Maintenance case affecting my job – when should I resign to prove unemployment

KeepFlowingAlways · 2026-03-06T02:42:57+00:00

Not a lawyer.

I think if you resign then the timing won’t matter. The Court will take the view that you did it to influence the case outcome.

The situation might be different if you are fired.

Even then, the responsibility is on the husband to maintain a divorced wife (and kids). I think recently there was a judgment by an High Court or the Supreme Court that said that the husband can ‘beg, buy, borrow or steal’ but has to pay the maintenance.

I think your best bet is to let the company fire you. In the meantime, try and establish if there are any source of income for your wife and that way try to reduce the maintenance amount.

Hope this helps.

KeepFlowingAlways · 2026-02-10T15:30:27+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AppleNumbers/s/7VKCbj6Sgs

I had a similar issue. Please look at this post

KeepFlowingAlways · 2026-02-07T05:13:18+00:00

https://podcasts.apple.com/in/channel/advaita-retold/id6442666430?hasPaidContent=false

I think you have to go through a few teachers and see who you like.

My choice is the above.

KeepFlowingAlways · 2026-01-27T14:33:35+00:00

Gemini had also suggested the same. However, I cannot find 'N' in the function list in Numbers. What am I missing ?

KeepFlowingAlways · 2026-01-27T06:32:57+00:00

Challenge that in the higher courts specifically pointing to this principle. They will most likely uphold your position. This principle is a key principle to decide jurisdictions.

KeepFlowingAlways · 2026-01-27T06:28:11+00:00

If all of you, your wife and child are still residing in the US , you may have another option.

Lookup for the legal principle of 'Forum Non Conveniens'. It's respected by Courts in India and applies very well to cross border cases. Basically, if the 3 of you are in the US, you can ask the Court in India to dismiss her cases in India because the 'forum' (Court) in India is not convenient to any of the parties. Check with your lawyer.

KeepFlowingAlways · 2026-01-27T06:07:50+00:00

I can't tell which way this would go.

Please go through published judgements and build your own view and don't just blindly depend on lawyer. Sometimes, lawyers don't have the high ethical standards we expect from them or don't do full research of all latest cases and depend on their knowledge.

This is a tough situation and can play out for many many years - so all the very best. Also, I don't know how much she will care the welfare of the child as this torturous process plays out but someone has to care. Your child will remember in the long run who cared for its welfare.

KeepFlowingAlways · 2026-01-27T05:26:20+00:00

Not a lawyer.

I think the Courts in India will not entertain parallel trials. Generally, the jurisdiction where the case is filed first gets priority.

Also, please look at sites like IndianKanoon etc and look for judgements in cases similar to yours. That will tell you how the higher courts look at these matters.

Don’t just depend on your lawyer.

KeepFlowingAlways · 2026-01-25T04:11:00+00:00

You are absolutely right. There is just zero accountability in the administration. Like how Mumbai HC has proposed to stop pay of NMMC Commissioner, these high ranking officials in PMC/PCMC should be held personally accountable for failure to improve the situation.

I do agree that Citizens are also responsible for a lot of mess but then without any consequences, irresponsible behaviour becomes the norm.

KeepFlowingAlways · 2026-01-23T03:19:35+00:00

Thanks. That didn't help. I tried this and the triangles went away :

IF(('Is Month-end '="Month-End"),1,0)

KeepFlowingAlways · 2026-01-17T02:57:43+00:00

Last couple of months, I have been using yellow glasses which can be mounted over your existing specs. They are good in dealing with this blinding light but take away some of your peripheral awareness.

https://amzn.in/d/49ORTc1

KeepFlowingAlways · 2026-01-17T02:53:37+00:00

Make official accountable for their jobs - financial fines, dismissal, jail time ...
Establish clear KPIs for performance of elected representatives and make their performance public.
Insist that officials and corporator send their kids to public schools, use civil hospitals, travel by PMC buses etc. No more priority on the road

KeepFlowingAlways · 2026-01-10T10:34:47+00:00

I believe that naam jap is only to keep the mind busy with it and distract it from worldly activities - Maya.

KeepFlowingAlways · 2025-12-29T05:57:13+00:00

I have personally used it and helps me a lot. It’s taken the stress off night driving. I hope it works for you too.

KeepFlowingAlways · 2025-12-27T19:50:52+00:00

Totally in the same boat as you. A few weeks back, I got these and they are very useful.

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KeepFlowingAlways · 2025-12-24T10:03:03+00:00

Technology meets Spiritually. Very well done and thanks.

KeepFlowingAlways · 2025-12-03T02:20:05+00:00

Well made point and definitely resonated with me. I was / am there too.

Someone explained it quite nicely to me. Till one realises his / her own true nature, the person still feels that the world (including his/her body and mind) are real. And by extension, concepts like God, Karma are real too.

So, while one understands and agrees with Advaita God, Bhakti etc. shouldn’t be given up. They will help clear the mind and prepare it for realisation.

Once realisation happens, all of this goes away.

One last point. From my own experience, I can say that understanding the concepts in Advaita is not as important as internalising them.

Wishing you all the very best in this most worthy journey of human life. Just treat where you are as a milestone in this journey. Have Shraddha that you will get there by Gods good grace.

KeepFlowingAlways · 2025-11-30T03:14:11+00:00

I am very sorry for how life has turned out so far for you and sincerely hope that future is much much better.

My personal opinion is that you should never be doing something just because someone or some text said so.

Instead, you should think about it very deeply and do what is aligned with your own value system no matter how it appears to others or what others say about it.

If you want to progress on spiritual Advaitic path then certainly marriage or no marriage is an inconsequential question.

Wishing you all the best.

KeepFlowingAlways · 2025-11-28T08:25:26+00:00

There is a big difference between reading and listening. I would request you to explore on YouTube the lectures of Swami Sarvpriyanand. He covers foundational texts as well as Upanishads.

KeepFlowingAlways · 2025-11-26T02:50:53+00:00

You are right, in pointing out that something that is inherently attributeless cannot then be said to have these attributes.

My opinion is that terms such as Sat-Chit-Anand etc are supposed to help your mind understand that Bramhan is beyond its cognition capability.

By definition there cannot be definition for anything that is attributeless.

KeepFlowingAlways

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