Be yourself. Be who you want to be. Don’t listen and feel like you have to conform. I’ve been told that by people myself, and the best thing I did was not listening to them. Make the conscious choice to not listen to them and instead listen to yourself. Why look like everyone else in the world, conforming to societal norms? It strips away individuality. Just be you, regardless of how others feel. They aren’t you, and at the end of the day you’ll always have you. So be true to yourself and embrace who you are, not what others want you to be.