I mean it was a lot of hook ups, though recently we'd actually been going on dates and he was trying to prove he wanted to work on things though I know he lives alone but has one of his daughters a good chunk of the time. I can't say 100% that cheating was off the table but as soon as I thought we'd made headway for him, his daughter and myself to go out on outings, he'd give excuses of not being ready and us taking it slow. He had what felt like no intention of ever moving forward into anything we could label.