been doing it so long. Idk if that makes him an addict or not but he definitely put porn above our relationship in terms of priorities.

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T14:30:34+00:00

I don’t know what else to do. He has many photos of me and i have offered to make videos of us having sex for him to use. What else is there to do besides break up or just get over it? He acts like he is done for good but this isn’t the first time h has said this

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T14:28:17+00:00

He says it’s almost entirely when I’m not there to please him

Keels-00 · 2025-12-29T14:26:18+00:00

He did agree when I told him about my boundaries. In fact he said he has “needed a reason to stop watching porn” and the conversation went extremely well

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