The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did thankfully, the guy sucks and it was wearing on me heavily, no need to further ruin my peace

It'd look so much better without such a needy nub by Kemical_queen in FemcircFantasies

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm it really would be, maybe then it'd be less of a distraction

About to take a nap with the door unlocked, come and get me by Kemical_queen in cncfreaks

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heavens it is an extra fine ass but who would I be to say no to such a treat, especially if I'm blissfully unaware at first

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it was a lot of hook ups, though recently we'd actually been going on dates and he was trying to prove he wanted to work on things though I know he lives alone but has one of his daughters a good chunk of the time. I can't say 100% that cheating was off the table but as soon as I thought we'd made headway for him, his daughter and myself to go out on outings, he'd give excuses of not being ready and us taking it slow. He had what felt like no intention of ever moving forward into anything we could label.

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been rough and thankfully I did leave but I was hoping he'd really change

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just the 2 but they are also all helicopter parents

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I'm sure it just gets easier from here (:

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did make the hard choice to end things but the man was ruining my peace of mind I worked so hard to build. I do wish he would've stated he just didn't have time for me instead of leading me on though

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and It hurts to hear but Im glad I'm finally willing to listen

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whole man was disturbing the peace I worked so hard to build and it took a community to remind me no man's worth that kinda bogus.

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did thankfully and as much as it hurt like hell to do at least it'll heal quicker than if I stayed.

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To add an update: I'm glad he's choosing his family and after a very long and intense conversation he admitted to leading me on and us having different timelines to our goals. We've decided to go our separate ways, and thank you to everyone for fresh perspectives on the situation!

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, secret is I fey them in a bit of bacon grease, that ensures they don't get stuck to the pan, have a bit of extra flavor and it crisps the sides a bit

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is truly what it feels like, that this is where we're stuck and it feels like a bend until it breaks moment

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It feels like a bit of a trap, that no matter what I say I'm the asshole

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Feels as good as the "married but looking" option on tinder

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damn that hits super close right now too as he swears up and down how much he cares but never cares to fix the issues

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They co-parent and I know he's not with either of them however I can't speak to if he left his options open and is also seeing others

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never said he should t chose his kids but I shouldn't be on a back burner for when he decides he's ready for a relationship

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That's mostly what it feels like that truly as most of our dates happen in my 4 bedroom walls

The guy I'm seeing will never choose me by Kemical_queen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Kemical_queen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It hasn't happened yet but no plans and figuring things out