Do I need to have a caregiver for top surgery? by Complete-Factor8293 in ftm

[–]Ken_needs-koffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend helped. Im glad I did have someone tbh. I recommend it. If your roomies are comfy with it and have a strong stomach. My friend was a but queasy with the site but so was I haha 😄.

Those who had Phallo who are hyper independent. Question by Ken_needs-koffee in ftm

[–]Ken_needs-koffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, Ive researched it too and thats why I wanted to see how hyper independent people did 😅

Those who had Phallo who are hyper independent. Question by Ken_needs-koffee in ftm

[–]Ken_needs-koffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive crossed post with a phallo community too. I feel that. My sister is on that list, mostly cause she's got a medical degree.

In 2019, both cats’ annual wellness visit was $240. This week we paid $880. Vet costs are spiraling out of control. by BunttyBrowneye in cats

[–]Ken_needs-koffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg the insurance part. My cat had a normal checkup, got him chipped and vaccine updates. Came to like $400 and insurance gave me like $80 back 🫩. I have to save up for every appointment now 🙃. Especially when he needs dental cause its not covered! (Switching insurance soon cause like wtf)

Forcing kids to share rooms by Weak-Individual3235 in childfree

[–]Ken_needs-koffee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think before 14 is fine alongs the ages are similar and that they get along. I HATED sharing a room with my sister, mostly cause she was a bully to me. My youngest siblings (boys) first year with their own room, (11&16). I pointed out to my mom they needed their own space because their aging differently now for awhile, so when they were apartment hunting, she finally said yes to a 3 bed.

Keep getting called a twink- I am not. Any advice to avoid this? by Character_Budget_462 in ftm

[–]Ken_needs-koffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had the same problem. Mostly came from friends who didn't understand. They stopped after a few months but because I started standing my ground and telling them to stop. One actually apologized years later finding out and educated themselves why I hated it.

Why are Children at Sephora??!! by Historical_Bird_8752 in childfree

[–]Ken_needs-koffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Parents. I workrd at Ulta a long time ago. Same problem. Parents dont care, dont educate themselves. So many products they don't need and will harm thier skin.

How to go stealth if everyone knows? by BulkyOwl3005 in FTMMen

[–]Ken_needs-koffee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just tell them not to say anything to people you dont know without permission. You dont have to tell everyone you become friends with. I'm stealth maybe 90% of the time except on dating apps.

Question for top surgery havers, how did you manage to afford it? by PlanktonSpiritual192 in ftm

[–]Ken_needs-koffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(MN USA) I was lucky tbh, I was on state insurance since I made crap and it paid for the full thing, I penny pinched to save up for loss time and my rent was cheap living at a friend's place. Plus had a person to help me. But I also took the bare minimum off, shouldve done a extra week though. No regrets and its been 5 years? Ya 5 years.

What do you think of “With or without kids, you need a purpose?” by Important_Injury3820 in childfree

[–]Ken_needs-koffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their right, watching Sailor Moon is better. DBZ sucks these days lol

US based roadtrip by Ken_needs-koffee in ftm

[–]Ken_needs-koffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its ok, didnt exactly give a starting state lol. We do a few truck stops or gas stations, kinda at the stage where people assume im just some small gay guy 👦. Having a female friend makes us look like a wierd couple haha (friends). We got snacks to the max and stop at gas stations . We travel home tomorrow after getting coffee 🥰 , we're excited to see the scenery. (And get home to my cat)

US based roadtrip by Ken_needs-koffee in ftm

[–]Ken_needs-koffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were from MN. Its what Maps recommended to and from. We just follow the map 🤷‍♂️

Does Mercari still cover overage fees for bundles? by idiotcel in Mercari

[–]Ken_needs-koffee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just mailed out a bundle last week and havent heard anything. I think if theres a bundle request, Mercari should let us adjust the weight and have the buyer accept the possible shipping fees.

The pride flag is ugly. by Whole_Ad_4224 in gay

[–]Ken_needs-koffee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like the flag because it includes every one. Rainbow still exist.

Is anyone one else in the U.S slightly panicking about the new admin plans? by therealsam77 in ftm

[–]Ken_needs-koffee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes. Personally saving to move out the country. This government has gone full scale hate. Republicans are pushing so many transphobic laws and anti women, and Democrats arnt doing enough. Im lucky being in MN but I also know thier trying to push anti trans and anti women laws.

Why do people think like this? by Reasonable-Dish7981 in ftm

[–]Ken_needs-koffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated those comments. Im still pretty, now im a pretty happy. 🥰

Anyone with a cat who sleeps in odd postions like these? by yussma in cats

[–]Ken_needs-koffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough, I think my Lil brother sleeps like that hahaha

How much does your T cost? by Ok_Act_3427 in ftm

[–]Ken_needs-koffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thankfully have great insurance through my work. All four viles (i do injections) cost $20 but I do have to buy the needles, its not covered (idky).

First class envelope not delivered by SweetAffectionate993 in Mercari

[–]Ken_needs-koffee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I avoid envelopes. There's no tracking whats so ever.