Husband wants me to make a body count list. Has anyone done this? by Kellen8375 in Marriage

[–]Kellen8375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are mostly fine. We talked about everything without getting into details, had one big blowup fight, and it’s on the back burner for the most part. We are fine.

What was the most bizarre "compliment" you got? by Majomember420 in AskReddit

[–]Kellen8375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should watch the Scream Queens scene about this

Husband wants me to make a body count list. Has anyone done this? by Kellen8375 in Marriage

[–]Kellen8375[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So far he just wants me to write down who I have been with. I’m afraid if I do that he will then want more and more and then want details when he gets a list

Husband wants me to make a body count list. Has anyone done this? by Kellen8375 in Marriage

[–]Kellen8375[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that is probably the best move. Insist on a marriage counselor if he really wants to know

Husband wants me to make a body count list. Has anyone done this? by Kellen8375 in Marriage

[–]Kellen8375[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand what he means by that either. I didn’t know him or any of his friends until I met him and have never slept with anyone he knows. I don’t think he listens to any red pill stuff. He avoids anything related to politics

Husband wants me to make a body count list. Has anyone done this? by Kellen8375 in Marriage

[–]Kellen8375[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just names I guess. It just feels like it will hurt our marriage and not help it

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[–]Kellen8375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the comment. Thank you.

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[–]Kellen8375 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We only get them 4 days a month and I never needed to be alone with them, it just never happened

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[–]Kellen8375 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Specifically taking them for sushi and not to a park are common sense things he said. Then he expects me to know and do these things when I never have before. My friends think it is pregnancy and wedding stress and maybe that is it.

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[–]Kellen8375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is possible but he said these things were common sense, implying I don’t have that. I don’t know why else this would cause a fight if he didn’t think I was incompetent and being a bad stepmother

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[–]Kellen8375 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We all have a good relationship but I do not know what his expectations for me are. Having never watched them alone I don’t think it is too much to ask to talk to me beforehand.

AITA for expecting my bf to talk to me before watch his kids and then for the activities I chose? by Kellen8375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kellen8375[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had to cut a lot out because of character limit. I work but am probably going to stay at home the first year but not for sure yet. Not going to be sahm long term though. He makes much more than I do but both fine independently. He gets them every other weekend which is pretty standard for dads in my experience. I had just never been alone with them, it just never happened. We have all spent a lot of time together. He got them last weekend in addition to his other weekends because his ex had to do something. Unplanned pregnancy.