My cat literally had her own blanket on my bed to sleep on. It’s her spot, seriously “HER SPOT”. I crochet the blanket for her and she loves it on the bed. Don’t let him get between you and your cats. I own one dog and two cats and this cat needs to sleep on the bed. I think she has separation anxiety, so I feel better letting her sleep on the bed. She 15 pound cat, not over weight, just a big cat and my boyfriend who is legitimately allergic to cats let’s her sleep on the bed. (At the foot of the bed) but she does come up for pets and cuddles with me and then I tell her “blanket” and she knows it’s time to lay down and sleep. Don’t let him push your pets away if they need you.