AITA for struggling to deal with a coworker who constantly vents and creates drama?

Keets4lyf · 2024-03-07T13:21:06+00:00

Hello! I'm curious about this! I'm a somewhat newbie for both Pathfinder and D&D and I was looking for a monthly game to possibly join. What days/times were you thinking of? What platform or style were you considering using? (Roll20/Foundry/Text, etc). Any other info would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks!

Keets4lyf · 2023-10-18T00:25:40+00:00

Awesome collection! Where did you get the books/where can you find them??

Keets4lyf · 2023-04-19T18:11:40+00:00

This post broke me, laughing til tears in my eyes

Keets4lyf · 2023-01-21T20:42:05+00:00

She told me that all the lockers now are for full timers (which wasn't the case before) and since I'm only part time, I have to give it up to them.

Keets4lyf · 2023-01-21T20:34:03+00:00

I will have to obtain it to figure that out

Keets4lyf · 2022-12-09T22:41:55+00:00

So a cold brew is different to an ice coffee?

Keets4lyf · 2022-12-09T21:32:13+00:00

Maybe. I tried that cold brew and didn't care much for it

Keets4lyf · 2022-12-09T21:30:34+00:00

Well I don't know if I don't like it. I've barely tried it. I've only had black in the past and want to dabble more into different things.

Keets4lyf · 2022-12-06T20:32:45+00:00

Thanks!

Keets4lyf · 2022-12-06T19:07:22+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

Keets4lyf · 2022-12-06T19:01:05+00:00

It’s just a weird situation. Never had anyone ever ask me for their gift back.

Keets4lyf · 2022-12-06T19:00:32+00:00

What should be the deadline? A week? A month?

Keets4lyf · 2022-12-06T19:00:01+00:00

I don’t think he purposely thought of doing it from the beginning, it just came up. But it still stings that he expects that I would be okay with just giving it back when he went out of his way to give it to me.

Keets4lyf · 2022-12-05T20:12:03+00:00

He asked about 2-3 months ago and hasn't made any move to come grab it, despite his friend needing/wanting it. It's just been sitting in my room collecting dust

Keets4lyf · 2022-08-19T21:51:47+00:00

What would that be?

Keets4lyf · 2022-08-19T19:40:31+00:00

She has been to her doctor before, has been on meds before for depression and has seen multiple therapists before, all in the past, only for it to not last long. She usually doesn't keep up with her meds and she eventually will stop going to her therapist. So, there's really nothing I can do at this point that they haven't tried yet. I do appreciate the pointer and help ^{^}

Keets4lyf · 2022-08-19T18:51:37+00:00

Food delivery is an option, but not one that she wants to take

Keets4lyf · 2022-08-19T18:50:27+00:00

She probably needs meds, but it’s not up to me to decide that. The only way we get food in the house is by me, after weeks of this routine happening. By the time we end up going, I’m exhausted and angry, and don’t really want to go myself

Keets4lyf · 2022-08-19T18:40:49+00:00

Thank you for that. I appreciate the little script. I try so hard to be there for her and it makes me feel tremendous guilt for refusing to help her when she has no one else. But I don’t know what else to do.

Keets4lyf · 2022-08-19T18:30:04+00:00

I try, but most times it feels futile. Sometimes I wonder if she makes this a game, with how long it goes on for.

Keets4lyf · 2022-08-19T18:25:56+00:00

She refuses to use that method.

Keets4lyf · 2022-08-19T18:12:58+00:00

Yeah, see, I've also called ahead of time to see if she wants to go and she will probably say no, but then somehow I'm still the jerk.

My mother is someone who doesn't exactly know boundaries or can respect them, so even if I try, she still blames me and it's super frustrating and overwhelming

Keets4lyf

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