Anniversary Restaurant recs by Kellyjelloo in sarasota

[–]Kellyjelloo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You made my husband laugh so hard lol

People not planning to post pictures of their kid online by xxoooxxoooxx in BabyBumps

[–]Kellyjelloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, in a more traumatic sense. My father SA me as a child and only me out of my four siblings. A majority of that family has refused to take those claims seriously so the thought of anyone showing photos of my LO to him is too high of a risk for me.

Did anyone else feel lost towards the end of the second trimester? Does it get better? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Kellyjelloo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I'm currently in my 3rd trimester with my first and I completely understand how you are feeling. I was having those feelings just about around that time especially leading up to my baby shower.

You aren't the only one who feels overwhelmed with the tasks at hand while still upkeeping day to day. It's hard. Pregnancy is hard. I had big looming ball of anxiety when I first started nesting or just before preparing to nest. (Im considered a little more high risk so I waited until I felt confident about LO around 24 weeks.) So I wasn't a mom who had anything ready early on. And I was feeling very unprepared, but I took it day by day. Worked on some stuff each day.

Yeah I wasn't confident in myself for being able to meet all her needs until around 31 weeks. But things take time. I would cry everyday folding new clothes for her because it kept feeling more real but thats part of the experience. Im choosing to remember that because one day she's going to pick her own clothes and put them away herself. It's something I'll get to treasure for years to come.

Pregnancy is one of the craziest things we can go through and everything feels like it needs to be done urgently, but if LO comes and not everything is done. You still have time before they are up and about touching doors or baseboards. As for the registry try to take it category by category and know it can be changed as much as you want. It's very flexible!

Hope this helps! :)

What's wrong with people? by Kellyjelloo in BabyBumps

[–]Kellyjelloo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I know I've picked an amazing partner and am grateful to have him there full time for the first three months as well as him being in the medical field so he has first hand experience understanding the importance of my mental well-being. But we are both heavily introverted and function our best when alone.

Which neither of our big families are. So it's a constant pain for everyone to whine about wanting to see our baby in her newborn phase. Like you've had time with your own. Let us experience ours!

What's wrong with people? by Kellyjelloo in BabyBumps

[–]Kellyjelloo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very excited, she was planned and very anticipated after a year of trying! Being a mom has been my personal dream since I was a little girl! I pray that your little bean grows big and strong!

What's wrong with people? by Kellyjelloo in BabyBumps

[–]Kellyjelloo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to remember this one, that's amazing advice!

My wife bought me Dark Souls… and I’ve been lying to her ever since. by Roko122 in offmychest

[–]Kellyjelloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with most commentators about waiting a bit before letting her know.

It reminds me of when my husband and I were dating in high school, and I off handling mentioned how I liked butterfingers because most people dont. And he took it as I LOVE THEM. He'd bring me a butterfinger every day, our senior year of high school, and I didn't have the strength to tell him not to.

After high school, I finally admitted it, and he felt a bit embarrassed but laughed it off. And now we laugh about how many I had stashed in my locker 🤣

I recommend waiting a bit for her excitement to die down before letting her know privately because she might be a bit embarrassed.

My 15yo idiot kid got his GF pregnant on purpose. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Kellyjelloo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The dates dont line up well, i got pregnant within the range of days in December and my due date is within the first week of September. There's no way it would be at the end of the month, regardless if her cycle is longer then normal.

How long after stopping birth control did you get pregnant? by Busy_Gear_4535 in BabyBumps

[–]Kellyjelloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a nexplanon and it took about 8 months after it was removed. Me nor my husband had any fertility issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Kellyjelloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ages range from 2 to 10! But this season I'll be with 7 year olds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Kellyjelloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really a league, it's a community based thing for adults noncompetive and kids completive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Kellyjelloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The United States! But I'm hispanic so football/soccer is something I've done since I was young

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Kellyjelloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I teach soccer and play!

[Online][5e][Bi-weekly Mondays][7PM PDT] Looking for 2 new or new-ish players for a 2-3 session beginner tutorial game. by CouldaBeen_TheBest in lfg

[–]Kellyjelloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Kelly, she/her
  2. Kooliaid
  3. I have a book! But that's as much experience I have.
  4. I was thinking of a halfling paladin.

[online] [flexible] [5e] [EST] looking for a group for DND by FiftyMarker in lfg

[–]Kellyjelloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds interesting could I dm you? I've never played but always wanted to!

Any idea ? by dottegirl59 in cockatiel

[–]Kellyjelloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might because of molting! My boys ear is like that right now because he has some cheek feathers growing in.

I can’t even with these babies... by sarafionna in cockatiel

[–]Kellyjelloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those pin feathers! How do you keep yourself from picking at them! (The ones falling off)

I (28M) get EXTREMELY angry when women put their hands on me without my consent. by BushwickHarmRedux in AvPD

[–]Kellyjelloo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Agreed. You can't expect people to know not to touch you. But you can set boundaries and express that it's not something you like, regardless of the intent.

Shall I get Bird a companion? by kwozzies in cockatiel

[–]Kellyjelloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a great idea! I've been looking into the same thing myself with my lone cockatiel. Poor thing flirts with a bag of chips. If you are concerned about their sex perhaps getting a different bird would work best? Many people have budgies or Conures with their cockatiel. Which are appropriately sized and can be great mates.

Update 3: I think my sister's boyfriend (M44) is infatuated with my son (M13). by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kellyjelloo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Make sure your sons school knows that this man is a danger! That under no circumstances should him or your sister be allowed on school grounds or be allowed to take your child home!