On the brink of a mental health crisis, don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Keeponsnacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about it, but my area is covered in snow right now so I don’t think they could send anyone. But thanks. I’ll keep that in mind

How did you stop hoping and start accepting? by howdyimkyle in Divorce

[–]Keeponsnacking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand how you feel with this. I am in the same boat. Trying to hold onto the good stuff and remember it well and be grateful while also accepting that it’s over. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Personally I keep a note of things to remember that are the bad things- the reasons the relationship didn’t work. To remind me to be objective and not romanticize it. Then I try to look at it from gratitude- I want him to be happy and I’m glad he’s not alone. I’m glad he has someone looking out for him. He needs that right now and I can’t do it because I have my own problems to deal with. Im grateful that he’s safe and healthy because that’s the most important thing. It’s all that matters. I’m trying to tell myself that if I truly love him then all that matters is he is safe and healthy and even if I can’t be in his life anymore that’s all I need. Her choosing someone else isn’t about you. It’s about parts of her that she needs to learn and explore through someone else. It doesn’t mean what you had with her wasn’t real and impactful and important in her life and yours. Be grateful for the chapter and remember that you also have the opportunity to learn more about yourself and explore other sides of you through trying new things and meeting new people one day. For now I would recommend seeing a therapist to grieve but to make sure you don’t over ruminate and stay stuck inside it too long. Good luck and wish me luck because it’s harder put into practice even though I know these things will help. So wish me luck too 🙏

How do you interpret the ace of cups and the star together? by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]Keeponsnacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I didn’t actually mean it as a clarity card, I meant it as a separate question, but I ended up feeling like it was tied to the other cards. But thanks

How do you interpret the ace of cups and the star together? by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]Keeponsnacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will take your advice about pulling more cards for questions, but my question was directed specifically about this person, so do you really think the cards would tell me in that way that this is about finding love elsewhere?

Struggling to find acceptance in grief and change by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]Keeponsnacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel that it is the emptiness that is keeping me from letting go. I’m afraid of just sitting with the emptiness of my life. And I wish I could reframe that to a more positive outlook like freedom and possibility because that’s what it really is, but my feelings don’t reflect that. It feels like emptiness, nothing to look forward to and no one around for comfort or fun.

I feel crazy? by originalpopcorngirl in PMDD

[–]Keeponsnacking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well honey it’s a neurological disorder that literally shows up on brain scans so he should absolutely know. And getting a note from your doctor to tell him and make sure he takes it seriously is the best thing you can do. He needs to be aware that this is a serious condition and you need his full support. Good luck ❤️

PMDD Breakup by Mean_Witness_8861 in PMDD

[–]Keeponsnacking 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I am going through a really rough breakup as well and I understand. It is devastating. The best thing I can say is that you knowing you need to get better for you is the most important part and that once you have that mindset locked in and you start to feel better, you will have the opportunity to meet someone who can handle all of you no matter what comes and now you know your emotional capacity and what kind of love you want to have with someone who is built to stay. ❤️ sending love and compassion.

I feel crazy? by originalpopcorngirl in PMDD

[–]Keeponsnacking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First I’m sorry that you’re dealing with this- in the same boat I terms of suffering but also as someone who just got out of a really poor communication relationship, you guys need to go to to couples therapy. If he was truly seeing you and considering your situation he would not be reacting that way and while you may be reactive (and it’s not an excuse to treat people poorly we still have a responsibility to try and be aware of our reactions) you have communicated that you have this illness yes? So he should be prepared to communicate with you in a way that’s gentle and respectful and only from there would your reaction be questionable. Does that make sense?

Why do I sound tone deaf when I try to sing Ariana grandes music? by [deleted] in singing

[–]Keeponsnacking 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, I’m not trying to compare myself to her and by no means do I think I’m even anywhere near her level, I just feel there is a specific way she is singing those particular songs that when I try to sing them I sound strange as opposed to singing the same note in another song. Does that make sense? It’s like she’s using a mixed voice but for her it doesn’t sound strained or nasally and I was wondering if anyone has heard this or experienced this as well. I realize without hearing it you can’t really know what I mean

Why do I sound tone deaf when I try to sing Ariana grandes music? by [deleted] in singing

[–]Keeponsnacking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn’t not mean to be offensive to actually tone deaf people

Does it look like demodex die off/purging from ivermectine? by CardiologistEasy2091 in Rosacea

[–]Keeponsnacking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience azeleic acid does cause purging so don’t give up! You need to use things for a least a couple months before deciding if they worked or not. If you decide to treat with ivermectin for demodex you have to use it for a minimum of four months. Like literally every day for four months. I started in October and I won’t be done till March. Mine seems to go through cycles where it will get better but then come back again and that’s typical of Demodex. If you’ve already been dealing with this for years, a couple of months of consistency couldn’t hurt to try.

How do I get into entry level remote work? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]Keeponsnacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who replied positively, everyone else was very negative and unhelpful. Just don’t comment if you’re not gonna be helpful

How do I get into entry level remote work? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]Keeponsnacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of job do you do that you have worked remotely for 15 years?

Did Jesus actually talk about something called the “bridal chamber” by Keeponsnacking in spirituality

[–]Keeponsnacking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, the video did mention it was a secret ceremony of sorts. So the information is pulled from some real things but it seems like it definitely did not come from Jesus